innocentdevil
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We workin this long distance chit, I'm happy up here, and she is aiight down there. I love her, she feels the same way. We are crazy without each other...anyway, I told her I'm happy if she just wanted to be friends because I don't want to be in something that's just short term. She said she was offended because she thought it was "serious" already. I told her, I didn't feel like she was taking it serious because every question I asked her she would give IDK, and wanted to know how she felt about certain things. And would give me signs...I told her I felt these signs and would be cool if we were just friends. She said she wanted to stay with me...
I didn't know what to say after so we sat in silence for a bit. Then started talking again, about random ish. Now I don't feel a certain type of way, and I don't feel the slightest bit phased, because at this point, she needs to show me how important this relationship is. But when she closed the phone and didn't text me or call back after the second silence we had...I ain't trippin or textin back like I usually do.
Just glad I told her how I felt. So ladies and niccas do you think ya boy asked a valid question? Oh, and the reason why I didn't trip was because we been on and off for about 2 years now. So I'm tired of games and I got good ish goin for me right now
Looks like there is an elephant in the room...have you already talked about if you both have seen anyone during the off periods of your relationships, and if each of you are still in contact with these people?...Has she started over with you with a clean slate, and not tripping off past problems of your relationship and dealing with the now...she could be salty about how you guys ended on your off periods...you asking her if she wants to take things seriously gives off the impression that shes not trying to, and you are making it known that you are....surprisingly women are the first ones to yell actions speak louder than words, but when a man says it back to them they get offended *sigh*
