I'll try to clear up as much as I can for everyone in here cause the thoughts are wild as shyt...
First off, yea he'll probably call you. I can tell you right now the requirements, cause it's not a secret. I think they have them on their website... Actually....
Freemasonry welcomes men of every country, religion, race, age, income, education, and opinion. However, to join Freemasonry, one must meet the following qualifications:
- Be a male at least 18 years of age (the minimum age varies in some jurisdictions, sometimes up to 21)
- Believe in the existence of a Supreme Being, although Freemasonry is not concerned with theological distinctions or particular religious beliefs
- Be of good moral character
- Be motivated to join for reasons unrelated to personal gain or profit
- Your decision to apply is based on your own “free will and accord”
- Be prompted by a favorable opinion of Freemasonry
- Be desirous of earning knowledge and willing to conform to the ancient usages and customs of the fraternity
Now what does this actually mean in real life... He'll call you and want to see what you're about. You'll first thing, it's not a frat and it's not a social club. They predate both and don't ever refer to themselves like that. It's a group of men, who all believe in living their life a certain way, based on the principles of freemasons in the bible. The symbols and signs represent certain things that relate to living your life upright, just, and righteous. You're supposed to be a good man, no felonies, not in debt, take care of your family, your wife even has to ok it because you can't be lying to your family to be here, you got to put in work in your community, be a model so when someone says "that's a mason" it comes with an idea and a standard.
Once you hear about what they about, and want to learn more, maybe he'll invite you to an event. Get you around the brothers, see if they like you, see if you like them. Cause they all will decide. If all that's a go, you fill out paperwork, you get a background check (no felonies), they'll test you to make sure you have some sort of intelligence and dedication, and then vote to see if you can start being a mason.
Anything after that, I can't tell you about. But Masons aren't hidden. If you have a good lodge, you might pay $20 a month in dues. You do food drives, you feed the homeless and eldery on holidays, you throw parties for the kids/neighborhood/city. Every lodge has a jurisdiction so it's usually going to be area you live around, so you get known. Oh they do this, that and this. Yes you rent out the lodge for events, parties, your own events.. You only need one room in the place for the temple, you just supposed to let the rest go to waste? How you think they fund the operation to do good for the community? Yea throw Tasha's party here. We got a kitchen and the brothers will work for you for free. Among other ways to fund raise.
You still got fun shyt you do with the brothers. You're still regular people. Link up, football sunday's, superbowl parties, bbq's.... it's not the mason's lodge. It's YOUR lodge. Everyone has a key. Come there and sleep if you need to. Cause you're a stand up man so I know you gonna leave it how you found it and not steal and not......
It's a bunch of brothers trying to hang out and give back. Trust me, they got young brehs in every lodge. Every year there's a list of people trying to come in. Somebody son, somebody cousin, somebody somebody.. Less than 10 get selected a year. Nobody hiding. They got license plates and jackets and hats and shyt. You carry around a card. This ain't 1754 anymore. Yes A LOT of rich and powerful people are Masons. Why? Cause it's the largest "fraternity" in the world. Literally. So there's a lot of everyone in there. It's not like the Skull & Bones or some elite, truly hidden secret society. Motherfukkers got tshirts
The modern version is frats. They do everything masons do, but cut out the symbolism and rituals of the past. But the same way to mason's will see each other and look out. Is the same way two Q's will. Q's do a food drive, Masons do a food drive. Q's look out on a job hookup, Masons look out. Q's get together to celebrate and party, Masons get out to celebrate and party
It's the same shyt. People freak out about freemasons because what they did 200 years ago
Feel free to ask anything else
Every lodge has young brehs and bring in more every year. They just don't let a lot of people in every year so by the time 40 young brehs come in, it's 5-10 years later.
Also your coworker is lying. You can't get kicked out for that. Not at day one or 20 years. As long as you pay your dues, you don't ever have to show up for anything. This is mainly to allow you to live your life and never let this become a burden. Put in what you want. Confirmation events happen 3 times a year.. There's way more food there. shyt you can pull up and eat food damn near every week.
Mans was definitely lying
Both are about networking. You gonna look out for somebody in the same gang as you right? Especially over an outsider