Sohh legalising polygamy is being considered but only for the wealthy

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Like Napoleon said..... nikkas got delusions of grandeur. In third world countries for example, it's legal, and it's rife with problems. Rich men scoop up all the women and the poor/average dude becomes a terrorist :hubie:

With the economy getting rougher and rougher.... it's not unreasonable to think a lot of women would choose to be one of many wives of a rich man than to struggle and have real love with a poor man. And men are irrational and egotistical..... hence I def see a lot of dudes marrying up a lot of women out of sheer pride :manny:

If you're not a millionaire or a dude with several women already you're deluding yourself to see this as a win.
 

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Yeah but their argument was that its their human right to marry whoever they choose so long as they are consenting adults. I see no problem here. :yeshrug:
and I disagree with that.

Marriage is a system we created. We could go back to communal lifestyles, but thats just not gonna happen. People aren't that radical. You have to work with what you have.

I think you should be able to marry ONE person you want. Gay or straight.

Thats what we have now.

Polygamy just pisses off people who can't compete even further.

Remember, you were NOT your mates first choice.

And you don't have to be a millionaire either.

Theres a lot of charismatic 6 figure dudes who would pull your girl and all her friends you thought you had a chance with.

The law isn't just for you, its for everyone else.
 

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If you take the AA community as an example, isn't there a shortage of men due to the war on drugs? Polygamy could fix this problem :mjgrin:

Plus it's the African way. The ancestors would approve :Hemad:

Africans reserved that for WEALTHY dudes who could actually take care of those women, not errbody.............:martin:

And, no, it wasn't 'The Norm'.

Ask Cheikh Anta Diop.​
 

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Like Napoleon said..... nikkas got delusions of grandeur. In third world countries for example, it's legal, and it's rife with problems. Rich men scoop up all the women and the poor/average dude becomes a terrorist :hubie:

With the economy getting rougher and rougher.... it's not unreasonable to think a lot of women would choose to be one of many wives of a rich man than to struggle and have real love with a poor man. And men are irrational and egotistical..... hence I def see a lot of dudes marrying up a lot of women out of sheer pride :manny:

If you're not a millionaire or a dude with several women already you're deluding yourself to see this as a win.
its WORSE in poor and undeveloped countries.

Because a lot of those countries are extra religious on top of being polygamous, so not only can you not find a spouse:

- you don't have gay marriage (if you're gay)
- You can't have recreational sex (due to the religiosity of the society)
- economic gaps are so much wider that you can't even compete with anyone who can take care of themselves
-

You know what you see a lot of these dudes in these societies doing?

Drugs
Terrorism
Crime
Corruption
etc.

When you remove the ability from people to find mates, they fill their time with things that break society down.
 

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Even in a scenario where you had equal numbers of females and males, polygamy would ensure that only the top dawgs could reproduce, thus improving the overall quality of the population.

The reason why shyt is messed up right now is because you got women having to settle for all kinds of simps and losers, thus reproducing entire generations of simps and losers :scust:

Muhfukkas passing on their low quality genes to the next generation :Coleworld::Kendrick:
 

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Africans reserved that for WEALTHY dudes who could actually take care of those women, not errbody.............:martin:

And, no, it wasn't 'The Norm'.

Ask Cheikh Anta Diop.​

So? I totally agree with that. If a breh can take care of more than one woman and they all agree to this arrangement, what's the problem? :Cosby:
 

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A lot of you nikkaz are simps, lmao at needing to be wealty have three wives

lmao that three pay cheeks coming to you, you can get rich with more than one wife, not the other way around
Bruh, your boss at work who probably barely makes 6 figures could pull your girl.

Have you ever thought of that?

You don't have to be a millionaire.

But what happens, is that the scale shifts all the way down.

When you could make 75K and live a decent life, now you can't cause the dude making 120K probably has 2 girls...and you were struggling just to get 1.

You don't have to be a baller to see how the average dude keeps losing.

And remember...MOST PEOPLE SETTLE when they get in relationships. No one wants to admit this. You settled. and SHE settled. She DEFINITELY settled.
 

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what are you saying?

If you wanna be on that swinger lifestyle, knock yourself out.

