Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

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You guys are still going? :dahell:

Please, go outside and touch grass. There’s a whole beautiful world out there (unless you live in Cleveland).
The last 8 pages have been cats tryna tell a man about his experiences just because they refuse to believe that an anomaly exists.
Why do y'all act like you can't post on your phone while being outside and doing things :dead:
You can, but the level of back and forth with another poster about his own experiences and development is unnecessary.

He's been forced to repeat himself more than any actual complaining.
 

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So you agreeing with that poster that if you dont have that experience its an immovable obstacle to having experience and can’t be overcome?
No. I actually agree that nikkas can overcoming anything if they serious. in fact I think dudes to have some hardship in order to make them stronger. Nothing worst then seeing a nikka 30 plus getting his hurt broking for the first time. That nikka might kill her, the dog, the gold fish and whoever tied to the family.

I just see their point...
 

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No. I actually agree that nikkas can overcoming anything if they serious. in fact I think dudes to have some hardship in order to make them stronger. Nothing worst then seeing a nikka 30 plus getting his hurt broking for the first time. That nikka might kill her, the dog, the gold fish and whoever tied to the family.

I just see their point...
That’s the thing, I told that poster very clearly that what he went through is/was real and I wasn’t trying to invalidate the trauma.

My pivot was that he wasn’t doomed to not having a woman attracted to him in the future because of same trauma. If that’s out of touch and can’t be said then so be it.
 
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Nikkas is out there letting women with
Fake hair
Fake titties
Fake asses
Fake dentures
Bad hygiene
Fukked up Credit
Fake asses
Fake waists which is why they wear waist trainers
A graveyard of abortions
Drug and alcohol problems
Never resolved Trauma

Fukk up their confidence and self worth? :mjtf:
 

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Nikkas is out there letting women with
Fake hair
Fake titties
Fake asses
Fake dentures
Bad hygiene
Fukked up Credit
Fake asses
Fake waists which is why they wear waist trainers
A graveyard of abortions
Drug and alcohol problems
Never resolved Trauma

Fukk up their confidence and self worth? :mjtf:

think you just about covered it.
 

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The last 8 pages have been cats tryna tell a man about his experiences just because they refuse to believe that an anomaly exists.

You can, but the level of back and forth with another poster about his own experiences and development is unnecessary.

He's been forced to repeat himself more than any actual complaining.
No I've been speaking to the man about admitting what is clearly a fear of rejection that limits him instead of projecting that fear on other people and saying they won't want him and they've chosen for him. I imagine looking at a group of individuals and making an assumption they are all the same and all think the same way about anything.

I don't think I've seen him once acknowledge it. I haven't seen him say "maybe the majority of women aren't attracted to me but I can't speak for all of them. What I can say is I am unwilling to face rejection from any woman to find one that will possibly be attracted to me."

As a man on this site I've voiced attraction to women that other men on this site wouldn't even touch. People are individuals not hiveminds and should be treated accordingly.
 

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No I've been speaking to the man about admitting what is clearly a fear of rejection that limits him instead of projecting that fear on other people and saying they won't want him and they've chosen for him. I imagine looking at a group of individuals and making an assumption they are all the same and all think the same way about anything.

I don't think I've seen him once acknowledge it. I haven't seen him say "maybe the majority of women aren't attracted to me but I can't speak for all of them. What I can say is I am unwilling to face rejection from any woman to find one that will possibly be attracted to me."

As a man on this site I've voiced attraction to women that other men on this site wouldn't even touch. People are individuals not hiveminds and should be treated accordingly.
Breh the man has at least one other thread he's created himself documenting his actual attempts with women, as well a huge weight loss. You're making assumptions about him because he won't concede to the "be a man and suffer harder for a chance" mantra.

People are not as individualistic as you think, least of all women, so we fundamentally disagree on that.
 

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Breh the man has at least one other thread he's created himself documenting his actual attempts with women, as well a huge weight loss. You're making assumptions about him because he won't concede to the "be a man and suffer harder for a chance" mantra.

People are not as individualistic as you think, least of all women, so we fundamentally disagree on that.
I'm not making assumptions at all. I've seem men with women on their arm where you'd be like there's no way he pulled her yet he did. Morbidly obese men, ugly men, the whole 9. I'm sure you've seen it too out there in the world.

It's one thing to say I'm not willing to do something because the experience is too painful for me personally. It's another to pretend as if you speak for an entire gender when based on maybe at tops several hundred encounters with billions (and likely not even several hundred) you act like you know all their thinking on anything.

There's a level of discomfort in saying I'm walking away from somethin because I can't do it that you never have to face if you blame others for your behavior and the choices you make.
 

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You told me to go to the gym .

You're making assumptions.
I didn't tell you to go to the gym for the purpose of attracting women though. You go to the gym to build confidence in yourself. When you put forth effort and physically change yourself that's a confidence builder. It's an achievement. Personally I think going to the gym to try and attract the opposite sex is fucking stupid and is so shallow a motivation for going it wouldn't even last a few months. When I say improve yourself as a man it's not for their sake it's for yours.

BTW I'm saying it's totally fine to give up on something but it's not totally fine to give up on something and pretend like that decision was forced on you when it was a choice you made. Own your own behavior and don't push your choices on others. That's some weak shit. I don't fault you for giving up on dating at all. I fault you for not being able to admit it was your decision to do so and pretending like they forced that on you.

Don't get me wrong. As my earlier post in this thread indicate I think dating is totally worthless. I don't strive to be the type of man any woman would ever want to be with. In-fact I strive to be the opposite of what they'd want. Outside of my parents I don't really love any other human being and I live a selfish self-centered life where I'm only responsible for myself and never have to take anyone else into consideration before doing anything. These are choices I made though. I don't blame a woman for them. As a man I am inadequate to date because I would not put any effort into maintaining the relationship. I wouldn't sacrifice and compromise at my own expense to make her happy. I'm not a good person. I don't really care about the happiness of others past how it's useful to me getting what I want. Despite that I managed to convince about a dozen women to sleep with me before I stopped. That's how I know anybody can do it.
 

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I didn't tell you to go to the gym for the purpose of attracting women though. You go to the gym to build confidence in yourself. When you put forth effort and physically change yourself that's a confidence builder. It's an achievement. Personally I think going to the gym to try and attract the opposite sex is fucking stupid and is so shallow a motivation for going it wouldn't even last a few months. When I say improve yourself as a man it's not for their sake it's for yours.

BTW I'm saying it's totally fine to give up on something but it's not totally fine to give up on something and pretend like that decision was forced on you when it was a choice you made. Own your own behavior and don't push your choices on others. That's some weak shit. I don't fault you for giving up on dating at all. I fault you for not being able to admit it was your decision to do so and pretending like they forced that on you.

Don't get me wrong. As my earlier post in this thread indicate I think dating is totally worthless. I don't strive to be the type of man any woman would ever want to be with. In-fact I strive to be the opposite of what they'd want. Outside of my parents I don't really love any other human being and I live a selfish self-centered life where I'm only responsible for myself and never have to take anyone else into consideration before doing anything. These are choices I made though. I don't blame a woman for them. As a man I am inadequate to date because I would not put any effort into maintaining the relationship. I wouldn't sacrifice and compromise at my own expense to make her happy. I'm not a good person. I don't really care about the happiness of others past how it's useful to me getting what I want. Despite that I managed to convince about a dozen women to sleep with me before I stopped. That's how I know anybody can do it.
Ypj started off saying I'm entitled to women.

An assumption I've already disproven more than once.

And you told me to go to the gym.

I've posted my pictures already.
 
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