u my nikka but u carrying alotta emotional baggage i could read it your posts im sure i aint the only one that could see it
So I Took A Rare, Yet Severe L The Other Day :huhldup:
- Thread starter onelastdeath
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#HOH = power simping.... tell me Im wrong :mido:
onelastdeath
Banned
the gist of some of them emails.
Yup B, I remember when I posted that. nikkas was like "
dont do it!"
word.. i don't know what you were thinking. we're around the same age (I'm 22) and i damn sure ain't thinking bout no broad moving it with me now lol.... glad you saw the light... hope you still learned lessons from all this tho
onelastdeath
Banned
Opposite. I dont simp. I get too many bytches to simp. I might not be super #HOH but Im definitely gonna slow it down even more now
I read the whole thing too. This isn't a monumental L from the normal perspective of how Ls are taken, (i.e. Simpery) but from the perspective of how this girl obviously seemed to be the prototypical "one" that you genuinely had something special with. The only gripe I have is that you were smashing chicks too and what seems to be the catalyst that got all of this popping was your lapse in judgement at that party. Nonetheless. I think that its fukked up how in knowing how you felt about her, she comes back to you after getting pregnant by the other nikka trying to pick up where you all left off.Yeah, and it's prime it was really nice. I enjoyed it.
I shut my shyt down though, honestly. After she made it clear we were on the comeup again, I pretty much cut most of the girls I had off. All of them. She looked me in my face, said she wanted to try again, and then got pregnant AFTER the fact. I couldn't be angry at her if in that year and a half span, she got pregnant. But the fact that shes 2 months, means that it was after she was layed up in my apartment. Telling me all kinds of shyt, about how much she missed me, how much she loved me, how much time we've wasted and so much other shyt.
Im not mad at her for having sex, Im mad at her for lying in my face. I'll take the L though. It's just crazy how that works
Plus like @Emperor_ReinScarf said, taking back someone after infidelity (sex or even second bass) will always cause the victim in the relationship to hold resentment regardless as to whether or not the wayward partner is truly sorry and/or won't do it again. Not knocking you, just super sayin'.
BTW...I don't think she's going to get over this soon, especially since you have enough self-respect to focus on yourself and cut ties indefinitely. Don't have a lapse in judgement and hit her up
Bottom line is that you learned from this experience, you're not a bitter member of #HOH and you'll take this as a lesson that can only help you in your future endeavors. Take each day at a time breh.:hiya:
I can't even tell u how much i can relate to the story, but pos rep and it was a great story...
if your experience continues to mirror mine............ you have GREAT THINGS AHEAD
you shouldn't even be upset
if your experience continues to mirror mine............ you have GREAT THINGS AHEAD
you shouldn't even be upset
U using women as a means for avoiding confronting and dealing with your emotional issues. Thats power simping
onelastdeath
Banned
I owned up to that though truly. I admitted that I fukked up. I didn't fukk another girl, I didn't get head from another girl. I grabbed a titty ON THE OUTSIDE. And kissed someone's neck. And she found out and everything else I ever said to her was up in the air at the point. I would have NEVER cheated on her while having all my mental faculties in check.I read the whole thing too. This isn't a monumental L from the normal perspective of how Ls are taken, (i.e. Simpery) but from the perspective of how this girl obviously seemed to be the prototypical "one" that you genuinely had something special with. The only gripe I have is that you were smashing chicks too and what seems to be the catalyst that got all of this popping was your lapse in judgement at that party. Nonetheless. I think that its fukked up how in knowing how you felt about her, she comes back to you after getting pregnant by the other nikka trying to pick up where you all left off.
Plus like @Emperor_ReinScarf said, taking back someone after infidelity (sex or even second bass) will always cause the victim in the relationship to hold resentment regardless as to whether or not the wayward partner is truly sorry and/or won't do it again. Not knocking you, just super sayin'.
BTW...I don't think she's going to get over this soon, especially since you have enough self-respect to focus on yourself and cut ties indefinitely. Don't have a lapse in judgement and hit her up
Bottom line is that you learned from this experience, you're not a bitter member of #HOH and you'll take this as a lesson that can only help you in your future endeavors. Take each day at a time breh.:hiya:
I was fukking, but when I was weren't even talking most of the time. Once I it was clear there was a POSSIBILITY, I pretty much put all that shyt to the side.
onelastdeath
Banned
Using women?
I never use women. #HOH to me doesn't mean hurting girls. I don't do that. I had a mother once, so I don't like seeing women cry in general.
#HOH for me would just be not committing and not being emotionally invested. Pretty much what I've been doing anyway. I don't lie to the girls I fukk with, nor do I promise them anything and renege on the delivery.
I would never go out of my way to hurt someone. I'm not the kind of guy that gets confidence from hurting women.
I read the whole thing too. This isn't a monumental L from the normal perspective of how Ls are taken, (i.e. Simpery) but from the perspective of how this girl obviously seemed to be the prototypical "one" that you genuinely had something special with. The only gripe I have is that you were smashing chicks too and what seems to be the catalyst that got all of this popping was your lapse in judgement at that party. Nonetheless. I think that its fukked up how in knowing how you felt about her, she comes back to you after getting pregnant by the other nikka trying to pick up where you all left off.
Plus like @Emperor_ReinScarf said, taking back someone after infidelity (sex or even second bass) will always cause the victim in the relationship to hold resentment regardless as to whether or not the wayward partner is truly sorry and/or won't do it again. Not knocking you, just super sayin'.
BTW...I don't think she's going to get over this soon, especially since you have enough self-respect to focus on yourself and cut ties indefinitely. Don't have a lapse in judgement and hit her up
Bottom line is that you learned from this experience, you're not a bitter member of #HOH and you'll take this as a lesson that can only help you in your future endeavors. Take each day at a time breh.:hiya:
not even taking back just being around them, everytime I was around my ex one minute went from she's cool, i remember when...... to this f8Kkn cheating harlot who endangered my health
triggers are no joke that's why sometimes how hard as it may be its better to just sever all ties and kill the emotional connection
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
Just take a (another) break 
If people want to walk out of your life, let them. Those who wanna be there, will be.
It's her lost. You were an option to her, she had you on the back burner. Now she's pregnant, look who she ran to.
You are her security blanket, her teddy bear.
Let it go, let it goooo!
Next thing you know she gon start asking for money for doctors visits and baby formula.
If people want to walk out of your life, let them. Those who wanna be there, will be.
It's her lost. You were an option to her, she had you on the back burner. Now she's pregnant, look who she ran to.
You are her security blanket, her teddy bear.
Let it go, let it goooo!
Next thing you know she gon start asking for money for doctors visits and baby formula.