Should men check their homeboys for cheating on their girls

[mag357]

Me: bro, u my homie and everything but you gotta stop cheating on your girl man. She's a good woman, man. I love what you guys have bro. U need to respect your relationship. You feel me?

Him: nikka didn't u get head from that one bytch while ur girl was downstairs that one time.


Me: why you gotta bring up old sht tho

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

Yup

Thread shows that women stick to girl code more than men.

Quiet as it's kept...they stay in code with each other.

Men should stick to girl code too (which is a lack of accountability)? Men should follow the lead of women? Men shouldn't lead and set an example?

And then y'all cats turn around and have the nerve to speak about how men are turning into women these days.

Lord have mercy.

 

[Taadow]

I'm gonna ask you just like i asked the other poster …

I don’t have a girl

 

[O.Red]

It depends honestly. A lot of these situations ain't black and white

You can usually tell how serious your boy is about a woman, ususally by what he tells you and what you notice. It's a stereotype that men don't talk about certain things with their friends. Nikkas talk about a lot

That said if it doesn't seem that serious it's You might shoot him a look or pull him to the side like "You sure about this? You and Jenise good?" but that just about all you can do. You can't make anybody do anything

Now if your boy has shown and said that he's really serious about his girl, or his wife, that's when the pull asides get a little more serious. "Seems like you got a good thing going with Lisa breh you got a chance of fukkin your life up on this play" You can't do much more than that if a nikka really wants to cheat

 

[zayk35]

Call me whatever you want. But I'm saying something to that friend. I don't deal with foul ppl in any capacity.

 

[re'up]

Pretty sure almost all my friends have cheated at one point or another, consistently or just once or twice

This was 15 years ago, but I remember having a hotel suite for my birthday, and my boy did some Goodfellas shyt and brought his girl on the side on Friday and his wife the next day, two sets of couples. That's really not my business though. He stopped all that years ago and raised a family and stayed with his wife.

One of my other boys was serially unfaithful, but I got tight with both his new girl, and her sister, never told anyone anything until it was all done between them.

It makes sense for some people, that see marriage/coupledom as a shared value to protect, but for me, it's not really my place to 'check' them, I might comment on it, clown them, point out their bullshyt, but it's not a wedge issue in the friendship.

One of them once said "i never cheated on her once" and was feeling sorry for himself, so I named like 6 times I remembered, in different hotel rooms where I was present lol

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

I'd never cheat anyone but if one my friends did check me for that I would assume they wanna fukk my girl

What's the logic here ?

 

[CP3.]

What's the logic here ?

Cause why dude care about her MORE than I do when it's my girl?

You just know dude gon run behind your back and tell her so he can smash.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Cause why dude care about her MORE than I do when it's my girl?

You just know dude gon run behind your back and tell her so he can smash.

Are you sure cheating didn’t just make you paranoid breh ?

 

[Jazzy B.]

I don’t have a girl

Then when you get a girl or your wife?


Do/would you trust them knowing the information I've just presented to you?

 

[LuuqMaan]

 

[Jazzy B.]

Yup

Thread shows that women stick to girl code more than men.

Quiet as it's kept...they stay in code with each other.

To be fair most men are on code about that.

It's just these male feminists going OFF SCRIPT talking about "integrity matters" when at the same time they have no problem accepting women who do everything I mentioned in my initial post. Which is EVERY WOMAN.

Bros BEFORE HOES.

 

[Dad]

No, I dont want to be around anyone/anything that could potentially break up a family.

I can’t imagine carrying around that burden

 

[DeuceZ]

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[The Wolf Among You]

No. But it will change the dynamic of our friendship especially if he’s flaunting it around me as if it’s normal.

You do your dirt by yourself.