Sohh legalising polygamy is being considered but only for the wealthy

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Bruh, your boss at work who probably barely makes 6 figures could pull your girl.

Have you ever thought of that?

You don't have to be a millionaire.

But what happens, is that the scale shifts all the way down.

When you could make 75K and live a decent life, now you can't cause the dude making 120K probably has 2 girls...and you were struggling just to get 1.

You don't have to be a baller to see how the average dude keeps losing.

And remember...MOST PEOPLE SETTLE when they get in relationships. No one wants to admit this. You settled. and SHE settled. She DEFINITELY settled.

I don't have a boss so I can't relate
also ya boss; wife is probably getting fukked by a broke nikka with crusty feet, while she giving him his money

Also you are simp, which is why you think you need money to have a woman lmao

MOST PEOPLE ARE FAILURES

You are a failure, so you think in terms of failure

A real man would see multiple wives as a plus, you have three incomes to build off, besides your own
 

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Just because it's legal? There is nothing stopping any of that from happening right now and there would be nothing compelling people to do anything different if it was legal. I'm not saying it's bad, I'm saying that's just how it is and there wouldn't be much change if polygamy was legal.
This is untrue.

People would commit to marriage less and less. That means more hold-outs on trying to get into more polygamous unions. That means fewer people for even fewer candidates.

Did you think about why polygamy is unpopular in the western progressive world?

Polygamy isn't new to humanity. We've tried it. And the results didn't work in favor of the average person.

You act like this is some novel idea.
 

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I don't have a boss so I can't relate
also ya boss; wife is probably getting fukked by a broke nikka with crusty feet, while she giving him his money

Also you are simp, which is why you think you need money to have a woman lmao

MOST PEOPLE ARE FAILURES

You are a failure, so you think in terms of failure

A real man would see multiple wives as a plus, you have three incomes to build off, besides your own
Bruh, chances are, a woman isn't going to marry into a polygamous union if she still has to work.

What you're saying makes no sense.

Why would she join into more, for less?
 

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Is Polygamy Really So Awful?

“Monogamous marriage reduces crime,” Henrich and colleagues write, pulling together studies showing that polygynous societies create large numbers of unmarried men, whose presence is correlated with increased rates of rape, theft, murder, and substance abuse. According to Henrich, the problem with unmarried men appears to come primarily from their lack of investment in family life and in children. Young men without futures tend to engage in riskier behaviors because they have less to lose. And, too, they may engage in certain crimes to get wives—stealing to amass enough wealth to attract women, or kidnapping other men’s wives.



Some of ya'll have selfish reasons for pursuing this. Theres a reason the most ass-backwards places on earth still have polygamy. :francis:
 
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As long as there are no tax or other government benefits to it, I don't have a problem with it.

If 7 consenting adults want to hold down and uplift a single household how is that any of my business? :ld:
 

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This is untrue.

People would commit to marriage less and less. That means more hold-outs on trying to get into more polygamous unions. That means fewer people for even fewer candidates.

Did you think about why polygamy is unpopular in the western progressive world?

Polygamy isn't new to humanity. We've tried it. And the results didn't work in favor of the average person.

You act like this is some novel idea.

People already commit to marriage less. Polygamy has been tried in societies where men run shyt and women are property. Women have freedom and choices in this country. So if you legalize polygamy tomorrow that will not make them any more likely to enter a a poly relationship. Chicks don't like sharing dudes with other chicks that they don't interact with where it's purely sexual but you think they are suddenly gonna be open to sharing their husband, family, space, and resources with another chick or a few other chicks just because it's legal ? Like I said, you can do everything but legally commit now. If people were that into what you are talking about, every rich man already be on some Hugh Hefner shyt. Nothing is stopping people that want the polygamous lifestyle from living a very reasonable facsimile of it.
 

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As long as there are no tax or other government benefits to it, I don't have a problem with it.

