Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[TM101]

There are a lot of women with reasonable standards around. You're just not attracted to them because they don't fit the aesthetic of how "your" women should look. If you're striking out in the dating market. My advice is maybe lower your standards and give the chics that you were ignoring a shot. You probably will be much happier. It seems shooting at the weight class you're pursuing now or above that has affected your confidence quite a bit. But I'm a big believer in mindset and if you're approaching dating with this mindset I see why you're getting negative outcomes. That energy only attracts negative energy...smh

If you are serious on giving advice, please answer the questions below:
Height
Weight
Race
Age (can be a range)
Relationship between their mom and dad
Level of education of mom and dad
your level of education
job/career
income (can be a range)
Height/Weight/Race/Level of education/amount of kids before the relationships

I can only take advice from people with similar stats. Its like Dr. J trying to teach Kwame Brown how to play basketball when he had huge hands as a forward while Kwame had tiny hands as a center. Kwame needed a great center with small hands to teach him how to play basketball with such a big disadvantage.

 

[TM101]

This is why you're struggling. You're looking at dating as a science/social experiment instead of just having fun and getting to know each other. You're too focused on the outcome and what could possibly go wrong or right. All this stats and data BS comes from that incel community to justify why they're not getting the outcomes they want and it usually is just because they're socially awkward, entitled, losers lol. There isn't a perfect person or a perfect match regardless of all the stats and data you acquire. It's the person that aligns with you the most and that you choose to be with everyday through the good times and bad times my guy.

Using "alignment" to get a girlfriend is not a scalable solution. If alignment was enough then the incel problem wouldn't exist. People like Scott Galloway can be successful while still understanding why most young men mathematically struggle with women.

 

[Scaaar]

If you are serious on giving advice, please answer the questions below:
Height
Weight
Race
Age (can be a range)
Relationship between their mom and dad
Level of education of mom and dad
your level of education
job/career
income (can be a range)
Height/Weight/Race/Level of education/amount of kids before the relationships

I can only take advice from people with similar stats. Its like Dr. J trying to teach Kwame Brown how to play basketball when he had huge hands as a forward while Kwame had tiny hands as a center. Kwame needed a great center with small hands to teach him how to play basketball with such a big disadvantage.

Yeah......I'm just going to leave you to your own devices. I'm not answering your questionnaire on why you're striking out in the dating market. I will tell you I'm not using that and having good success

 

[TM101]

Yeah......I'm just going to leave you to your own devices. I'm not answering your questionnaire on why you're striking out in the dating market. I will tell you I'm not using that and having good success

You refusal to answer these questions means you are likely 1 or more standard deviations above average in many of these categories. Someone further to the right of looks, money, status, parental stability can't give advice on how to get in a relationship. If you were short, ugly, and came from a broken family you'd be eager to let me know to prove me wrong. The fact you won't answer means you are ashamed of your privilege, but wont admit it.

 

[TM101]

Some people are just fortunate and can't give advice because they never had to work on being attractive. For ex. a dude who is 6'5 can't give a guy who is 5'5 any advice on dating because the world will perceive anything he does as positive/attractive due to the halo effect.

Romantic success is frequently considered (mostly by other men) emblematic of your overall quality as an individual
If you can’t understand why you recieve less attention from women than you wish you did, and you see other people succeeding due to “superficial” immutable physical characteristics, it is very easy to become discouraged.

A discouraged person will take something that is in reality merely a component of the whole, and blow it out of proportion. Especially if it strikes them as fundamentally unfair and impossible to strive beyond.

EDIT:
Men's incomes are correlated to their heights.
Your Height Has A Big Impact On Your Salary. New Research Seeks To Understand Why

Suicide risk doubles when you are short.
Height And Suicide

 

[High Art]

You refusal to answer these questions means you are likely 1 or more standard deviations above average in many of these categories. Someone further to the right of looks, money, status, parental stability can't give advice on how to get in a relationship. If you were short, ugly, and came from a broken family you'd be eager to let me know to prove me wrong. The fact you won't answer means you are ashamed of your privilege, but wont admit it.

