I'm not sure if I can articulate this well but it's his personality. He's so goofy and comes across fake or trying too hard. I think he lacks the masculinity that I need to find a guy attractive.No homo but can yall ladies explain to me why his muscles don't help in attractiveness for you. I want to bulk up and get lean. First of all I know yall just 3 ladies but shyt i don't want to work too hard if it ain't gonna change much for me. I can be funny and charming but I'm average so...