Realizing you're finally over your ex > falling in love

[big bun]

...eh maybe not but it's gotta be a top-5 feeling in this game called life.

There was a girl who once was my jumpoff. Like an ass, I caught feelings, made her my main and she quickly disposed of me thereafter. . Brehs I had it *bad* for this bich, and that shyt seriously fukked me up. I hadn't been that down about a girl since my first heartbreak.

I made a thread about it here.

Reason I'm making this thread is because I just got an email from 1-800-FLOWERS reminding me that it's time to send flowers again based on the time of year. When I first got the email I was like "Who... the fukk are they talking about?" When I read the body of the email it was at the realization that I hadn't even thought about this chick in a couple weeks, and that I was finally over her.

Yea, it took a year. Don't give me , she was my jumpoff for 3 years and we had something special brehs.

I laugh when I look back on that thread and about how emotional I got over a female. Shid, she wasn't even that dope anyway. Lesson is, no matter how bad it is, just hang in there and time will heal that shyt. Shout out to Gator.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Thinking about the past < Looking forward to the future.

Pathetic thread.

Meanwhile, you're still about an alias getting banned 6 months ago on a website that nobody visits anymore.



It's all good, breh. In about 6 more months, you'll be where I'm at.

Good luck.

 

[Texas2step]

God damn breh. Did they find out about each other or what?

Yea but jumpoff was cool wit tho and knew the whole time(I told her we was living together but wasn't fukking)

 

[Gus Money]

If she came back and said she made a mistake and wants to be with you again, what would you say?

 

[BlvdBrawler]

If she came back and said she made a mistake and wants to be with you again, what would you say?

You know what's funny?

I had thought about this question almost every day up until a few months ago.

I told myself I would be stalwart and strong, that I would look at her with disdain, ask her why she did what she did, and seek closure. Probably try to fukk her one last time?

That was my take when I *thought* I was over her.

Now that I'm *actually* over her?

I'd probably tell her "it's cool". I'd ask how she's doing. Ask how her master's degree is going.

After that... not much? It wouldn't really matter to me how it went after pleasantries. Truthfully, I hope she's good.

 

[patscorpio]

i thought i was over an ex of mine completely until a mutual friend broke the news to me back in june that she passed away...shyt tore me apart..i went to the funeral and burial and i broke down so bad man...now i can't think about her, look at old pics, old AIM convos, gifts, cards, etc etc without getting the lump in my throat and my eyes watering

 

[BlvdBrawler]

i thought i was over an ex of mine completely until a mutual friend broke the news to me back in june that she passed away...shyt tore me apart..i went to the funeral and burial and i broke down so bad man...now i can't think about her, look at old pics, old AIM convos, gifts, cards, etc etc without getting the lump in my throat and my eyes watering

Eh that's different breh. Someone dying tends to shatter all of those walls we put up to protect ourselves. No way to see that coming. If I found out this girl died, I'd be pretty devastated as well.