Should men check their homeboys for cheating on their girls

[Umoja]

Yeah, I feel the world would be a much better place if people held their loved ones accountable.

If I see my friend wilding out and doing shyt that will fukk up their family, I will, scratch that, have called them out on it. I've lost friends along the way but it is what it is.

I'd like to think that if I was close to fukking up, they'd do the same.

I think we'd all benefit from realising that we are not perfect and that we're reliant on the people around us to ensure we stay on the straight and narrow when we come close to faltering.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

As long as I’m not being used as part of his lies when he’s cheating I don’t care

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

That black community is still reeling from the crack epidemic. A lot of fathers left, were murdered, got strung out, or were sent to prison for years. This led to the “nikkas ain’t sh*t” movement that swept through the 90’s. Now black men are overcompensating and acting like bytches.

You have a bytch ass nikkas like @Bigwhite2498 that believe you’re being a bad husband and father because you meet a bytch to take to dinner and fukk a few times a month.

Black men have been tricked into the trap of trying to be a traditional man with non traditional women. I see men working, cooking, cleaning, taking kids to school/doctors appointments, and attempting to fulfill all of the woman’s “love languages” at the same time. They’re in fear that they will be labeled a bad father when the CDC has provided facts that black men are the most active fathers.

This is that Smart Dumb Nxgga logic.

 

[verbalkint]

Men have the decency to keep the side chick away, women will have you shaking that mans hand lol.

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

The posts in here are interesting given the pervasive lack of two-parent households that have troubled the Black community, which cats on this board put down to the woman being to blame for the fracture in that dynamic. There seems to be an overwhelming sentiment to not only turning a blind eye to one of your homies potentially fukking up his family by fukking around, but also seemingly encouraging it.

I guess you're not a bad husband or bad father if you're putting all that shyt at risk.

 

[Bar Razor]

Nope. Not my business to get involved in these matters. When you live a while you understand that there is all types of shyt going on in relationships. I personally know at least 4 marriages where one or both parties have cheated. Some would surprise people. Ultimately though either things will work or they won’t

 

[Tetsuo]

I cut him them off. Had a childhood friend who I stopped fukking with because he wasn't just cheating, but going after married women and bragging about it on social media. Haven't spoken to him in 10+ years.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Hell yes. As a friend it's best to try to steer your friends clear of things that might fukk up their lives later. Cause you know the second they're caught they'll be down bad. Best you can do is try to talk sense in to them. But for real I ain't trying to have a cheater as a close friend because if they're willing to do the person they love foul what means they won't do some foul shyt to me.

Let me tell you a little secret.

Your girl has friends who are cheating on their boyfriends/husband at this very moment.

Your girl KNOWS her friends are doing this and will NEVER tell the boyfriend/Husband who is being cheated on.

Your girl will NEVER distance herself from her friends because they are cheating.

Your girl has even COVERED for friends when they've cheated.

Now let me ask you as you now know the above.

Do you still trust your girl?

 

[Sbp]

If you think it's okay to check another grown man for what he does with another grown person then be prepared to possibly get killed.

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

bytches don't check other bytches when they do what they do their preying on men

I've seen these words uttered in this thread a few times.

You do realize that this logic actually goes against being the man in the relationship? If you're operating on the same type of time that you believe females do, aren't you just being effeminate? Shouldn't you take control and set an example for something better, instead of what is in fact petty behavior?

You're essentially saying you shouldn't be a man because you should just act the same way as bytches do.

 

[Jazzy B.]

…and here we have it.

To these niccas in here talmbat “dikk policing”, it ain’t that.
What i is is

1. Ya Girl and her troops are the real Dikk Police, and I’ll be damned if you have them running up on me
because you outchea being reckless. When you lying on me trying to cover up some chit, imma have to check yo’ ass.

2. (from experience) these cheaters are usually the ones to bring up this chit instead of doing dirt all by your lonely.
Everything be cool playing basketball or watching the game, but then they fucc up the vibe because they
gotta confess to somebody when they get the sidechick pregnant. At that point, all I can do is keep it all the way real
witcha! But I’ll tell you this, too - you done fucced up now because while I’m not gonna tattle tell or get involved,
I’m also not the one who gonna be tiptoeing around Ya Girl or studying a flow chart of your active lies so as to not
give you up. That’s too much work to have to be your friend. It’s easier to just not fucc with you anymore like that.

I'm gonna ask you just like i asked the other poster

Let me tell you a little secret.

Your girl has friends who are cheating on their boyfriends/husband at this very moment.

Your girl KNOWS her friends are doing this and will NEVER tell the boyfriend/Husband who is being cheated on.

Your girl will NEVER distance herself from her friends because they are cheating.

Your girl has even COVERED for friends when they've cheated.

Now let me ask you as you now know the above.

Do you still trust your girl?

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

I cut him them off. Had a childhood friend who I stopped fukking with because he wasn't just cheating, but going after married women and bragging about it on social media. Haven't spoken to him in 10+ years.

Why would you cut them off?

Going around cheating epitomizes what it means to be a man. All Black men should aspire to cheat with as many women as they possibly can, that's how we move forward as a community, that's the legacy we should all pass onto our boys. bytches gotta suck that shyt up if they don't like it. And bytch ass nxggas gotta suck that shyt up too if it's their wives who're being fukked.

Sigh.

 

[In The Zone '98]

Tf you mean I should stop cheating

You like my girl, nikka

 

[Goat poster]

This a sanctimonious ass thread....

 

[Goat poster]

Let me tell you a little secret.

Your girl has friends who are cheating on their boyfriends/husband at this very moment.

Your girl KNOWS her friends are doing this and will NEVER tell the boyfriend/Husband who is being cheated on.

Your girl will NEVER distance herself from her friends because they are cheating.

Your girl has even COVERED for friends when they've cheated.

Now let me ask you as you now know the above.

Do you still trust your girl?

Yup

Thread shows that women stick to girl code more than men.

Quiet as it's kept...they stay in code with each other.