Shedding light on the ugly domestic violence epidemic in the black community

[agnosticlady]

I just want to make sure I am reading what you're posting correctly.
just let me know.

If the woman gets hit and stays = it's the woman's fault
if the woman even entertained him to begin with = it's the woman's fault
if the woman gets hit it's 9 times out of 10 She "provoked " him =its the woman's fault

If your best friend continues to hit you and disrespect you are you going to continue being friends with them?

 

[Matt504]

I just want to make sure I am reading what you're posting correctly.
just let me know.

If the woman gets hit and stays = it's the woman's fault
if the woman even entertained him to begin with = it's the woman's fault
if the woman gets hit it's 9 times out of 10 She "provoked " him =its the woman's fault

AND the post is coming from a woman.

 

[FinesseKing]

Except for the fact that most here aren't gauging the problem from reported stats we're gauging them by the number of MURDERS as a result of domestic violence. Something that takes all of the "bias" that you discuss out of the equation.

The discussion within itself is bias by making this a black problem. Violence against women is a problem throughout the world, black people don't need anymore badges and we fall for every agenda every time.

 

[Standing on business]

"My ex boyfriend is a thug or gangbanger"----Every black woman

MARY J BLIGE

Bad boys aint no good
Good boys aint no fun
Lord knows that I should
Run off with the right one

[Chorus:]
Me and Mr Wrong get along so good (so good)
Even though he breaks my heart so bad (so bad)
We got a special thing going on
Me and Mr Wrong (mister wrong)
Even if I try, no, I never could
Give him up cause his loves like that
Aint no way that I’m moving on
I love my Mr Wrong


CIARA

I can't leave 'em alone
I tried that good boy game
But the dope boy's turning me on
It's just that he know what I want
So bad, I love that, I can't leave 'em alone
I can't leave 'em alone
I tried that game
But the dope boy's turning me on
It's just that he know what I want
So bad, I love that, I can't leave 'em alone


BEYONCE

If your status ain't hood
I ain't checkin' for him
Betta be street if he lookin' at me

 

[agnosticlady]

I thought you were against words leading to violence. Hmmm.


I knew I was conversing with an imbecile, but this just confirmed it. I never said that all Coli males were abusers, or that all black males were abusers. I said the cause for the elevated stats is black males. If red cars have a higher rate of failure me saying that doesn't mean that I'm saying all red cars fail. As for the wench crap I won't be cavorting with Chad. I plan on marrying a black man which coincidentally raises my chances of being a victim of domestic violence.

bytch go hang yourself, you're as annoying as they come.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I stick by my word. If someone slams your head against a car door and you have the ability to leave yet choose to stay you are an idiot. Yeah it's not easy to leave, but to continue to stay knowing tomorrow can be your last doesn't deserve any sympathy.

You kind of over simplifying from a psychological standpoint.... If it was that easy, this thread probably doesn't get made..

 

[agnosticlady]

MARY J BLIGE

Bad boys aint no good
Good boys aint no fun
Lord knows that I should
Run off with the right one

[Chorus:]
Me and Mr Wrong get along so good (so good)
Even though he breaks my heart so bad (so bad)
We got a special thing going on
Me and Mr Wrong (mister wrong)
Even if I try, no, I never could
Give him up cause his loves like that
Aint no way that I’m moving on
I love my Mr Wrong

Yup. Look how popular urban fiction novels about having a thug, street pharmacist, gangster, pimp as a boyfriend is popular among black women.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Men like this should be punished to the fullest

But ladies, damn, y'all sure know how to pick em

lookin for love and don't know what it is....downfall of many females

 

[wickedsm]

I stick by my word. If someone slams your head against a car door and you have the ability to leave yet choose to stay you are an idiot. Yeah it's not easy to leave, but to continue to stay knowing tomorrow can be your last doesn't deserve any sympathy.

what about those who don't have the ability to leave? Be it money or geography or health or age of children?

 

[mrken12]

The discussion within itself is bias by making this a black problem. Violence against women is a problem throughout the world, black people don't need anymore badges and we fall for every agenda every time.

Exactly. Why does it have to be an "epidemic" with black people?

 

[Lana del Rey]

I gonna wait and come back when thecoli starts blaming black women for this.

They already are....

 

[agnosticlady]

You kind of over simplifying from a psychological standpoint.... If it was that easy, this thread probably doesn't get made..

Show me where I said it's easy. The fact that it's hard doesn't mean you stay. If you stay cool, but I refuse to feel sad when she gets killed.

 

[bcrusaderw]

bytch go hang yourself, you're as annoying as they come.

Ooh the little c*nt is feisty today.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Exactly. Why does it have to be an "epidemic" with black people?

Maybe because the numbers are elevated in our community. You dudes have no problem reporting the obesity, single parenthood rates, and STD rates in black women, but when we discuss this we're all agenda driven c00ns? The hypocrisy.

 

[mrken12]

And also, like dude mentioned earlier, black women also commit DV, it just goes unreported cuz who's gonna call the cops on their women...but since they're non reported, ppl are gonna act like they never happen just for the sake of arguement

Let's not forget the increasing number of lesbian relationships in society when lesbian relationships have DV rates almost to the same level of heterosexual couples.