Should men check their homeboys for cheating on their girls

[WhenWeWereKings]

A gf? Nope. Wives? I've done it multiple times. Cats were willing to risk their stability for community puzz and it aint a good look.

If I'm truly a good friend, I'll advise you properly and encourage you not to do dumb shyt that could wreck your life.

 

[KingFreeman]

If they super egregious about it and just have a general scumbaggery personality then I don't want that kind of energy around me anyway. However, if I find out and he didn't tell me, and it's not made into his entire character, It's not my business as longas he's not trying to include me into it.

If I find out and he didn't inform me it's REALLY not mind business.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Why you dikk watching ? I roll with my boys right or wrong

Yall wiling. We don't be around cheaters bc, when somebody spouse find out and go off, we don't wanna be nowhere near that messy shyt. nikkas will shoot over they woman, you bugging.

Black men have been fooled into being bytch ass nikkas due to the sins of the men from the crack era.

Say what, now?

 

[Don Snow]

Lmao nikkas be real life suckas


Women don’t even have these discussions cause they’re not checking their friends on anything


Yall think women are out here holding each other accountable



Let me put y’all on women don’t actually hate cheaters they just hate to be cheated on that’s it

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Depends.

If I don't know ol girl, I'll tell him to be careful and watch himself.

If me and my wife know her and she's good people.....might let wife talk to her to see if she's already suspicious of her man. Gotta be real careful jumping into shyt like that. Main thing is you want the woman to find the evidence on her own so she has receipts. If she just makes an accusation, that will blow back on you.

But frankly, I wouldn't want my homies telling me shyt like that. I'd tell them to either stop cheating or split from their woman. Don't get me involved in that bullshyt.

 

[Don Snow]

Depends.

If I don't know ol girl, I'll tell him to be careful and watch himself.

If me and my wife know her and she's good people.....might let wife talk to her to see if she's already suspicious of her man. Gotta be real careful jumping into shyt like that. Main thing is you want the woman to find the evidence on her own so she has receipts. If she just makes an accusation, that will blow back on you.

But frankly, I wouldn't want my homies telling me shyt like that. I'd tell them to either stop cheating or split from their woman. Don't get me involved in that bullshyt.

I hope you have no friends this is crazy

 

[darealvelle]

Hell yes. As a friend it's best to try to steer your friends clear of things that might fukk up their lives later. Cause you know the second they're caught they'll be down bad. Best you can do is try to talk sense in to them. But for real I ain't trying to have a cheater as a close friend because if they're willing to do the person they love foul what means they won't do some foul shyt to me.

Real shyt, I was going to post exactly this.

 

[duncanthetall]

My homie just separated from his wife cause he was apparently cheating. He ain’t deny the shyt but I’ll still use apparently. I’m sure bro got everyone else in the world coming at his neck. Nah. He had my back when I was at my worst, so I’m making sure he know idgaf what that nikka do, I’m on his side

 

[MoveForward]

Say what, now?

That black community is still reeling from the crack epidemic. A lot of fathers left, were murdered, got strung out, or were sent to prison for years. This led to the “nikkas ain’t sh*t” movement that swept through the 90’s. Now black men are overcompensating and acting like bytches.

You have a bytch ass nikkas like @Bigwhite2498 that believe you’re being a bad husband and father because you meet a bytch to take to dinner and fukk a few times a month.

Black men have been tricked into the trap of trying to be a traditional man with non traditional women. I see men working, cooking, cleaning, taking kids to school/doctors appointments, and attempting to fulfill all of the woman’s “love languages” at the same time. They’re in fear that they will be labeled a bad father when the CDC has provided facts that black men are the most active fathers.

 

[Bigwhite2498]

That black community is still reeling from the crack epidemic. A lot of fathers left, were murdered, got strung out, or were sent to prison for years. This led to the “nikkas ain’t sh*t” movement that swept through the 90’s. Now black men are overcompensating and acting like bytches.

You have a bytch ass nikkas like @Bigwhite2498 that believe you’re being a bad husband and father because you meet a bytch to take to dinner and fukk a few times a month.

Black men have been tricked into the trap of trying to be a traditional man with non traditional women. I see men working, cooking, cleaning, taking kids to school/doctors appointments, and attempting to fulfill all of the woman’s “love languages” at the same time. They’re in fear that they will be labeled a bad father when the CDC has provided facts that black men are the most active fathers.

nikka you are immortal and weak. If I’m a bytch wtf are you? You want to go run around behind your wife back to waste money that could be going towards your household on some side bytch to fukk and go on dates with. The only bytch is you because you’re afraid that you can’t do what you want. If I was married and wanted another bytch I would tell my wife and do what I wanted because unlike you I’m not a scary bytch hiding and lying.

 

[Taadow]

Why you dikk watching ? I roll with my boys right or wrong

You must be young

 

[Taadow]

It depends. I'd say, mind your business as long as he doesn't implicate you in his foolishness.

…and here we have it.

To these niccas in here talmbat “dikk policing”, it ain’t that.
What i is is

1. Ya Girl and her troops are the real Dikk Police, and I’ll be damned if you have them running up on me
because you outchea being reckless. When you lying on me trying to cover up some chit, imma have to check yo’ ass.

2. (from experience) these cheaters are usually the ones to bring up this chit instead of doing dirt all by your lonely.
Everything be cool playing basketball or watching the game, but then they fucc up the vibe because they
gotta confess to somebody when they get the sidechick pregnant. At that point, all I can do is keep it all the way real
witcha! But I’ll tell you this, too - you done fucced up now because while I’m not gonna tattle tell or get involved,
I’m also not the one who gonna be tiptoeing around Ya Girl or studying a flow chart of your active lies so as to not
give you up. That’s too much work to have to be your friend. It’s easier to just not fucc with you anymore like that.

 

[Prodyson]

Women stick together. A woman can know her friend cheating on you and won’t tell the man if she cool with him so I mind my business. I also keep him at a distance.

If a chick rolls with girls that be cheating and don’t think twice about it, I’m gonna assume she on that same time..

If it’s a one off thing… I’ll give a little more grace

 

[Prodyson]

You just an immortal nikka. You still haven’t explained how it makes you a better husband or father dumbass that was the question. Answer the question instead of being emotional like a female

Ol boy’s hobby is smashing other chicks and putting his relationship and family at risk when he could just go play video games or golf or something. Think having to constantly lie to your girl is somehow good for your relationship brehs, smh.

These dudes are touched in the head

 

[skeetsinternal]

Lions get other lions the fukk away from them in nature. You ain't gonna see a lion check another lion for doing what lions supposed do which is fukk bytches