Someone just told me guys can't have girls as friends

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I have platonic female friends, so it's possible. These particular girls are far more valuable to me as friends than as romantic interests, and I know we wouldn't work as anything more than friends in the first place, so :ehh:
 

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No, it didn't , but if i'm married am I really gonna make attempts to hang out with them? (without my wife being with me?). Come on now breh

so there good enough and its ok to be a females "friend" when your single , but not when your married?

a friend is a friend is a friend and should be a friend under any situation

see my point?
 
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So basically no, guys can't have females as friends.
Not an attractive female...

It makes no sense...Guys who have female friends are wither 1) Not attracted to them physically (the guy doesn't think she is sexually appealing)...Her presence is neutral to his penis...2) They already did or tried to hit that, and they either both realized it wasn't going to work, but they still enjoy each other's company or they have been watching too much "Dawson's Creek" are stuck in a perpetual "I love but I am confused" state, with the guy typically being the simp who is watching his dream girl suck every other penis but his...

Guys and Girls can be mutually acquainted and have boundaries type of "friendships," but to be so comfortable with a girl that she sleeps on your bed, you cuddle while watching movies together, you have your own language together, they are the first person you want to tell something, you don't want to have an experience without them type of friendship...

To have that and not want it to be more is absolutely RIDICULOUS...Especially if the girl looks like the type that every dude has to look twice when she passes by...

Even if you had that kind of friendship with a woman, MOST of your relationships with other women will NOT work out...because they will always see something that you are either too stupid and weak to pursue or just plain ignorant and oblivious to recognize...
 

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Not an attractive female...

It makes no sense...Guys who have female friends are wither 1) Not attracted to them physically (the guy doesn't think she is sexually appealing)...Her presence is neutral to his penis...2) They already did or tried to hit that, and they either both realized it wasn't going to work, but they still enjoy each other's company or they have been watching too much "Dawson's Creek" are stuck in a perpetual "I love but I am confused" state, with the guy typically being the simp who is watching his dream girl suck every other penis but his...

Guys and Girls can be mutually acquainted and have boundaries type of "friendships," but to be so comfortable with a girl that she sleeps on your bed, you cuddle while watching movies together, you have your own language together, they are the first person you want to tell something, you don't want to have an experience without them type of friendship...

To have that and not want it to be more is absolutely RIDICULOUS...Especially if the girl looks like the type that every dude has to look twice when she passes by...

Even if you had that kind of friendship with a woman, MOST of your relationships with other women will NOT work out...because they will always see something that you are either too stupid and weak to pursue or just plain ignorant and oblivious to recognize...

even if shes ugly it still wont work, one of the parties will always want the person as more than a friend.

Hell I was close "friends" with a chick from elementary school, she's like a hick town 6 nothing great :ehh:, well a few years ago after like almost 20 years of friendship she tells me "so how come you have never asked me out" :beli:
 
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