fair enough, but who said you have to use your "best material" on the phone?
Aint nothing good about being a text buddy either...have a broad texting you and 10 other nikkas at the same time.
Got fools living by unwritten rules talking about, "how dare you call before you text?"
Live by your own rules. If you wanna call, call. If she cant hold a convo or acts weird...bounce her.
You wanna text ...text.
You wanna show up to her front door...chill
It aint that serious.
Though I wouldnt call somebody during this time and expect an answer unless it was a homie.