You told me to go to the gym .
You're making assumptions.
I didn't tell you to go to the gym for the purpose of attracting women though. You go to the gym to build confidence in yourself. When you put forth effort and physically change yourself that's a confidence builder. It's an achievement. Personally I think going to the gym to try and attract the opposite sex is fu
cking stupid and is so shallow a motivation for going it wouldn't even last a few months. When I say improve yourself as a man it's not for their sake it's for yours.
BTW I'm saying it's totally fine to give up on something but it's not totally fine to give up on something and pretend like that decision was forced on you when it was a choice you made. Own your own behavior and don't push your choices on others. That's some weak sh
it. I don't fault you for giving up on dating at all. I fault you for not being able to admit it was your decision to do so and pretending like they forced that on you.
Don't get me wrong. As my earlier post in this thread indicate I think dating is totally worthless. I don't strive to be the type of man any woman would ever want to be with. In-fact I strive to be the opposite of what they'd want. Outside of my parents I don't really love any other human being and I live a selfish self-centered life where I'm only responsible for myself and never have to take anyone else into consideration before doing anything. These are choices I made though. I don't blame a woman for them. As a man I am inadequate to date because I would not put any effort into maintaining the relationship. I wouldn't sacrifice and compromise at my own expense to make her happy. I'm not a good person. I don't really care about the happiness of others past how it's useful to me getting what I want. Despite that I managed to convince about a dozen women to sleep with me before I stopped. That's how I know anybody can do it.