well, I don't watch porn, so.... I have sex when a desire comes up.Relationships would be less difficult if you didn't have to govern your side pieces as well as try to keep your "main" happy and unsuspecting. Sounds like a lot of work just to fukk another bytch whenever you want. Why even enter a relationship?
when your at work or school or in life - you met females. there are thug nikkas, nerds, normal dudes, and college kids..
i can only speak to young professional black men. Pus count is limitless for us. So eventually you meet a dime (in ur eyes) who is smart and personable. You catch feelings n wife her up.. she goes from bish to Queen.
but the rest of the bishes are still out there. you aren't blind. plus in relationships some men want diversity and if you aren't settled down for 100% good forever then y not smash?? Especially during the bad times in the relationship - u think that some young 19 year old is great until u hit it... u notice "pus tight but can't really relate to this rat bish" So that helps you appreciate ur main.
There are a million situations - but bottom line the diversity is natural for men. And picking a side piece is like a art- u can't chose the wife materials as the side.