Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
i'm not afraid of child support. only broke nikkaz and nikkaz who don't wanna take care of their children fear child support. i'm neither.
So there may be a custody battle brewing....
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i'm not afraid of child support. only broke nikkaz and nikkaz who don't wanna take care of their children fear child support. i'm neither.
Kings County
Law III | Law XXV | Law XV
oh snap!
You've started speaking to each other again!
wheres the other threads i missed them
it's clear she can't afford it, file for custody of your damn son and take care of him
This is never the first option as you can see with the TS. He clearly stated he has all his ducks lined up and only wants to keep his son for a short period until she gets her stuff together.
I'm pretty sure in a year or so he'll be complaining about the child support payments being too damn high and the son being conditioned to hate his "ain't shyt daddy".
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
it's clear she can't afford it, file for custody of your damn son and take care of him
breh...i just had that conversation 10 minutes ago. you don't actually think i could do all that within 10 minutes time, right?
iceberg_is_on_fire
Wearing Lions gear when it wasn't cool
Time to get the child and keep him. Basically its this, if you can't support yourself, how can you be expected to support someone else. Child support is child support, not child and adult support.
hope u can live off of half
DrunkenNovice
Superstar
Damn....obviously you're dealing with a mad woman so you arent going to get any rational conversation from her.
Personally I believe you should have just asked her what she believed the solution was after she shot down yours; instead of getting into "splitting up the boys" and which parent is most important argument.
Don't let an angry woman steer the conversation breh
Personally I believe you should have just asked her what she believed the solution was after she shot down yours; instead of getting into "splitting up the boys" and which parent is most important argument.
Don't let an angry woman steer the conversation breh
breh...i just had that conversation 10 minutes ago. you don't actually think i could do all that within 10 minutes time, right?
so you gonna do it?
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
yep. i think this is what it is too... and the fact that she couldn't draw child support from me if he stays with me. shyt is sad breh.
i didn't even think it was like that....
MooseMouthMthafuga
Veteran
she doesn't. but I do....so i don't see the problem. i only want what's best for my son. if she can handle it, then i'm not opposed to him staying with her and paying child support. not at all. i just don't want my son to have to suffer just because we couldn't stay married. it's not fair to him. all i'm saying is that he can stay with me until she gets everything together. then he can go with her. am i missing something? what did i say that was unreasonable?
Once a boy reaches 8 years old, he should go stay with his father anyway.Especially if the father is responsible and has his shyt together.
Moms(especially black mothers) have to learn how to let go.You're going to always be the apple our eye, but clinging onto us, and holding us in your grasp will only make us weak and unprepared.
Every once in a while, yall hit the lottery, and do it successfully, but that's an exception to the rule.It limits most of us
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
ya'll certainly have a misconception of child support. 20% is what my child is entitled to. he is already on my medical insurance, and I have life insurance for him too. 20% is NOWHERE near half.
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
more than likely, she'll find something suitable for her and the boys to stay in before February. i'm almost positive about that. i'm just fukked up by the way that she came at me like she holds ALL the cards and she has me by the balls, and i make no decisions and i should just stand around and accept it like all of the other daddies that do. too bad that's not me....i was hoping that we could handle business without getting the courts involved, but if i have to get them involved, i can and will. she is the one that will hurt financially after it's all said and done...
I warned noggas about wifing single moms
Gonna be paying bread for a kid that ain't even yours
Gonna be paying bread for a kid that ain't even yours