Or he's most likely lying. A lot of these dudes are. One can do well with women and still recognize how things are.

 

[Ohene]

One can do well with women and still recognize how things are.

Simple

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Crazy part is AI just started poppin off and we ain't even real seen virtual reality shyt yet specially for porn.... Sex dolls will have a stigma for a while but who knows if they even gets a little normalized over the years wit how much strain there will be wit genders?

Only finna get much MUCH worse as males and females go even further apart, more resentment and date even less. By 2030..... Dawg everythin gon look so different. 2010s lookin back gon seem like the 80s or 90s or some shyt. I read some shyt bout artificial wombs too I doubt that ever becomes a thing but if it does men might just start killin females randomly for sport or some shyt wit incel shyt reachin its apex.



bytches was callin millennials and other gen misogynist and shyt but they still had that protective quality of sexism for women to a degree. A lot of these Gen Z nikkas and probably even Gen Alpha after em got some cold ass dissociation shyt wit females where they barely be seein em as humans.

I think millennial men are probably the least sexist men while still wanting to somewhat play the gentleman.

These dudes younger than them 100% wish they could go back to the days women couldn't have a bank account. They hate the idea of doing anything for women and want easy free sex with no effort.

It's incredible easy to see why no one would want a useless entitled baby.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

I think millennial men are probably the least sexist men while still wanting to somewhat play the gentleman.

These dudes younger than them 100% wish they could go back to the days women couldn't have a bank account. They hate the idea of doing anything for women and want easy free sex with no effort.

It's incredible easy to see why no one would want a useless entitled baby.

Facts.

Zoomers struggle because they're the first generation where the women CLEARLY outperform the men in almost every metric, especially education. Gen Z women have become more liberal because of an expanded worldview....while all the manosphere/UFC/Joe Rogan shyt that was aimed at younger Millenial men, actually reached the Gen Z men. Millenials were already grown when that shyt started popping while Z was exposed since they were kids and teens.

Rather than leveling up, they want the women brought down to them.

Most of the problem comes from underdeveloped social skills. Too much screen time, soft parenting (mom AND dad) and a nihilistic attitude towards everything. Say what you want about Boomers but they instilled fire in their 80s/Reagan Baby offspring. Gen X coddled their kids too much and allowed rebellion instead of discipline. The girls are fine but the boys.....

 

[SunZoo]

I think millennial men are probably the least sexist men while still wanting to somewhat play the gentleman.

These dudes younger than them 100% wish they could go back to the days women couldn't have a bank account. They hate the idea of doing anything for women and want easy free sex with no effort.

It's incredible easy to see why no one would want a useless entitled baby.

This is why monogamy exists and why it's becoming less and less appealing.

These lame nikkas would be bred out of existence, instead they either become enraged at women not honoring their entitlement or they just become one with their consoles and computers.

Never mind that there are women in the same boat, they just don't want THOSE women lol, why in the world would any woman hitch her entire life and well being to one guy, many of whom don't even really like women and just want them around for sex and occasional companionship when they can be alone or have a network of men.

 

[Adeptus Astartes]

Japan should be a cautionary tale. For all their innovation, they have an ageing population and a low birth rate. People there are isolated, over worked, depressed, frustrated.

If they weren’t so insular and xenophobic, immigration could at least provide somewhat of a solution but they don’t want that so.

When I was growing up, we had no choice but to go outside. There was one TV and one console. Indoor entertainment options were limited so all the action was outside.

Now? Smartphones, HDTVs, PlayStations, Xbox, LapTop, all in one room. Men don’t even have to leave their rooms, they can order through DoorDash. Work? Work from home. Most men have no reason to leave their homes.

That’s why these corporations are trying to force people back into the office. These restaurants are suffering. Night life is non-existent. Women aren’t going out just to bump coochies with each other. There are hardly any men going out anymore.

This is what society created. I’m indifferent because I grew up before this dystopia I’m living in. This younger generation would rather watch some clowns stream on YouTube for hours. Rather than go outside and holler at some girls.

And why would they? They can just scroll on Instagram and send an eggplant as a conversation opener.

I’m just glad I don’t have any children.

