Dude obviously sounds creepy. Whether the situation made him descend into madness who knows. But he sounds 'Taxi Driver' style crazy. No way would I ever do that stalking, spy shyt. Pride alone would prevent me from doing all that. Offering the room cleaner £50 (which is damn near $80!!
) to spit on the bed is straight insanity. I mean, I understand the symbolic gesture, but come on!
The cleaner must have been like sure, ok.......
What the woman he wrote to should have advised him to do was just end the relationship and seek therapy. He's obviously got the money, so this guy needs to just take some time out and get his head sorted out and work on his social skills because it seems like uses his money to deflect from wherever else he's lacking. He's obviously intelligent enough to hold down a good career, but he just needs to kick this chick to the curb and use this as a learning experience because she isn't worth it. Be more selective of who you let into your life and don't go splashing cash thinking that's going to win you love and respect because it just has the opposite effect....and don't fukking put anyone on a pedestal! The only woman you should probably do that for is your mama, no one else!