Women secretly feel disgust at men that aren't better than them. They'll date them, marry them, but they will feel furious if that man dares to try and call themselves the catch.
Why do you think some women are obsessed with feeling like a princess? They want that man to worship her and feel like he's lucky to be with her - unless it's a man she looks up to. It's low key narcissism that we never talk about.
That's the reason women seem like they don't know what they want. They simultaneously hate overconfident men, but are attracted to men that are better than them:
I hate myself for even continuing to comment in this
This just exposes a lot about some of these women
If you earn less than your woman/are less popular than her, apparently you don't have the right to view yourself as the catch or be confident
But these same losers get mad at a confident man even if he DOES earn more than his wife does, because it is apparently disrespectful to her role in the relationship
Add the fact that it's a black man being confident on top of that, that really makes em even more mad.
And funnily enough? They refuse to acknowledge that a lot more women are going to respect the confident man a lot more than the overly humble one
They literally create the men they claim to hate, but are attracted to at the same time, and prop up men they inherently look down on
Such miserable, hypocritical, unlikable losers
And that goes for both sexes! It really is an incredible feeling, and even better if you can make it last.