SEX 101: Should Women Approach Men On The Dating Scene?

[Kilgore Trout]

To be honest I actually think the women do the choosing anyway. I always spit at the girl first but she has to give me a sign or position herself to be spit at.

 

[Dooby]

To be honest I actually think the women do the choosing anyway. I always spit at the girl first but she has to give me a sign or position herself to be spit at.

So you never had a girl approach you? Or spark up the convo?

 

[shopthatwrecks]

i dont mind bein hunted..if she know what she like..why not

 

[Sierra Mist]

It's irrelevant as long as women continue to not know what they want in a man.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

So you never had a girl approach you? Or spark up the convo?

Huh?

That happens all the time but I have high standards so I usually gotta holla at the girls I want to get with.

 

[DalMem]

Now, I dont think any man should depend on this as their primary way of meeting females, but yep. I believe they should. Why would I want a woman who is scared to go after something that interests her? Additionally, a woman doesn't even have to do much to approach a nicca. If im feeling her and shes trying to get that upgrade, all she gotta do is simply introduce herself. I'll pick up the slack.

It just baffles me to read about women being afraid to approach us. We're simple creatures. That standing next me at the bar while flippin ya hair, acting quiet, waiting for me to speak to you shyt is just wack, childish, high school shyt to me. A woman that can just step up to the king and introduce herself is just damn sexy.

LOL

Why do women always do this. bytch if you want me, then say something chick. These hoes do everything to try and get your attention but speak.

 

[DaRealness]

^^^^^^^

 

[YBE]

LOL

Why do women always do this. bytch if you want me, then say something chick. These hoes do everything to try and get your attention but speak.

I hate that shyt and no matter how old i get, i always fail at noticing those signs

 

[Ashley Banks]

I used to approach men but they always thought I was joking, so I stopped. I do think more women should approach men but women are afraid of rejection so that will probably never happen.

 

[DaRealness]

I used to approach men but they always thought I was joking, so I stopped. I do think more women should approach men but women are afraid of rejection so that will probably never happen.

I'd say welcome to our world if that's the case.

It doesn't bother me either way, but I always find it interesting how the independent strong mentality never spills over into the arena of approaching a man they find attractive.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I'd say welcome to our world if that's the case.

It doesn't bother me either way, but I always find it interesting how the independent strong mentality never spills over into the arena of approaching a man they find attractive.

It does spill over into that, just not with the women y'all want. lol. The "undesirables" approach dudes all the time and you guys turn them down because they're hideous. I'm sure you've been approached by really really old women, or fat women, or super ugly women, A LOT. but you don't want them.

 

[DaRealness]

It does spill over into that, just not with the women y'all want. lol. The "undesirables" approach dudes all the time and you guys turn them down because they're hideous. I'm sure you've been approached by really really old women, or fat women, or super ugly women, A LOT. but you don't want them.

Actually, I haven't. That's my point. I don't get approached per say, it's always somebody on some "my friend likes you" shyt cos her homegirl was too nervous to approach me (like I'm gonna bite). I've had that many times. Or I'll hear through a female cousin that one of their friends is always asking questions about me that she could be asking her damn self. Then when you hit it off with another female those same broads get mad and start acting all funny with you even though you didn't have the slightest idea as to how they felt in the first place. Guys just shrug it off when it's the other way around.

I can't speak for all men, but this is the kind of stuff many dudes find annoying. It's like we're the ones that have to take all the risks and do the hard grafting while women don't want to make the effort either because they feel they're too good for it or they're scared of the same rejection that men themselves face from THEM all the time.

 

[RandomRN86]

I think its all in the approach. I generally do not approach men first, but if I see him trying/a little shy/nervous, i will try to help him out by making a comment or joke.




I know it must be hard for them sometimes

 

[DaRealness]

Oh yeah and don't even expect men to approach you when you're in a group. You may be the nicest chick in the world but guaranteed at least one of your friends is a hating ass parasite who will cockblock at every opportunity.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

That's how I got my 2 sons off the strength of bein' approached.

Men dont have to chase and be the aggressor. That's just what society wants you to believe.

fukk them prissy ass hoes that want to be chased like it's a game and they're some fukkin queen