I dont need sex twice a day, once a day or even a couple times a week, all I am asking from him is sex MAYBE once a week to a week and a half but we on average have sex about every 30 days. I have a lot going for me: I am an attractive 25-year-old, I get looks and nice comments from different men, I run my own business, I work out regularly and am in better shape than most women, I have a great personality and have a lot of friends, I also am a woman that likes to have sex!! My boyfriend and I have been going to a sex therapist for about five months now and nothing has changed with our intimacy. I like to dress up for him but when he sees me in a sexy outfit he gets upset because he thinks I am pressuring him to have sex and that its not fair to put that kind of pressure on him. He doesnt have a problem getting erect, in fact I find him masturbating in the shower and on the couch when he thinks I am not around. It hurts my feelings that I throw myself at him and am usually willing and ready for some action and he masturbates and doesnt include me. I ask him over and over why wont you have sex with me, what do I need to do?