If 7 consenting adults want to hold down and uplift a single household how is that any of my business? :ld:
because 6 of those adults in a small city piss off the other potential mates.

This isn't a one off situation

Again, consider this.

Theres 8 million people in NYC.

1% of that is 80,000 people.

Lets say half 40,000 male and 40,000 female.

If all of those women entered a relationship with males already in couples of 2 females to 1 male, heres what that looks like:

Thats 20,000 males without mates.

And thats just 1% of NYC's population.

And thats just ONE American city.
 

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People already commit to marriage less. Polygamy has been tried in societies where men run shyt and women are property. Women have freedom and choices in this country. So if you legalize polygamy tomorrow that will not make them any more likely to enter a a poly relationship. Chicks don't like sharing dudes with other chicks that they don't interact with where it's purely sexual but you think they are suddenly gonna be open to sharing their husband, family, space, and resources with another chick or a few other chicks just because it's legal ? Like I said, you can do everything but legally commit now. If people were that into what you are talking about, every rich man already be on some Hugh Hefner shyt. Nothing is stopping people that want the polygamous lifestyle from living a very reasonable facsimile of it.

Again, you remove the other options people have for mates when they get soaked up for other dudes.

You really think women wouldn't be ok with that?

I mean, it goes the other way too.

Oprah types would suck up tons of dudes.

Gays and lesbians would do the same.

You shift the balance immensely. And the legally commitment changes things radically. Its not the same.

The thing about Hugh Hefner is that he doesn't marry those women.

A lot of Hefners ex-girlfriends found other men to date.

When you have polygamy, those other men have NO chance.
 

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If you want to marry more than one lady...show proof of income..that you can support more than one household..
its beyond money.

Theres people who would do it and just be OK with a middle class lifestyle, but you remove options for other mates in the world.

You all are not thinking about OTHER people.

Laws aren't for you. They're for everyone else.
 

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its beyond money.

Theres people who would do it and just be OK with a middle class lifestyle, but you remove options for other mates in the world.

You all are not thinking about OTHER people.

Laws aren't for you. They're for everyone else.
My point is..if you cant afford to take care of one household..you dont need extras wives..
 

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Ive said this before countless times but ill say this again....

my uncle (my dads younger brother) has four wives ...... they each live in a separate house .... I think he has six or seven kids .... even though we are very close I cant remember...... he spends a different night in each house

Ive seen polygamy first hand up close ........

None of you are built for that life ..... I wouldnt wish that stress on my worst enemy
 

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Again, you remove the other options people have for mates when they get soaked up for other dudes.

You really think women wouldn't be ok with that?

I mean, it goes the other way too.

Oprah types would suck up tons of dudes.

Gays and lesbians would do the same.

You shift the balance immensely. And the legally commitment changes things radically. Its not the same.

The thing about Hugh Hefner is that he doesn't marry those women.

A lot of Hefners ex-girlfriends found other men to date.

When you have polygamy, those other men have NO chance.

You really think they would? If they were down, it would already be happening. People break laws to do what they want everyday. From drugs, to sex, to guns, to DUI, everyday millions of people break laws to do something that they want to do. How many people out here living the polygamous lifestyle illegally breh? No one is going to start just because it's legal. Laws don't stop people from doing things, they make them be more cautious (and some people aren't even that cautious) or they provide grounds for punishment.
 
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because 6 of those adults in a small city piss off the other potential mates.

This isn't a one off situation

Again, consider this.

Theres 8 million people in NYC.

1% of that is 80,000 people.

Lets say half 40,000 male and 40,000 female.

If all of those women entered a relationship with males already in couples of 2 females to 1 male, heres what that looks like:

Thats 20,000 males without mates.

And thats just 1% of NYC's population.

And thats just ONE American city.

Ahh so you're worried you won't be able to compete in such a society. Step your game up. People shouldn't have to stifle their pursuit of happiness to protect you from dealing with the consequences of your inadequacies:ld:
 
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