Modern times, within the black community, light skinned dudes probably get shytted on the most
Dudes & chicks think they're too soft or pretty.Even women of other races majority of the time want
a dark skinned brother when they choose to date a black man.I know niccaz will run in here & try
to rebuttal what I said, but I can only speak from my own experiences.I've been around sisters who'd
just flat out look at light skinned dudes like
.And I'm not trying to dump on light skinned
dudes.I don't put my mind into that kind of bullshyt.I just never really understood it.Even the women in
my family.None of them fukk with light skinned dudes.Is it the "Too pretty"/"soft" stigma?In the psycho ego/
psychology of dating/sex.Women normally wanna play the role of "pretty" "soft".Does being framed up
next to a light skinned dude interfere with that?On top of that, the whole "protector" thing.If a chick buys into
the light skinned/soft thing, will she not view a light skinned dude as "food" out here in them streets? Incapable
of really protecting her?Basically making the puzzy go cold & dry because subconsciously, they dont want to risk
having babies with your
soft azz?This is especially true for the sisters.No other race of women in America struggles
with self image/establishing a beauty standard like the American Black Woman.When you've been beat over the head,
brainwashed, and made to feel unpretty for centuries...Wouldn't that create a dynamic of NOT wanting to be snuggled
up next to a pretty light skinned dude? If you're of the belief that this society views light skin as more pretty/desirable, would
that not make a
weaker willed black woman feel like the "lesser" one in the relationship?Even if it's only on a subconscious level?
Being with a "pretty" nicaa will only help to further eclipse your struggling self image, right? Through the public eye, I mean?
I know people will say "fukk what people think", but that's easier said than done.I bet it effects a large amount of sisters out there.
Which is why struggling beauties want a beast looking muthafukka.It makes them feel like the trophy and not the leper.Otherwise,
"How can my prettiness stand out if this pretty muthafukka is viewed as prettier than me?
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