So there may be a custody battle brewing....

[BedRoomI'z]

You're going to catch hell for that.My sons mother wasn't around for the first two years of his life.She moved to Miami with her new dude and we agreed to let my son stay with me.



She moved back here 2 years ago, but she tries to project her guilt onto me when my son doesn't want to do anything with her.


Just the other day, he refused to get in the car with her.He ran behind me and said "I'm staying with my dad".The shyt was heartbreaking to me because I'd never seen him act like that.Normally he'll be a lil soldier and go, but he took a stand that day.He tried to run away from her.When he did get in the car, he kept trying to open the door to get out.


She blamed it on a argument we had a few weeks ago, but it wasn't really a blow up.After that, she said it's because me and my family talk about her in front of him...she's never around and my family don't even give a fukk that she exist.


After that it was, "you spoil him to much".....People tell me I'm a lil to stern on him


What do these ho's want, breh?


At one point, she was saying it's good to spoil your kids because not enough black babies get spoiled.


And then if you spend to much time with the kid and they bond with you more than they bond with her, they get all self conscious and start blaming everybody but themselves.shyt's psychotic IMO


And then if you don't spend any time with your kids, you "ain't shyt" and you're a dog ass nikka?


The expect you to balance that shyt perfectly why absolving them of any responsibility/ guilt.Basically, they want you to go along with their phony bullshyt.Once the kid starts to feel like moms just doing it to save face, and not because she genuinely cares, don't get mad at me.You was gone for 2 years......now you wanna come back and expect instant mommy privileges? it sad because the children have to get caught up in grown up bullshyt and have their feelings/instincts discounted.


Children know genuine love when they see it.Don't get mad when they can see right through your bullshyt

Jesus, I feel your pain right now.

My dude going through this right now

God, I hate bitter women with a passion

 

[Broke Wave]

My advice is don't fight her on anything, just try and get as much access to your boys as possible. Don't debate with her or anything like that just do whatever you can to see your lil nikkas.

 

[OH SOHH TRILL]

"A b!tch ain't gone let something like sense get in the way of her argument." - Chris Rock

 

[shopthatwrecks]

she never looked for a place in the first place..how u find somethin n she didnt..

she was waitin on ya move...play the guilt trip...u offered..

she ran it by her family n friends...she took a logical situation n flipped it..


better u put yaself on child support..n try n get custody vs..her doin it..n her gettin ya new spot..forcin u to move n find somethin else

i kno some broads who did soem nikkas like this...dude got a brand new house n everything...had it set up..so that if he had to n the girl didnt find nuthin..the boys could stay with dad since he lived in the same area..n stay at the same charter schools..

he mentioned to the broad..she went made it like dude was takin the kids..to her friends n aunts n shyt..

came back... filed on the dude..the brand new 4bedrooms 3.5 baths he jus bought in his name...which she aint have shyt to do with...she ended up gettin..n he had to continue payin the bills on it..

n he had to find some bullshyt ass studio...

 

[Turbulent]

she never looked for a place in the first place..how u find somethin n she didnt..

she was waitin on ya move...play the guilt trip...u offered..

she ran it by her family n friends...she took a logical situation n flipped it..


better u put yaself on child support..n try n get custody vs..her doin it..n her gettin ya new spot..forcin u to move n find somethin else

i kno some broads who did soem nikkas like this...dude got a brand new house n everything...had it set up..so that if he had to n the girl didnt find nuthin..the boys could stay with dad since he lived in the same area..n stay at the same charter schools..

he mentioned to the broad..she went made it like dude was takin the kids..to her friends n aunts n shyt..

came back... filed on the dude..the brand new 4bedrooms 3.5 baths he jus bought in his name...which she aint have shyt to do with...she ended up gettin..n he had to continue payin the bills on it..

n he had to find some bullshyt ass studio...

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

If you get married, don't get divorced.

I don't think I'll ever get married. This shyt is just too murch.

