So I Took A Rare, Yet Severe L The Other Day :huhldup:

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you my breh and all but I'll tell you in all earnestly once you cheat on someone it's pretty much over, even if that person takes you back deep down they will hold contentment. It took me like 5 years to even get over my ex cheating on me but every time I thought I was over her once I saw her, talked to, spent time with her the triggers started again until I finally cut her off, in no way I am on your ex side at all but i've been in dem shoes :mjcry:
But why not just say that though breh.

She could have kept it a buck and said straight up "Im never going to feel comfortable with you again"

I would have taken the L. I really would have. And learned from it.

With her shes like " I love you, but I need time, I just need some time to think" over and over again :childplease:
 

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Yup. In my crib, making me eggs and pancakes, getting her insides rearranged by another nikka.

"it feels good to be here again, so good" :camby:


The flattering tongue

A flattering mouth works ruin……..

Before a pig is slaughtered it goes through a process of being fattened up until it reaches a size that is deemed eligible for slaughter. The pig is oblivious to the fact that while indulging in the gluttony of feeding and constant admiration of the pig farmer that it is heading toward its own destruction through manipulation tactics.

Sounds familiar? Compliments on your looks, you are so sweet, I love you, acting nice all with the end goal of using admiration/words and phrases/tactics for their own agenda.

For there is no truth in their mouth; their inmost self is destruction; their throat is an open grave; they flatter with their tongue.
 

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But why not just say that though breh.

She could have kept it a buck and said straight up "Im never going to feel comfortable with you again"

I would have taken the L. I really would have. And learned from it.

With her shes like " I love you, but I need time, I just need some time to think" over and over again :childplease:

Women think with emotions not logic, the emotional tie to you was still so strong.

Usually women can cut or withdrawal when the attraction or excitement dies, however it didn't between you to. Thus the constant see saw
 

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Women think with emotions not logic, the emotional tie to you was still so strong.

Usually women can cut or withdrawal when the attraction or excitement dies, however it didn't between you to. Thus the constant see saw

I guess you're right. It just feels like such a waste of time.

And dude is a bum. I'm not even saying that on some hating shyt either, not on some "man this nikka just fukked my ex girl so hes automatically a bum" type shyt. He's LEGITIMATELY a bum. :noah:

She bout to go through it :snoop:
 

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I guess you're right. It just feels like such a waste of time.

And dude is a bum. I'm not even saying that on some hating shyt either, not on some "man this nikka just fukked my ex girl so hes automatically a bum" type shyt. He's LEGITIMATELY a bum. :noah:

She bout to go through it :snoop:

everything in life offers a valuable lesson.

Always remember if dude wasn't a bum she'd be telling you I'm pregnant now there will never be us ever again :mjpls:
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but because he's a bum
its modern fonzie :mjcry: remember when we used to watch titantic and lie on the couch all weekend together, I wish we had those moments again, I'm so scared I don't know what I'm going to do or how i'm going to get through this...

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I read the whole thing, I actually enjoyed it. Gave the impression that something authentic actually took place between y'all.
My favorite was, "we'd go to picnics. Real picnics".

Y'all were both sexing others at the same time, but she didn't use protection. You can't be mad at her for sexing, but I can see why you wouldn't want to raise someone else's child. If it was meant to be or if things change later, you can always get back with her once the kid is old. But you will be in pain and shock for a while now. Use the pain for some of your creative stuff.
 

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:ohhh: Son, wow. wow wow :wow: :ohhh:

breh I remember my ex gloated in front of me when she got engaged literally gloated

but when that engagement blew up in smoke im getting emails wishing me happy birthday trying to make small talk, of course I didn't reply and changed my email accounts, but I've lived a life I wouldn't wish on anyone I read the signs in everything, people are manipulative to the core when they are backed up.
 
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