So i just knocked my tap dancing c00n ass brother out... Here's why

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Lol real shyt. Op little bro saw all the negative stereotypes he sees in black people rolled up into his older brother.

And let's be honest, people that display the OP personality get way more support/attention from the black community, while people like his lil bro get pushed to the side or ignored

Brother is a c00n but yup.

I'm guessing a lot of his frustration probably stems from him not getting p*ssy...
 

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Hilarious, but your fitting into his vision of you with that response. Though I agree he did deserve it.

You need to find a way to use your life as an example to prove racists like him wrong. This was a "turn the other cheek" situation where you respond tactfully and dismissively to his opinion. You kind of proved him right by what you did. For future reference, attack the argument, not the person. What you did was Trump status. Child's play.
 

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Well here's where you and I differ. I've lived long enough to be able to separate the message from the messenger even if they didn't grow and change and in this case it certainly seems that the OP has grown and changed.

As far as the rest of what you're saying you have made up a very eleborate story as to how the younger brother must feel based on how you feel about op. "In the little brothers mind " do you know him?
Why do you base all of your opinion on how the young brother must feel based on the older brothers actions or past? Nowhere in your theory do the parenting or the neighborhood he lives in or the company he keeps or media or the current weather enter into your big theories about a young boy we don't even know, not even sort of through posting together on the internet (as with op)

So you've again reiterated how you think op ain't shyt and how you think his brother must feel based on that.

What's your opinion/advice on how to get this boy off the self hate?

Hopefully when the OP's little brother reaches your age, he too will have a more mature view of the world around him.

My theory addresses the younger/older brother dynamic because younger brother generally look up to their older brothers. They were raised by the same parents, lived in the same household in the same neighborhood, yet their lives and experiences were dramatically different. maybe parenting is a major factor, after failing with the OP, maybe the parents adjusted their parenting and did a better job with the younger sibling, maybe they over compensated and as a result created an atmosphere that laid the foundation for the younger brother's problematic beliefs.

What we do know for sure is that the younger brother grew up watching his older brother put the family through hell and almost get charged as an adult at the age of 17 for breaking into someone's home, I think it's safe to imagine that a younger brother witnessing his older brother doing these things would go to great lengths to avoid going down the same path as his older brother, even if that means doing the exact opposite of everything his brother does, e.g. if all of big brother's friends are Black, maybe I need to hang around white people, if big brother does drugs and gets bad grades, I need to study more and stay sober.

I do believe the little brother has a poor opinion of his older brother based on all the years the older brother spent setting a terrible example, those things will persist in the younger brother's mind even if the older brother "changed" two years ago. It's a simple formula:

2 years of changed brother < 10+ years of trouble maker brother.

These are just my opinions, I might be totally wrong in my assumptions and that's fine.
 

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Was it ever established that he disliked his brother or that he wasn't open to listening to new information by OP?

What's established is that whatever information the OP was trying to get through to the younger brother wasn't effective which is why he tried an alternative method of using physical violence. Maybe the OP's brother is an understanding person but I wouldn't give any of my time to listening to information from a person who would hit me if he gets frustrated while delivering that information.
 

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Glad I missed this thread last night.

Op you hit him. It's done. All this Sunday morning quarterbacking is just that. "That's blood! You don't hit blood" sibling fights happen, doesn't mean you still wouldn't risk your life for them against an outsider. Old Mayberry asses in this thread.

"Op you reinforced what he's thinking!"
He's already thinking it. Already believes it. He's conciously looking for shyt to reinforce his c00n beliefs. This little boy had the audacity to pop off crazy about black women in a room full of black women blood related including his own mother. What op wore out the house yesterday reinforced the little boys beliefs.
Cause he wants them to.

Most of yall who ran in here to demonize op and accuse him of wanting daps just want daps too or just dislike op.
Nowhere do yall address the mind blowing world crashing wake up call this young man is gonna eventually get (and he will get it, it's only a matter of time)
That shyt Is gonna hurt him alot more than his brother beating his ass one time, especially if he continues on like this.
Nor do you attempt to give any constructive advice. You just want to bash op and like his brother show how much a "better different negro" you are.

@Zoovier I do hope after things cool down you get a chance to apologize to your mother (none of us wants to see our children fight, even though it happens sometimes)
And sit down and explain to your brother that he can be great without demonizing his own people. Also explain to him (not sure why his mostly grown ass doesn't get it) that by saying what he said he disrespected his mother's and aunties.
Good luck
:hug:
thank you
and thanks to everyone else who gave positive responses in this thread
if ya'll wanna talk more just PM me cuz im not responding to this thread anymore:manny:
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What's established is that whatever information the OP was trying to get through to the younger brother wasn't effective which is why he tried an alternative method of using physical violence. Maybe the OP's brother is an understanding person but I wouldn't give any of my time to listening to information from a person who would hit me if he gets frustrated while delivering that information.
You're not his brother!!! Stop speaking as if you have a personal grudge against op.
 

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Well here's where you and I differ. I've lived long enough to be able to separate the message from the messenger even if they didn't grow and change and in this case it certainly seems that the OP has grown and changed.
Nah. :donotlike:

Let that whole story marinate and clearly OP hasn't grown much for reasons already given in this thread. I understand the frustration but you don't handle your blood like that off the kid's opinion on life.

He should apologize and talk the shyt out otherwise both sides lost.
 

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You're not his brother!!! Stop speaking as if you have a personal grudge against op.

I'm not speaking as if I have a personal grudge, I'm simply giving my opinion and attempting to empathize with what the younger brother might be feeling after being physically attacked by his older brother.
 

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Honestly, you could shut him up with facts about black people, what we've accomplished. The fact that mass incarceration targets blacks disproportionately even though white people commit crimes @ roughly the same rate. Hes been brainwashed by white supremacy so you gotta counter it with the opposite.
Hard to take a gangbanger serious when he was getting suspened from school, selling drugs, doing home invasions, etc. Nothing he says matters when all he did was participate in destructive behavior to self and community.
 

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Hard to take a gangbanger serious when he was getting suspened from school, selling drugs, doing home invasions, etc. Nothing he says matters when all he did was participate in destructive behavior to self and community.
*former

Facts are facts so dont try to pull this Ad Hominem crap.
 

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Just curious for all yall "I'm not gonna listen to him! He did alot of bad shyt! I would ignore him! The little brother should ignore him too !" Posters

Do we ignore Malcolm Xs opinions words and advice cause he used to rob houses and get high?

Do we ignore MLK's opinion words and advice cause he liked to sling dikk outside?

If a recovering crackhead told yall don't ever smoke cracking don't even try it, yall just gonna say "fukk you man. I'm gonna smoke cracking just to spite you. You can't tell me shyt!"

:patrice:

Just curious.
If op's brother feels like "fukk you, you put this family through a lot of shyt. I don't want your advice"

He's big enough to say that

He's not saying that though.

He's saying c00n shyt.

So if you have 1 family member who does illegal shyt it's perfectly reasonable to c00n the fukk out?

Looking at the high arrest/incarceration percentages of our people I suppose everybody should just c00n out then.
:francis:
 
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