This is the scary facts. I rarely see Gen Z folks out mingling at bars and restaurants. It's all millennials and older. You're right about the back to work thing. San Franciscos financial district used to be buzzing all day, now it's a ghost town. Malls, movie theaters, big box and department stores, all are suffering.

 

[Wargames]

I keep coming back to this thread to see people to continue to miss the mark. The question is, are these guys content? Do they feel that a relationship would be a hassle? Because the idea of spending money on someone and doing all sorts of things because some random people on the internet are telling you to, mind you, the same people who have been insulting you up and down for not living how they want you to, probably doesn't sound appealing to most dudes in the first place. Especially when, as the article says, their needs are already being met. You want guys to start going out and doing all the things you want them to do, then give them a better selling point or change your approach. Because if not, then you have no room to complain.

Money is a made up idea….. humans have been cohabiting based on being a man and a woman since Adam and Eve. Saying that “my needs are met” is the definition of missing the point and putting the accumulation of money on a pedestal.

if different if you don’t got money, which a lot of these guys Struggle with cause instead of grinding it out by going to school or getting a trade they want to hit a lick and be a influencer.

They been so conditioned and indoctrinated by their social media algorithm they are going against a biological impulse.

 

[Wargames]

This is why monogamy exists and why it's becoming less and less appealing.

These lame nikkas would be bred out of existence, instead they either become enraged at women not honoring their entitlement or they just become one with their consoles and computers.

Never mind that there are women in the same boat, they just don't want THOSE women lol, why in the world would any woman hitch her entire life and well being to one guy, many of whom don't even really like women and just want them around for sex and occasional companionship when they can be alone or have a network of men.

A lot of women in their 40’s, 30’s and even 20’s are single and coming to terms with it long term.

The funniest thing is you talk to them and one of the biggest factors that got them to close their legs and decide to just live on their own was this anti abortion laws. It didn’t make them want to have babies, it made them not want to have sex because they still don’t want babies.

A lot of these men don’t have a chance because women don’t want to have babies with them. They aren’t appealing as long term mates on a biological level because they cannot show they will be providers because they don’t do shyt but listen to podcast and complain.

 

[High Art]

Money is a made up idea….. humans have been cohabiting based on being a man and a woman since Adam and Eve. Saying that “my needs are met” is the definition of missing the point and putting the accumulation of money on a pedestal.

if different if you don’t got money, which a lot of these guys Struggle with cause instead of grinding it out by going to school or getting a trade they want to hit a lick and be a influencer.

They been so conditioned and indoctrinated by their social media algorithm they are going against a biological impulse.

The issue is, these people are content. You have to give them a reason to leave the contentment many of them have to do what you want, since, due to their contentment, all the stuff you think they should be doing, they are, at most, indifferent to it. Their needs being met is not putting money on a pedestal since their needs being met may be from other sources, as the article suggests.

That said, money is important, no matter how you look at it, and it is required for a lot of things in this day and age. We can cite biological impulses but again, that means nothing if these guys are content. Those that want these guys to move from where they are need to come up with a better selling point. If women want these guys to move, again, come up with a better selling point. If not, then no one has room to complain about the current state of affairs.

EDIT:
I will say that the issue is simple: A lot of the people who complain about these guys actually care about these guys. They don't see them as human. Many of the anti-social tendencies they claim these guys have are projections. Some of these guys are a mess but most are indifferent to the world as a whole and are more concerned with their own shyt like bills, work, education and so on. Things that, if taken away, would hurt them. A relationship with someone is secondary. The point is, a lot of the people complaining about these guys cannot bring themselves to come up with ways to convince these guys because they don't care and that if they did care, they'd actually try and understand where these dudes are coming from or acknowledge some of their points since there is some validity in them. The refusal to that has left some of y'all vexed because you can't communicate with them. You can't because you don't want to . You don't want to because you don't care, which makes me wonder why some of y'all even talk about it in the first place since you obviously seem more concerned with your opinions than actually solving an issue. By the way, I'm not attacking you but it is something I keep seeing over and over so I figured I'd speak in length about it this one time. Each time I've talked about this, people ignore it so oh well.