But legally, if you start removing mates from the pool via the obstacles and benefits of marriage, then you remove that many more viable mates from the dating pool who people can engage with.

That seeds resentment.

Imagine a small town of 50,000 people of adult/dating age.

If even 5% of the city gets into polygamous union, you remove an additional 2,500 people out of the dating pool who could have been the other mates options.

Again, this is more than just sex. Relationships are a strong symbol of identity and when you remove that, people go crazy.

Its literally trying to keep society together.

I'm cool with gay marriage. But gay polygamy causes the same problems because you're removing mates from the pool.

What I said is very clear. Plenty of chicks have been removed from the dating pool as they are the plaything of some dude that got 10 other chicks. The nice guys that they pass on grow to be resentful both of the female and the dude pulling the strings. Everything that you listed happens or can happen with the exception of the legal stuff.
 

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Even in a scenario where you had equal numbers of females and males, polygamy would ensure that only the top dawgs could reproduce, thus improving the overall quality of the population.

The reason why shyt is messed up right now is because you got women having to settle for all kinds of simps and losers, thus reproducing entire generations of simps and losers :scust:

Muhfukkas passing on their low quality genes to the next generation :Coleworld::Kendrick:
bruh, you talking like YOURE A1 material though.

Someone can ALWAYS eat your lunch.

You'd have rich fugly fat dudes like Trump wifing your girl...not you.

Don't forget...you can always be out-done.
 

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its WORSE in poor and undeveloped countries.

Because a lot of those countries are extra religious on top of being polygamous, so not only can you not find a spouse:

- you don't have gay marriage (if you're gay)
- You can't have recreational sex (due to the religiosity of the society)
- economic gaps are so much wider that you can't even compete with anyone who can take care of themselves
-

You know what you see a lot of these dudes in these societies doing?

Drugs
Terrorism
Crime
Corruption
etc.

When you remove the ability from people to find mates, they fill their time with things that break society down.

Polygamy is rare even in the Arab world despite what you may think. There's a crisis of marriage in places like Egypt because families request crazy amounts of money for the wedding and most of the youth are unemployed. I've been there and seen the struggle.

It would solve a lot of problems IMO.
 

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What I said is very clear. Plenty of chicks have been removed from the dating pool as they are the plaything of some dude that got 10 other chicks. The nice guys that they pass on grow to be resentful both of the female and the dude pulling the strings. Everything that you listed happens or can happen with the exception of the legal stuff.
But that dude doesn't commit to them.

YOu're saying its bad now, then it gets even worse.

The same way washed up chicks end up getting scooped, you remove that possibility for that many more mates.

I didn't say things were "great" now...but the only bad thing that happens now is that you may lose your first option.

With polygamy, you lose your 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc. pick.

You don't lose once. You lose INFINITELY.

Theres dudes on this very forum whose girls would straight up leave them tomorrow if you could marry more than one girl.
 

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bruh, you talking like YOURE A1 material though.

Someone can ALWAYS eat your lunch.

You'd have rich fugly fat dudes like Trump wifing your girl...not you.

Don't forget...you can always be out-done.

OK now you're taking shyt to an extreme :mjlol:
 

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Polygamy is rare even in the Arab world despite what you may think. There's a crisis of marriage in places like Egypt because families request crazy amounts of money for the wedding and most of the youth are unemployed. I've been there and seen the struggle.

It would solve a lot of problems IMO.
bruh, its not that its rare. Its that it exists over there.

Because again, the scale gets shifted towards fewer people with more resources thus leaving the average person unavailable.

I didn't say everyone would do it, but there is a tipping point at which the average man can't continue to compete.
 

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But that dude doesn't commit to them.

YOu're saying its bad now, then it gets even worse.

The same way washed up chicks end up getting scooped, you remove that possibility for that many more mates.

I didn't say things were "great" now...but the only bad thing that happens now is that you may lose your first option.

With polygamy, you lose your 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc. pick.

You don't lose once. You lose INFINITELY.

Theres dudes on this very forum whose girls would straight up leave them tomorrow if you could marry more than one girl.

Just because it's legal? There is nothing stopping any of that from happening right now and there would be nothing compelling people to do anything different if it was legal. I'm not saying it's bad, I'm saying that's just how it is and there wouldn't be much change if polygamy was legal.
 
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