Voice of Reason
Veteran
Sorry to hear that I hope she recovers.
Damn bro, I'm going thru the same with my pops (stage 4 lung cancer, huge mass in right lung). I been dealing with this for some days and I also started to make a thread about it but never posted.Contemplated making this thread for days but it's whatever at this point. Early this morning my sister called me and said her heart stopped and they got it back beating but shes incubated now. At the hospital now. Man this hurts right now
Damn bro, I'm going thru the same with my pops (stage 4 lung cancer, huge mass in right lung). I been dealing with this for some days and I also started to make a thread about it but never posted.
Hospice is the only option and he doesn't want any treatments. He was trying to hide from me and my 2 sisters and die in the Normandie Hotel on Woodward, still fukkin hustling and having lil nikkas in the area make runs for him. We had to force him to go to the hospital. We knew he was sick from like 6 years ago, but he never confirmed it and never told us anything directly.
We found out it's stage 4 in right lung, 2 different spots, and already in his lymph nodes . Dude never even tried to treat it when he found out years ago. I can understand that part, but why the fukk were you trying to die alone in a dirty ass room? Obviously you ain't a brick status hustler anymore, is just being in the game that fukkin important? You'd rather die around strangers than try to be around people who have love for you? Dude is too prideful and has always been a boss, I know he just doesn't want us to see him like this.
I hadn't seen him in years and we didn't talk much, but we did talk and he had started to call more recently. I had a feeling his condition was getting worse and that's why he was reaching out more. They told us at most, he has 6 months left, but it could be 1 week. I'm finna head up there in a few and go sit with him all of today.
And on top of that, my grandma on my mom's side just had a heart attack down in West Palm Beach yesterday and she might only have days left. My mom's and my sister on this side left for Palm Beach this morning. I'm probably not gonna be able to see my Grandma before she passes away. I haven't seen my grandma in person in over 10 years, though I've video called her multiple times over the years.
Tbh, none of this shyt has really sunk in yet. I'm still trying to avoid the emotional part of it. I can't believe all of this is happening at the same time.