relationships are a pain man....like am i wrong here?!!

[Mirin4rmfar]

Earlier this year, I went to x place with my girl. Spent like 5 days, super nice high rise hotel, then two overseas country halfway through the year...for close to a week.... she constantly complains about me not courting her. We live together. Our last date was a month ago. In between thanks giving holiday, also I traveled to South Florida myself n she goes to vegas and now wants to do a trip or road trip which I honestly don't care to do. All my vacation days have been spent traveling, I just want to freaking chill.

Like damn, its like women keep watching these social media sheet n think life should be some fairy tale romance movies daily, dates weekly blah blah. I am perfectly fine just chillin at the house. I have always been this way. F

Like I am the easiest guy to date because I am mad laid back and let things work itself out (lol she complains about that too). Now she is talking about trouble in paradise.

lol am I wrong here? Also valentines day and her birthday, I went big for her. It's like all that is out of the window.

 

[Hersh]

attempt to reason logically to a emotional female breh.

 

[LuuqMaan]

You spoiled that child.
If you try to close that ‘constant and regular holiday/gifts/dates’ door, nothing but trouble ahead.
If you like her a lot, I’d be careful with your next steps.

 

[Software]

Sounds like you not with the right woman for you. Find you a homebody.

 

[Sad Bunny]

You could do a weekly date night it doesn’t have to be expensive.

 

[FrontoBama]

Like I am the easiest guy to date because I am mad laid back and let things work itself out (lol she complains about that too). Now she is talking about trouble in paradise.

this is a vewwy vewwy important tidbit.

How you view yourself vs what that looks like to her vs what you both seek.

xbox games might fit in a ps case, but it will NEVER be Able to turn the console on *stomps cigarette*

 

[OneManGang]

Might have to bush her. There’s a girl out there that won’t trip on that

 

[Family Man]

Put her under manners or end it now. shyts only going to get worst with time. She finna dump you sooner or later anyways and blame it on you not stunting with her enough. Some bytches are childish and have a self sabotage streak bro.

 

[Manolo]

She went to Vegas by herself and she’s complaining you don’t make her feel special anymore

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Earlier this year, I went to x place with my girl. Spent like 5 days, super nice high rise hotel, then two overseas country halfway through the year...for close to a week.... she constantly complains about me not courting her. We live together. Our last date was a month ago. In between thanks giving holiday, also I traveled to South Florida myself n she goes to vegas and now wants to do a trip or road trip which I honestly don't care to do. All my vacation days have been spent traveling, I just want to freaking chill.

Like damn, its like women keep watching these social media sheet n think life should be some fairy tale romance movies daily, dates weekly blah blah. I am perfectly fine just chillin at the house. I have always been this way. F

Like I am the easiest guy to date because I am mad laid back and let things work itself out (lol she complains about that too). Now she is talking about trouble in paradise.

lol am I wrong here? Also valentines day and her birthday, I went big for her. It's like all that is out of the window.

Listen to Larry June and emulate him.

He never seems to have women trouble, seems relaxed and has $

 

[Dad]

You gotta put yourself first,breh

If you wanna chill at the crib, then chill at the crib. It’s that simple.

if she wants to go somewhere then let her go

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Date women in 2022, brehs

 

[MajesticLion]

You spoiled that child.

Bingo.

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

You spoiled that child.
If you try to close that ‘constant and regular holiday/gifts/dates’ door, nothing but trouble ahead.
If you like her a lot, I’d be careful with your next steps.

This.


You teach people how to treat you. Sounds as if you taught her that she can get whatever she wants and that u won’t give any pushback. Its similar to raising a child.


One of my homies had this same issue and his girl just kept demanding more and more. She was really trying to see if he had any nuts to tell her no or stand up for himself. Majority of women don’t like a pushover, there has to be balance.

They eventually divorced and he’s much happier now because the foundation he laid for the relationship was unsustainable

 

[So-Chi]

Earlier this year, I went to x place with my girl. Spent like 5 days, super nice high rise hotel, then two overseas country halfway through the year...for close to a week.... she constantly complains about me not courting her. We live together. Our last date was a month ago. In between thanks giving holiday, also I traveled to South Florida myself n she goes to vegas and now wants to do a trip or road trip which I honestly don't care to do. All my vacation days have been spent traveling, I just want to freaking chill.

Like damn, its like women keep watching these social media sheet n think life should be some fairy tale romance movies daily, dates weekly blah blah. I am perfectly fine just chillin at the house. I have always been this way. F

Like I am the easiest guy to date because I am mad laid back and let things work itself out (lol she complains about that too). Now she is talking about trouble in paradise.

lol am I wrong here? Also valentines day and her birthday, I went big for her. It's like all that is out of the window.