Was texting shorty all morning. Asked if she wanted to go to the gym? RADIO SILENCE :mjlol:

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:mjlol: :picard: well damn what if OP was actually tryna vet her to see if he wanted make her his girlfriend?
Everything ain't just bout getting p*ssy he mightve been tryna build something
Plus he mentioned he likes big women so it's plausible...
Not even that...she said she's looking for a gym partner and he saw a pathway. Cats just want a chance to clown.
 

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Assuming y'all haven't went out before and this is someone you're actually interested in , asking a woman out to the gym before you take her out on a real date is super backwards

That's probably why she ghosted you
If her attraction to a man is high enough, the gym is a "real date".
 

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Wrong!!! You must be fat boy. I'm a flabby head and I gym everyday, I get p*ssy thrown to me from young and old.
Wrong I’m a skinny ñigga been out the gym for a year still maintaining the physique it’s not hard for me to get girls. You don’t take any rest days? I used to go 5 days a week when I was in peak fitness
 
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It could also be how you texted her in response to her making it home safe, considering if you responded to that 1:30 am message. If you didn't that could've been why she ghosted you, felt like you didn't make her a priority.

Flipside: He responds when she reaches out and decides he was thirsty for responding to her at 1:30 in the morning

No need to overthink the action
 

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:mjlol: :picard: well damn what if OP was actually tryna vet her to see if he wanted make her his girlfriend?
Everything ain't just bout getting p*ssy he mightve been tryna build something
Plus he mentioned he likes big women so it's plausible...
Doesn’t matter. You vet women by actions and deeds, not words. Texts are just words and build the idea of intimacy. Not the truth. The more you try to text your way into a woman’s heart the more distance she will give you. Plus going to the gym with a woman that ain’t your girl is kind of weird. Tell her to join you for coffee. If she think coffee dates are cheap you dodged a bullet, if she’s cool then great. Vet that way, not through endless texting.
 

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If her attraction to a man is high enough, the gym is a "real date".

Facts
Especially if she actually likes to work out and isn't some IG poser

the fat bytch from the OP just wasn't serious about working out or ole dude really wasn't her type. Hell, could be both.
 

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:mjlol: :picard: well damn what if OP was actually tryna vet her to see if he wanted make her his girlfriend?
Everything ain't just bout getting p*ssy he mightve been tryna build something
Plus he mentioned he likes big women so it's plausible...

Not even that...she said she's looking for a gym partner and he saw a pathway. Cats just want a chance to clown.
She's a friend of a friend that links with my nikka. We occasionally be around each other kind of incidentally, but we happen to vibe pretty naturally.

We both already made it clear we're attracted to each other, but neither one of us has time for a full on relationship. So we just chat and chill. It could go anywhere at this point.

Although, we are probably gonna end up fukking :francis:
 

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Doesn’t matter. You vet women by actions and deeds, not words. Texts are just words and build the idea of intimacy. Not the truth. The more you try to text your way into a woman’s heart the more distance she will give you. Plus going to the gym with a woman that ain’t your girl is kind of weird. Tell her to join you for coffee. If she think coffee dates are cheap you dodged a bullet, if she’s cool then great. Vet that way, not through endless texting.
It was like 10 messages total over a 3 hour period. :mjlol:
 

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:russ: maybe I'm weird but I have women friends, sexual tension or not. Going to the gym or any other outing ain't that weird. Hell, sometimes we've even been able to smash and stay friends.
 
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