So basically you can't win so why try?If a woman is attractive and you get along, and you must have libido problems if you don't make an attempt...
If she rejects you when you make an attempt, then you must be a corny simp to stick around and listen to her talk about her boyfriend all day...
If the woman isn't f+cking you and isn't helping you get richer, then why exactly are you hanging around for...?