Why are they always worried about what the next man is or isn't doing for a woman?!! A lot of these brehs are too concerned about the other men getting sex and comparing and contrasting. It's weird.
Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet
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Breh, that shyt has done massive damage to these dudes, can it be undone?
Bumblebreh
Collecting honey and money
Yes, but that requires self reflection and accountability.
Exactly and it renders everything else void.
its because dating is hierarchal in nature. If you're the silverback gorilla in a tribe of plain backed gorillas you're going to be chosen by women gorillas regardless of how you act. Dating and relationships are more about who you are than what you do. Some of us aren't good enough regardless of how we improve ourselves.
That's a defeatist attitude right there if I've ever seen one. Why do you believe you're not good enough? Everyone is not meant to be a millionaire, billionaire, famous person, etc. But if you've built a solid foundation for yourself while constantly working to improve yourself that's good enough for you. That will also be good enough for a chick that's down for you. Social media has y'all brains scattered where you're chasing a superficial, materialistic, capitalism version of success. That's a treadmill of misery and constant unhappiness because the goalposts of what they define as success is constantly changing. What makes you happy and comfortable is all that matters. When you're comfortable with you. Dating becomes so much easier because you're gravitiating towards what aligns with you and not what society thinks you should.
Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
Self awareness and accountability are two of the biggest traits/skillls people should have. I know too many people who talk shyt about others and yet are doing the same exact thing.
If you point that out to them…
We live in a world where guys who are fat, short, broke, bald, wear glasses, have bad skin, etc—basically everything society says is unattractive—still manage to have girlfriends. Even Zion Clark, with all his challenges, has a woman. It's pathetic how some men have completely given up mentally, acting like it's impossible when proof to the contrary is everywhere.
Real shyt...I been saying I notice women AND men complain about dating climate both online and offline.They whine about dating as much as the women now. It's hard to distinguish between the two
Both genders even say both genders not playing their roles.
60% of men don't reproduce because there's not enough women with reasonable standards to go around for men who didn't win the genetic/situational lottery. Men who are aren't tall, charismatic, come from two parent households where they learned how to be masculine, and aren't willing to date out their race/date single mothers will have a hard time getting into a relationship in modern society. If that's not your reality, great but you can't speak for others.
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Veteran
Not surprised at all when you see all of the gender blame game online
There are a lot of women with reasonable standards around. You're just not attracted to them because they don't fit the aesthetic of how "your" women should look. If you're striking out in the dating market. My advice is maybe lower your standards and give the chics that you were ignoring a shot. You probably will be much happier. It seems shooting at the weight class you're pursuing now or above that has affected your confidence quite a bit. But I'm a big believer in mindset and if you're approaching dating with this mindset I see why you're getting negative outcomes. That energy only attracts negative energy...smh
Anyone serious about giving dating advice needs to share their stats:
Height
Weight
Race
Age (can be a range)
Relationship between their mom and dad
Level of education of mom and dad
your level of education
job/career
income (can be a range)
Height/Weight/Race/Level of education/amount of kids before the relationships
Without these stats, its impossible to know how much a relationship is "hard work" and how much of it is hierarchal arbitrage.
Height
Weight
Race
Age (can be a range)
Relationship between their mom and dad
Level of education of mom and dad
your level of education
job/career
income (can be a range)
Height/Weight/Race/Level of education/amount of kids before the relationships
Without these stats, its impossible to know how much a relationship is "hard work" and how much of it is hierarchal arbitrage.
This is why you're struggling. You're looking at dating as a science/social experiment instead of just having fun and getting to know each other. You're too focused on the outcome and what could possibly go wrong or right. All this stats and data BS comes from that incel community to justify why they're not getting the outcomes they want and it usually is just because they're socially awkward, entitled, losers lol. There isn't a perfect person or a perfect match regardless of all the stats and data you acquire. It's the person that aligns with you the most and that you choose to be with everyday through the good times and bad times my guy.