Should the fatherless blame their Mom for not being wise enough to choose a solid Man?

[southern.girl]

So low self-esteem allot them a pass on letting sorry men nut in them?

You think 40% of all woman can't tell a solid man from a bum?

The same men who blame the woman for getting pregnant are the same men who purposely seek out low self esteem no father around type of females just to get easy sex from them. I've seen guys right here in the locker room brag on taking advantage of damaged women.

It sounds like two broken people got together & created a child. Too many times, they haven't properly healed themselves to raise the kid in the best environment. This is a 50/50 fault split between the mom & dad.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

Terrible analogy, because the dude up front didnt tell the girl he's not about shyt.

Show me ONE case where a dude up front told a chick he ain't shyt and he's gonna run off, and shorty still let him skeet in her.

You are really painting this false reality that dudes are wearing it on their sleeves they are deabeats and chicks still getting pregnant by them.

It's no different than dudes just saying "i love you" to get the p*ssy and the running off and not calling them anymore. Is it the woman's fault or the man's fault?? but to yall the chick needs to do a full damn FBI security clearance on dude, whereas dude can up front tell him his intentions

, nikka most of these women know up front these men aint shyt. Why would a nikka who spends all day selling drugs, robbing, shooting, scamming, has gang tattoes all over his body, has no secondary education, never had a job, etc give af about raising a kid.


nikkas absolving both parents of blame is one of the main reasons the black community is so backwards.

 

[KodeBlue]

What? No. It’s his fault also since he knew what he was doing could create a child. Like I said the actual person that stayed and raised the baby THEY created is getting the heat which is weird as hell.

Yet she wanted a baby with the dude. It's her fault.

 

[StickStickly]

bytch please.

At the end of the day, sperm to a man is just a nut. Do you understand this? I nut on toilet paper and flush it down the toilet.

Women carry the baby in their womb for 8 fukkING MONTHS. Do you still think the responsibility should be equal?

Miss me with that bs. Stop trying to equate men and women. We have different responsibilities, and choosing the right partner to carry a baby in your womb for 8 fukkING MONTHS is clearly the woman's responsibility.

Deal with it

This reply should give op the answer

 

[75 Others]

nikkas absolving both parents of blame is one of the main reasons the black community is so backwards.

So half blame instead of asking dudes to stop running off is the problem I

 

[RoGethoes]

Why would you blame a gender known for making emotional over logical decisions for not making a logical decision?

My only issue is when women don't admit to not being logical.

 

[InfinateOpulance]

It sounds like two broken people got together & created a child. Too many times, they haven't properly healed themselves to raise the kid in the best environment. This is a 50/50 fault split between the mom & dad.

Exactly. So why is the parent who chose to raise the child put in such a negative view?

Should both parents split since they both made the mistake?

What would our society look like if mothers took on the same attitude as men and just abandoned their babies cuz it was a "mistake"?

 

[UncleTomFord15]

So half blame instead of asking dudes to stop running off is the problem I

, what Im saying is both parents are to blame in most cases.

 

[75 Others]

, what Im saying is both parents are to blame in most cases.

There is no excuse for a dude not to be there for his child. Absolutely none

 

[StickStickly]

Why would you blame a gender known for making emotional over logical decisions for not making a logical decision?

My only issue is when women don't admit to not being logical.

Running out on your kids because you’re angry you won’t have more time to sleep around IS emotional.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

What is assigning blame going to do? Will it make the mom choose better? Will it make the deadbeat act right?

Nope... most of these children are born to low-income mothers and fathers.

You’re not going to make someone up their standards when they have no outward influences to convince them there is better.

I knew better than to get pregnant or even have sex with a bum but guess what? I had positive role models in my life to show me the right way to behave.

A lot of men and women don’t have that especially when they grew up in an environment where they didn’t see another way of life that they felt was attainable.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

There is no excuse for a dude not to be there for his child. Absolutely none

Youre obviously not listening to anything im saying


But its whatever go back to your fantasy world fam

 

[DPresidential]

@Stuntone

Would percentage of women would you say have had sex with a man before he physically put hands on her in an argument?


Isn't it plausible that men show women a certain face and something later could turn the woman off to the point where she couldn't possibly want to stay with him?

 

[southern.girl]

Exactly. So why is the parent who chose to raise the child put in such a negative view?

Should both parents split since they both made the mistake?

What would our society look like if mothers took on the same attitude as men and just abandoned their babies cuz it was a "mistake"?

The dad earns 50% fault b/c he ran off. The mom earns 50% fault b/c she made a poor choice in choosing the father for her child. That's 50/50 fault.

 

[OliviaTwist]

Running out on your kids because you’re angry you won’t have more time to sleep around IS emotional.

Women are the illogical ones but it’s okay for them to skeet with reckless abandon in any and everybody while simultaneously expecting us to practice discretion.

I don’t get it