So i just knocked my tap dancing c00n ass brother out... Here's why

[Blackout]

I love you 'it's just two siblings fighting' nikkas.

It isn't, it's one person assualting another person for saying something he doesnt like

then again that may be normal in your dysfunctional households, that would explain a lot​

 

[Matt504]

This doesn't make sense. You're telling me when presented with new information you don’t analyze it to consider whether or not it's true? Anyone's opinions can change when presented with the right information in the correct way.

I agree, people should analyze everything they hear no matter who it comes from but that's not typical of human interaction, unfortunately it depends on who that information is coming from. Donald Trump, for example, might have a wealth of information that we should consider but because he's Donald Trump, many of us would dismiss it immediately.

 

[Mr. Manhattan]

You really didn't solve shyt, and your outlet was to post this on the coli for daps

Your brothers friction makes a lot of sense, seeing as your history involved home invasion ""

ur the last person to be expressing this level of frustration, no offense but you don't seem to be a righteous thinker... didn't solve a thing

 

[Matt504]

You really didn't solve shyt, and your outlet was to post this on the coli for daps

Your brothers friction makes a lot of sense, seeing as your history involved home invasion "
"ur the last person to be expressing this level of frustration, you don't seem to be a righteous thinker

Unfortunately this is probably the exact lens the younger brother views the OP through.

 

[Mr.bocario]

Lol real shyt. Op little bro saw all the negative stereotypes he sees in black people rolled up into his older brother.

And let's be honest, people that display the OP personality get way more support/attention from the black community, while people like his lil bro get pushed to the side or ignored

 

[Wiles]

Your brother was clearly right about people like you, emotional and quick to violence over someone else's opinion.

 

[Wiles]

You played right into his interpretation of reality. He's like an ostrich burrying its head in the sand and you gave him more reason to. Obviously he's immature, but your actions did nothing but reinforce his outloom. Funny too how you mentioned that he never criticized you despite his judgement of other brehs for similar behavior. Perhaps he loves you? Or maybe thats past tense now......

 

[Geek Nasty]

This has bullshyt simping for daps all over it. In two more paragraphs you would've been knocking out a cop for disrespecting black women.

 

[Wiles]

First off, you wrong for resorting to violence. That's the voice of the misguided and voiceless people and I've been watching you Zoo and you are smart and have a voice. Hitting him should never be an option.

He's just as traumatized as you just differently. He wants nothing to do with the stereotypes but wants acceptance at all cost due to his experiences dealing with systematic white supremacy. He needs an awaking and fast. He needs Hidden Colors, books, a mentor and a Black person who was once like him to drop that ism.

You need to apologize and be a big brother. Seek help for the young man. Both of y'all need some help. PM me on the real.

This dap + rep

 

[Wiles]

OP in here telling stories of how he got emotional and laid hands on his own Black brother yet I'm the agent.

 

[wickedsm]

If you ever did wrong, don't expect people who witnessed your wrong doing to later view you as a moral compass or value your opinions.

I'm bringing up the Op's past because it's very relevant to why he's unable to communicate with his little brother, if the OP was someone his little brother respected and valued the opinions of, the situation wouldn't have escalated to the point that it did but given the OP's terrible past of gang banging, selling drugs and breaking into people's homes, the little brother has a difficult time putting any stock into what he has to say.

From the little brother's perspective, the OP is using white supremacy as a scapegoat because the little brother is smart enough to make basic comparisons:

My brother sold drugs and got into trouble with the law, I've never sold drugs and I've never had any trouble with the law and we both grew up in the exact same household.
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In the little brother's mind, white supremacy doesn't even factor into that equation, it'd make more sense to attribute the difference between he and his brother to personal decisions and not white supremacy.

As far as advice goes, in my opinion, there's nothing the OP can do to change his brothers opinions, especially after hitting him because the OP couldn't control himself, thus reinforcing preconceived notions about people like his brother, people who solve problems with violence.

Well here's where you and I differ. I've lived long enough to be able to separate the message from the messenger even if they didn't grow and change and in this case it certainly seems that the OP has grown and changed.

As far as the rest of what you're saying you have made up a very eleborate story as to how the younger brother must feel based on how you feel about op. "In the little brothers mind " do you know him?
Why do you base all of your opinion on how the young brother must feel based on the older brothers actions or past? Nowhere in your theory do the parenting or the neighborhood he lives in or the company he keeps or media or the current weather enter into your big theories about a young boy we don't even know, not even sort of through posting together on the internet (as with op)

So you've again reiterated how you think op ain't shyt and how you think his brother must feel based on that.

What's your opinion/advice on how to get this boy off the self hate?

 

[MalikX]

To not talk sht about bw infront of his moms and aunts the fck kinda question is that?

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It aint about what he couldve told him..the point is if he taught him about the importance of black pride before all that his bro wouldnt have been c00nin in the first place.

Yea man...I have a nephew that's 16 and he used to say c00nish things like that. Our family grew up in the hood/ghetto and my sister became "boogie" and "saddity" I guess out of her shame of being from the ghetto. So the second she got money, she moved way out to a little white town in the sticks where she raised my nephew, thus giving him his mindset about blacks. He used to make comments about not liking being darkskin or how he thought black girls had nappy hair, etc. Was so bad he used to cry/get scared as a kid when we went into the city. It disgusted me inside that his mom had him scared of his own people I went to a HBCU so it was nothing to teach him about our culture. It took a while but, eventually the c00ning stopped little by little until he started to appreciate himself and his blackness and black history. Had to basically tell him no matter what he does, he's a black man and will always be a black man, and in the eyes of white people, he is just as black as the blacks he thinks he's better than and he got it after a few wake up calls of his own. I could have smacked him around like OP did his brother. Instead I just give him game and wisdom about life and that's my little homie now. The same way my uncles did for me.

 

[Neuromancer]

I agree, people should analyze everything they hear no matter who it comes from but that's not typical of human interaction, unfortunately it depends on who that information is coming from. Donald Trump, for example, might have a wealth of information that we should consider but because he's Donald Trump, many of us would dismiss it immediately.

Was it ever established that he disliked his brother or that he wasn't open to listening to new information by OP?

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

I've got into fights with my siblings over dumber shyt when I was younger so I won't judge you.

Having said that, nothing will get accomplished by resorting to violence. He'll get his nikka wake up call soon.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yea man...I have a nephew that's 16 and he used to say c00nish things like that. Our family grew up in the hood/ghetto and my sister became "boogie" and "saddity" I guess out of her shame of being from the ghetto. So the second she got money, she moved way out to a little white town in the sticks where she raised my nephew, thus giving him his mindset about blacks. He used to make comments about not liking being darkskin or how he thought black girls had nappy hair, etc. Was so bad he used to cry/get scared as a kid when we went into the city. It disgusted me inside that his mom had him scared of his own people I went to a HBCU so it was nothing to teach him about our culture. It took a while but, eventually the c00ning stopped little by little until he started to appreciate himself and his blackness and black history. Had to basically tell him no matter what he does, he's a black man and will always be a black man, and in the eyes of white people, he is just as black as the blacks he thinks he's better than and he got it after a few wake up calls of his own. I could have smacked him around like OP did his brother. Instead I just give him game and wisdom about life and that's my little homie now. The same way my uncles did for me.

Each one teach one breh.