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[MooseMouthMthafuga]

she never looked for a place in the first place..how u find somethin n she didnt..

she was waitin on ya move...play the guilt trip...u offered..

she ran it by her family n friends...she took a logical situation n flipped it..


better u put yaself on child support..n try n get custody vs..her doin it..n her gettin ya new spot..forcin u to move n find somethin else

i kno some broads who did soem nikkas like this...dude got a brand new house n everything...had it set up..so that if he had to n the girl didnt find nuthin..the boys could stay with dad since he lived in the same area..n stay at the same charter schools..

he mentioned to the broad..she went made it like dude was takin the kids..to her friends n aunts n shyt..

came back... filed on the dude..the brand new 4bedrooms 3.5 baths he jus bought in his name...which she aint have shyt to do with...she ended up gettin..n he had to continue payin the bills on it..

n he had to find some bullshyt ass studio...

 

[MikelArteta]

you my nikka and all, but fukk OUTTA HERE WIT THIS shyt!!!!

his daddy already pays child support on him and is still in his life. there is NO WAY that i'd be required to pay double for 1 child. come on breh.....

Did you adopt him?

 

[MoneyTron]

she never looked for a place in the first place..how u find somethin n she didnt..

she was waitin on ya move...play the guilt trip...u offered..

she ran it by her family n friends...she took a logical situation n flipped it..


better u put yaself on child support..n try n get custody vs..her doin it..n her gettin ya new spot..forcin u to move n find somethin else

i kno some broads who did soem nikkas like this...dude got a brand new house n everything...had it set up..so that if he had to n the girl didnt find nuthin..the boys could stay with dad since he lived in the same area..n stay at the same charter schools..

he mentioned to the broad..she went made it like dude was takin the kids..to her friends n aunts n shyt..

came back... filed on the dude..the brand new 4bedrooms 3.5 baths he jus bought in his name...which she aint have shyt to do with...she ended up gettin..n he had to continue payin the bills on it..

n he had to find some bullshyt ass studio...

Annnnnnnnnd this is why marriage scares the fukk out of dudes. GOT DAMN

 

[shopthatwrecks]

Annnnnnnnnd this is why marriage scares the fukk out of dudes. GOT DAMN

whats funny they were never married..boyfriend n girlfriend 4 like 3yrs...fukked off n on be4 they had a real relationship...

bytch had a cousin who had all kind of lawyer connects..

 

[MoneyTron]

whats funny they were never married..boyfriend n girlfriend 4 like 3yrs...fukked off n on be4 they had a real relationship...

bytch had a cousin who had all kind of lawyer connects..

Oh my lawd...

 

[Steve Piffler]

she never looked for a place in the first place..how u find somethin n she didnt..

she was waitin on ya move...play the guilt trip...u offered..

she ran it by her family n friends...she took a logical situation n flipped it..


better u put yaself on child support..n try n get custody vs..her doin it..n her gettin ya new spot..forcin u to move n find somethin else

i kno some broads who did soem nikkas like this...dude got a brand new house n everything...had it set up..so that if he had to n the girl didnt find nuthin..the boys could stay with dad since he lived in the same area..n stay at the same charter schools..

he mentioned to the broad..she went made it like dude was takin the kids..to her friends n aunts n shyt..

came back... filed on the dude..the brand new 4bedrooms 3.5 baths he jus bought in his name...which she aint have shyt to do with...she ended up gettin..n he had to continue payin the bills on it..

n he had to find some bullshyt ass studio...

first of all.... @ that story...

shiid, i'm moving to a condo in the medical center (so i can be close to my job). my aunt owns it and said that i could live in it as long as i want. cheap ass rent and no lease. i plan on stacking up for about a year, and buying myself a townhome. she can't get what i don't own....but still, at that story....

 

[Steve Piffler]

Did you adopt him?

nope....

 

[Lavish]

she never looked for a place in the first place..how u find somethin n she didnt..

she was waitin on ya move...play the guilt trip...u offered..

she ran it by her family n friends...she took a logical situation n flipped it..


better u put yaself on child support..n try n get custody vs..her doin it..n her gettin ya new spot..forcin u to move n find somethin else

i kno some broads who did soem nikkas like this...dude got a brand new house n everything...had it set up..so that if he had to n the girl didnt find nuthin..the boys could stay with dad since he lived in the same area..n stay at the same charter schools..

he mentioned to the broad..she went made it like dude was takin the kids..to her friends n aunts n shyt..

came back... filed on the dude..the brand new 4bedrooms 3.5 baths he jus bought in his name...which she aint have shyt to do with...she ended up gettin..n he had to continue payin the bills on it..

n he had to find some bullshyt ass studio...

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Steve... every time you talk to her, record the convo and tell her you are recording them.