Ruckfonnie
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OP just needs to step up. Your woman already expressed her feelings and your deficiencies, now it’s up to you be a man and handle business ![troll :troll: :troll:](https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/troll.png)
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Some women want life to look like a fairytale movie with constant dates and attention. Others can just chill at home on the couch for months. Take the L for having the former.Earlier this year, I went to x place with my girl. Spent like 5 days, super nice high rise hotel, then two overseas country halfway through the year...for close to a week.... she constantly complains about me not courting her. We live together. Our last date was a month ago. In between thanks giving holiday, also I traveled to South Florida myself n she goes to vegas and now wants to do a trip or road trip which I honestly don't care to do. All my vacation days have been spent traveling, I just want to freaking chill.
Like damn, its like women keep watching these social media sheet n think life should be some fairy tale romance movies daily, dates weekly blah blah. I am perfectly fine just chillin at the house. I have always been this way. F
Like I am the easiest guy to date because I am mad laid back and let things work itself out (lol she complains about that too). Now she is talking about trouble in paradise.
lol am I wrong here? Also valentines day and her birthday, I went big for her. It's like all that is out of the window.
They live together …A date one month ago, sounds wild. I make sure to “date” my close friends at least weekly, even if it’s just lunch or literally one hour at happy hour.
It’s 52 weeks in a year, you say you spent 1 week, which is less than 2%, and that was earlier this year and it’s December.
Y’all don’t appear to be on the same page.
How am I wrong?
IS that really the problem though? Because the more I read the more it sounds like a 2022 X3 owner complaining about how his 2015 328i requires more care and maintenance than his new whip. He seems to only want to take the X3 in for 1-and-done servicing (ala expensive 5 day vacations) meanwhile the 328i requires more nuanced maintainece or care (or in this case, something more niche and involved, like a roadtrip).Its a bad match. This individual woman is too high maintenance for you.
Id compare it to a bmw owner complaining about all the random parts breaking, or niche oil requirements, or expensive service visits , when that owner only wants to put gas in the car and go. Rather than being frustrated with the bmw, the owner should pursue a low maintenance vehicle like a camry and be happy.
You need to find yourself a female equivalent of a camry breh.
I brought up us potentially ending things this morning and she got very emotional cried and said she is not ready to give up on us
The thing is, he probably does see it as quality time. Perspective is a mf.Does your girl consider being together in the house y’all share the same as a date night out?
He yes but does sheThe thing is, he probably does see it as quality time. Perspective is a mf.
I highly doubt she does, but if you have your woman in check, you don’t have to worry about her happiness. You sound like a simp.He yes but does she![]()
I highly doubt she does, but if you have your woman in check, you don’t have to worry about her happiness. You sound like a simp.
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All my vacation days have been spent traveling, I just want to freaking chill.