Sometimes I feel like I'll never have sex again...

[mariahcooper]

BTW, I'm not ugly. That's the thing that gets to me about this...

F*ck it...shirtless gym pic in spoiler...

Spoiler

I just think this mentality has just come from years of mental abuse and constant rejection...

Look how hard I gotta work just to have a woman say hi to me...

Why do I gotta work so hard to do things that require no work for other people?

are u shy or awkward? maybe its ur personality..ive seen some over weight ugly dudes with pretty females. personality goes a long way. your in shape so that already gives you a plus. maybe u should try socializing with different people.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

I tell cats this all the time.. Know your market. Make a mental note of where you're success or your failures come from, what area, what crowd, etc. Are you good in spots where hoodrats hang out at, are you good with the cute 9-5 working regular chicks dwell at, are you good with bougie college educated woman, are you good with instagram-groupie-club b*tches, etc.. Are you better in restaurant bars or quiet lounges as opposed to bottle popping turnt up clubs? Do you pull at music festivals, concerts, or sporting events? Do you get play in certain cities as opposed to where you live at? etc etc etc.. the older you get you gotta have some ideal of this, especially if you're single...male or female. Of course you want to branch out here and there but at least you should have some ideal of where you have a high potential for positive feedback from the opposite sex.

one of the most important post in coli history

 

[DrX]

I went on a date with a guy like this once. All he did was bytch and moan about how he was single, how no one wanted him, etc. He was negative about everything. He as a good looking dude and had a good job but all he wanted to do was complain. He kept telling me he would settle for chicks with kids b/c he was lonely. He depressed the shyt out of me. I took most of my food in a doggie bag so I could eat it at home alone. Needless to say he got thrown to the bushes.

People create their own realities.

ur perfect now?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Tbh if I'm honest, when I get a few years older I plan on marrying into foreign royalty and wealth like Jay Electronica.

 

[Serious]

You my nikka and all, but I stopped reading at "I havent had sex since July 2012.

I just...what....h....no..wait...wh...no. daam.....fukk it. I'm outta here, I think it's best I read this when I'm sober.

That's what I'm saying

You aren't missing anything.

Do nikkaz not see the irony in claiming not to care about something yet creating threads about the very topic?

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If you havin girl problems I feel bad for you, son...

I got 99 problems and a bytch aint one

The responses in this thread are pretty bad. There are some good ones but unfortunately, a lot are bad.

Yeah man, I finally got a good one, and trying to be cautious because I always hear about good girls being hard too find....

If he looked like the pitcher posted in the pic thread, he's not ugly to me

If he's failing at finding women it's either because he's going after the type that requires him to be loaded or, he'll maybe he's just not nice? Maybe it's the personality. If you're over 26 it's time to stop the bad boy or @sshole schtick.

still got a few more years, where being an a$$hole is still seen as being cute....

They're more cleaner than fukking a women you met on the street. If they dnt get tested constantly then could catch sum and lose they clients, and they money

@DEAD7 this kid understands how the free market works

I'm in the same boat. I have no friends, never had a gf, i live with my gmom, don't drive, never done anything sexual etc. and i'm 24. All I do is work 10 hours a day and go home. I did go on my one and only date in my life last year, found out that it was a pity date after though so fukk it. I don't care anymore.

I could have sworn you used to post about smashing girls off of tagged..

He's right those...Chicks in those places are aggressive as fukk to get their hands on black dudes...The thirst is real overseas in especially in Europe, if you're an average to above average looking black dude from America...

Don't let the white supremacy in America fool cats into thinking brothers don't like crazy overseas...

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Ok so I finally read the thread.

1. You probably suck at reading signs, women give loads, and some men just suck at it. I noticed you talked about how you've failed approaching women, but not once mention women going after you. This leads me to believe you either don't read signs well, or you trying to get women out of your league.

2. How often do you go to venues that are full of black women? and if you do, do you still fail at these places?

 

[Jesus]

I'm quite surprised that most of you who replied even get women with such mentality. There is an art to charming a girl and you all sound clueless referring to women as hoes and b!tches.

bytch, I'll Deebo the puss.

 

[Serious]

Ok so I finally read the thread.

1. You probably suck at reading signs, women give loads, and some men just suck at it. I noticed you talked about how you've failed approaching women, but not once mention women going after you. This leads me to believe you either don't read signs well, or you trying to get women out of your league.

Has to be, dude isn't too far lookwise from me or someone like @Black Jesus, yet I tend to do fairly well with minimal effort. At this point in my life, I'm used to get approached more than rejected...

 

[semtex]

A lot of people are having meltdowns on the coli lately.

must be somethin in the air cause I been feelin a lil on edge too

 

[semtex]

Yo dikk cares breh

 

[Jesus]

I use the upfront witty approach with women...once I realized they have more to lose than I do it all became clear. I could pull a girl in her early 20s when I am near 40...most women have until 30 to settle down when their looks start to FADE.

Like another dude said...my p*ssy rate is high, but I get my fair share of rejections. I might get disappointed and lose my confidence a little...but that creature with makeup on and the hundreds of selfies on her phone doesn't have a fraction of that. Know your prey.

I need to stop posting drunk online.

 

[Art Barr]

Usually this guy only posts incoherent rambling, but as a black male who lives in Brooklyn, he's on point with the bolded.

you see how emotional you are.
that is why you are only able to bag backpages broads.
you are to emotional and wear your shyt on your sleeve.
plus, you are fukk'n hater.
you mad, cause I have the life experience of fukk'n multiple females in one day consistently for more than eighteen straight months.
plus, been given houses, too.
yousa john face ass nikka....
stop the bullshyt....


art barr

 

[garlic_bulb]

you see how emotional you are.
that is why you are only able to bag backpages broads.
you are to emotional and wear your shyt on your sleeve.
plus, you are fukk'n hater.
you mad, cause I have the life experience of fukk'n multiple females in one day consistently for more than eighteen straight months.
plus, been given houses, too.
yousa john face ass nikka....
stop the bullshyt....


art barr

What houses you been given? What the fukk are you talking about you brain damaged scum?

Why are you typing like a hobo?

What is this shyt? -

Are you from Bolivian camp my nikka?

Worthless piece of shyt.

 

[Art Barr]

What houses you been given? What the fukk are you talking about you brain damaged scum?

Why are you typing like a hobo?

What is this shyt? -

Are you from Bolivian camp my nikka?

Worthless piece of shyt.

log into and use an alias accounts, breh!!


art barr

 

[AbyssinianGal]

bytch, I'll Deebo the puss.

B!tch? Not every woman is like your moms or sister.