Sexual Abstinence

Blackking

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Relationships would be less difficult if you didn't have to govern your side pieces as well as try to keep your "main" happy and unsuspecting. Sounds like a lot of work just to fukk another bytch whenever you want. Why even enter a relationship?
well, I don't watch porn, so.... I have sex when a desire comes up.

when your at work or school or in life - you met females. there are thug nikkas, nerds, normal dudes, and college kids..

i can only speak to young professional black men. Pus count is limitless for us. So eventually you meet a dime (in ur eyes) who is smart and personable. You catch feelings n wife her up.. she goes from bish to Queen.

but the rest of the bishes are still out there. you aren't blind. plus in relationships some men want diversity and if you aren't settled down for 100% good forever then y not smash?? Especially during the bad times in the relationship - u think that some young 19 year old is great until u hit it... u notice "pus tight but can't really relate to this rat bish" So that helps you appreciate ur main.

There are a million situations - but bottom line the diversity is natural for men. And picking a side piece is like a art- u can't chose the wife materials as the side.
 

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You just haven't made the right dude who will put in the work :shaq:

or maybe with someone you're truly connected with :yeshrug:, also has a lot to do with knowing what you like and being able to express that to your partner.

But seriously though, I've heard this before from females and my above statements has held true.

Negative! I dated a individual for 2 years (he was a dancer), I give his sexual performance a 10. I have a crazy sex drive, I can go for hours and he surpassed me each time. I've always ended up receiving multiple orgasms. He was just mentally and emotionally unstable, I could no longer deal with that shyt. That's when I learned to never date a guy with a fukked up upbringing. He was fatherless, mom was a crackhead, and his grandparents raised him up in an abusive atmosphere .
 

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lol, your right... but the chances can't be that high, i've been tested and have done way too much. when i turn 30 i'm going to stay w one girl after a very good smashing career. not a big deal.

but in the meantime - some rules:

You can't hit dirty hoes raw. you can't be reckless when you have a main girl. you can't eat out every chick. you should make sure your side piece is loyal to you and available at all times even if you aren't- or drop her. You shouldn't smutt out too much when we have a main chick. Half of all people will have an std at 1 point, so you really can't really b careful. Abstinence just isn't an opinion for some people - especially if ur in a relationship. target the abstinent girls or good girls or girls who talk the shyt that rawtid is talking because you have less of a chance of catching something and more of a chance of wifing because those types usually are stuck on u harder.
I'm still a virgin, I want to wait until I get married.

I'm kind of afraid to get married though, I saw how my mom and dad's marriage ended and I don't really want to go through that. and seeing all these threads the guys on here make about cheating doesn't really help either. :sadcam:
Your best bet is to start dating outside your race, nikkas are a different breed of human beings now.
 

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That's because a man can't catch it from a female vaginally.

Oh and as for you, I'll say it again. You've had some lame nikkas.

As for me, considering i'm a man with plenty of testosterone who doesn't jerk his life force away to porn all the damn time...no i'm not abstinent.:ld:

It's low risk of catching HIV from a female vaginally, but it's possible. Also know that AIDS is more stronger and potent in a person immune system than HIV.
 

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It's low risk of catching HIV from a female vaginally, but it's possible. Also know that AIDS is more stronger and potent in a person immune system than HIV.

Possible like one in a million. And very few straight people in this country are walking around with aids, especially young people...I dunno why you even mentioned that to be honest lol. You kick it with drug addicts or something?:huhldup:
 

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I don't feel I'm missing out on anything by being overly careful in regards to sex. The pleasure isn't great enough for the risk involved. Some people feel differently.
I feel the same way:ehh:
 
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