how can the sex be good after 10 years of marriage? real talk
thank god as muslims were allowed to marry more than 1
But do those Islamic laws apply in Canada? :obama3:
how can the sex be good after 10 years of marriage? real talk
thank god as muslims were allowed to marry more than 1
Do you eat the same food everyday? Because I don't :jada:
You do not care about any women you aren't dating. . So this wasn't to you...no I don't eat the same food everyday but I'm not comparing my spouses penis to food...I don't mind sleeping with the same man daily. ..
Very good observation. I read the lady's comments once and didn't give it two thoughts but when you think about it, I think you're right.
Part of this is because society (men included) act like sex is just a matter or flicking a light switch and going. Which is true under normal relaxed conditions but if a man has a career and obligations like family, friends ect and his woman is busy as well...its possible that their hornyness might be out of sync.
She might want it when the nikka is dead tired and he might want it while she is out with her friends or tending to her business, or working out at the gym.
She probably looks at it like..."men never make a big deal about sex, they want it (think about it) all the time so, why doesn't he want it from me?". He probably does want it but not when she's available...that's probably why she found him gettin off to porn when he 'thought she wasn't around'...:thinking:
Or maybe he watches too much porn and has a real specific kinky requirement...who knows but anyway.. @Taadow you make some very good points.
Stfu...half of you men have women that give you sex constantly yet you still have women on the side...we have needs too stop acting like women don't need sex as much as men...
I feel sorry for those women
It's funny that y'all mentioned the live birth situation because my pops refused to be in the delivery room when my sister and I were born. I really think that experience traumatizes and disgusts the male mind to the point of reducing sexual desire. This was in the 80's though.. Women these days won't allow men to do that.
I can add to this. During my 13 year marriage, my wife had an insatiable desire, yes, it far out-weighed my own. The only thing was she wanted it very standard, missionary, vanilla and exhaustive. I just got tired of it.
You see it.
That particular case is even beyond the sex part of it: she's coming off (no pun intended) like "Alright nicca - it's Tuesday at midnight, it's time to fucc..."
At that point the nicca in his mind might be thinking "Well hell, I wanted to fucc Saturday night but she was out with her friends. And I wanted to fucc yesterday when she was working...i'm not about to fucc right now just because she says it's time to fucc..."
...and this illustrates one of the points @Fredrick Thuglas was making. This broads doesn't know ANY of us...doesn't know what we're doing in our homes...yet she's sure that half of us (1) have sex constantly, and (2) have women on the side.
She has to be right, because men "think about/want sex all the time".
This is also why if you don't be all up under your girl the first thing they think is "this nicca is cheating on me..."
And nobody is acting like women don't need sex as much as men...but women.
When you get married and watch a child come out of your wifes p*ssy, something changes. You dont know what i mean right now, but you will. She gets put in the M-zone.
These women may want it all the time, but they may be wack in bed, so the men don't want to bother.
well you better spice it up doing backflips and sh!t if you want that n!gga to stick around.
A man has to be aroused before he can go to 'work' most these women became whales or stopped doing what got them the dude in the first place.
Of course you always have the porn factor. Got off that sh!t some years ago and my life changed.
Sounds like a bunch of excuses to me...having sex doesn't take that long...
I was trying to say that anybody (male or female) would not be eager to have sex if they're not in the mood. Me personally, if I am stressed out (usually because of money or career) sex doesn't cross my mind. I would think...damn she look good but my mind reverts right back to the problems Im having.
You mean to tell me, you never had the chance to have sex, but because you weren't in the mood (or had something on your mind/bothering you) you turned it down? If your answer is no, then I guess everybody is different.
I'm not making excusses for these dudes because I don't know any of them from a can of paint but @Taadow made a very good observation. The lady's issues might be easier to fix. They may just need to spend more time together so that the sex can become more spontaneous...
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Yes love...we've all had situations where sex was the furthest thing from our mind but for a year?...one woman said her husband sleeps with her a few times a year? Na ...