Sell out for femininity, I am tired of 'fun girls' myself breh.
The game so bad that I've gotten to thinking down the line, really next year, to where I am going to travel to Sousa DR, for 2-3 weeks, 3-4 times out of a year and be content. Not sure how your income game is setup, but it's suitable for myself, but I am hearing more dudes that have paper take this route and they are good, they do their thing with a few chicks here and there, until it's time to take their trip. (They still keep a rotation if so)
And before a stupid broke cheeky ass breh come and reply to my post about, "you gotta go and get p*ssy in another country, it's not even for the p*ssy for me a breh can get p*ssy here, it's just what comes with it is the shyt that's not for the taking for the long haul, (Too much work) Over there in the DR, and it's not all about that, plus it's bigger than that, if you've ever been there.
Fool with a few chicks here, if possible, date younger chicks. Eventually try something different outside of my race while still dating black.
It's not a frustrating thing, one thing KS stated, it's not going to be easy finding someone that fits you.