Signs your girl doesn't respect you

[So-Chi]

she eats the big piece of chicken and leaves you the wing. no sides. no biscuit.

Sheeeeeeyit, you a "drank your red pop too" away from a breakup becoming a felony.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

do you, playa

I dated a girl who made more than me before, and she never came at me reckless. She was pushing a porsche truck and i was whipping my saturn with manual windows and cloth interior. She used to drive from her crib to drop me off food all the time to.

Matter fact shorty used to always tell me i was the only nikka she met that she was low key afraid of. She said one time i pissed her off so bad she wanted to slap me but she was 90% sure I'd slap her back.

Just be a nikka and don't tolerate shyt from bytches and you'll be alright. A bytch with money will disrespect a nikka just as fast as a broke bytch will. Command respect and you'll get it.

But what do I know, I'm just another lost nikka

 

[marcuz]

I dated a girl who made more than me before, and she never came at me reckless. She was pushing a porsche truck and i was whipping my saturn with manual windows and cloth interior. She used to drive from her crib to drop me off food all the time to.

Matter fact shorty used to always tell me i was the only nikka she met that she was low key afraid of. She said one time i pissed her off so bad she wanted to slap me but she was 90% sure I'd slap her back.

Just be a nikka and don't tolerate shyt from bytches and you'll be alright. A bytch with money will disrespect a nikka just as fast as a broke bytch will. Command respect and you'll get it.

But what do I know, I'm just another lost nikka

a lot of women temporarily enjoy that dynamic, doesn't make it ideal for the man.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

a lot of women temporarily enjoy that dynamic, doesn't make it ideal for the man.

Part of being a man is being the leader. You acting like a broad who ain't bout shyt who happen to fukk with a nikka with money cause she a dime won't be disrespectful. It all comes down to the dude.

If you tolerate disrespect, you'll be disrespected.
If you're not respectable, you'll be disrespected.

All it takes is one show of dominance to have a bytch question whether talking to you sideways may lead to a trip to the emergency room.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

i, i don't even know how to tackle this type of thought process. so because white people have the bulk of the monies, and control it -- we should just say fukk it all together, right? do you hold that same standard to the food you eat, the water you drink? the gas you put in your car? why does it suddenly matter when it comes down to the money?

i mean, whatever you want to do in life, in regards to your pseudo black power movement, it WILL require money. you cant build a nation off masculinity and bible scriptures.

So....just a thought


But if you have a large sum of money, and your woman has a larger sum of money and together you have an even LARGER sum of money, wouldn't that be "defeating white supremacy" with money/power TOGETHER.


You're basically saying that a successful black woman can't have a relationship unless it's with a more successful black man... or that a successful black man isn't a man in his relationship if his woman is equally or more successful than he is






Again, I know of real world examples of this not being true. A man is the man in a relationship because he acts accordingly. He does what a man is supposed to do. Safety, security, and compaionship. Money only matters if you are thinking of the relationship in individual terms. There are plenty of men "bring home the bacon" in their relationship/marriage and get completely disrespected by their wives

 

[marcuz]

Part of being a man is being the leader. .

once again, how are you leading the house hold that she's running? if you're making 40k a yr and she's making 130k, you're just a leader in title only.

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

None of this applies to my wife so far.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

once again, how are you leading the house hold that she's running? if you're making 40k a yr and she's making 130k, you're just a leader in title only.

the same way I'm leading the house if I'm making 130k and she's making 40k. And making more money don't mean you running shyt either. If you the type of nikka to let a bytch walk all over you, she'll do it regardless of how much you make.

Again it comes down to being a man and letting a bytch know what is and is not tolerated. The amount of money a broad makes ain't gonna make a difference because if you let a broad disrespect you, she'll disrespect you. Whether it's because she makes more money than you, is taller than you, in better shape, comes from a better family, has better a better personality, or anything she feels she has over you.

I can only speak for myself, when I dated my ex who made more money than me, she knew not to try to me because I made it clear off jump I'll put you out my car while it's moving. I make 5x more than my current girl and it's the same thing. She knows not to come at me sideways for the exact same reason. Like I said, my GF's usually tell me they're low key scared of me because they know I have problems with throwing them in the bushes

 

[↓R↑LYB]

So....just a thought


But if you have a large sum of money, and your woman has a larger sum of money and together you have an even LARGER sum of money, wouldn't that be "defeating white supremacy" with money/power TOGETHER.


You're basically saying that a successful black woman can't have a relationship unless it's with a more successful black man... or that a successful black man isn't a man in his relationship if his woman is equally or more successful than he is






Again, I know of real world examples of this not being true. A man is the man in a relationship because he acts accordingly. He does what a man is supposed to do. Safety, security, and compaionship. Money only matters if you are thinking of the relationship in individual terms. There are plenty of men "bring home the bacon" in their relationship/marriage and get completely disrespected by their wives

I'm sensing frustration in your posts breh. Just realize these are the same nikkas who say they never date black women, but spend all day typing titangraphs about black women wearing weaves. Just let them boys cook and enjoy the fukkery for what it is

 

[Why-Fi]

she won't let you drive her car

 

[marcuz]

the same way I'm leading the house if I'm making 130k and she's making 40k.

where does this imaginary buffer of 90k come from to put you in a position to make equal decisions? these woman arent going out and earning more just to take demands from you nikkas. deep down y'all know it too, dont know nikkas get online and start lying about the shyt.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I'm sensing frustration in your posts breh. Just realize these are the same nikkas who say they never date black women, but spend all day typing titangraphs about black women wearing weaves. Just let them boys cook and enjoy the fukkery for what it is

Not really frustrated but just trying to understand the logic



Money isn't the only way to provide for a family, is it? Your man hood is based on how much money you make? So if you don't make the most money in the household, then basically you don't have any power as a man in your household, so you are powerless in society? Kinda primitive way of thinking


And that still doesn't explain the disrespect a man might still receive in his house even when he makes more money


And it's not about how much you make but how much you spend. If woman makes 130k and her man makes half of that, could he still not provide for his family financially if, lets say, she loses her job? They might not be eating filet mignon every week but they would still be eating, right?

 

[Sugar]

If your girl whores herself out during her prime years and then gets with you and lets herself go (ie. her weight) toss that hoe in the bushes immediately

 

[Sugar]

If she posts on the coli

@ANewClassic I wonder how ya man would feel about this post

 

[LionofJudah]

Not really frustrated but just trying to understand the logic



Money isn't the only way to provide for a family, is it? Your man hood is based on how much money you make? So if you don't make the most money in the household, then basically you don't have any power as a man in your household, so you are powerless in society? Kinda primitive way of thinking


And that still doesn't explain the disrespect a man might still receive in his house even when he makes more money


And it's not about how much you make but how much you spend. If woman makes 130k and her man makes half of that, could he still not provide for his family financially if, lets say, she loses her job? They might not be eating filet mignon every week but they would still be eating, right?

You just have to let ignorant people be ignorant breh. Really, it's the only thing you can do. I can imagine the conversation meeting women at a club.

Man: You mind if I sit here?

Female: It's a free country, do what you want.

Man: So what brings you out here tonight?

Female: Need to relieve stress from work.

Man: Oh, what do you do?

Female: I'm the District Attorney. And you?

Man: Uhhh...I'm a record producer. I make millions of dollars yearly. Be right back, gotta head to the bathroom.

*Hightails it out of the club like Speedy Gonzales because he's a bytch.*