You are correct, It goes both ways.Imagine having kids and you wake up at 34 realizing you don't want to raise them anymore too late now but best believe the little rugrats will feel the distant energy and lack of parental love coming from you. These the kids out here acting a damn fool. I wish more people waited and took time to really think about why they want kids. Are you actually going to be a real parent giving your child unconditional love or is it for selfish reasons.
Some people NEVER actually want to be parents through the whole thing.