Rate of women cheating on their husbands increased by 40% since 1990

StickStickly

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Marriage is completely dead in western countties. The culture is way too toxic for people to commit to a marriage.
Why is this news? Im glad women are enjoying their lives. Its not like most dudes stay truthful anyway...

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This is important. Cultures that force monogamy on men and women who can't or won't do it aren't any better than anything else. No culture is stopping those behaviors by beating it out of people or scaring them with the promise of eternal hellfire for adultery. It will always be around. Repressed sexuality does not mean decreased sexuality.

If the west becomes more open and allows people to be who they want, we can easily differentiate between the people who want and will keep monogamy and marriage and the people who can't or won't or don't want either of those things. Then maybe we can stop mixing the two and just lead the lives we want and escape a lot of confusion and heartache.
 

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Come on, now...with all due respect, do the brehs on here really believe most women are like this? It just is not true.

When my husband proposed to me, it took me 7 days to give him an answer. I was seriously considering the fact we were going to merge our lives - including having to deal with each other's crazy ass families, any personal issues and whatever surprises came with that. I wanted to make sure it was something I could honestly say 'yes' to and mean it (even though you never know what the future holds). Our "wedding" might have been $100, if that. Bought basic rings and got married with a just five other folks in attendance. It's been nearly 14 years, and I don't find marriage to be this romantic thing. It's just been this long and sometimes painful process of growth thru trials (and celebrations) with another person.

I can't speak for my husband and I won't say never, but the likelihood of me ever cheating on him is nil. It's not only because I told him I wouldn't, it's also because I understand that, metaphysically, there is absolutely no way that I can cheat on him without hurting myself and others in the end. Everything we have created together, including our home and children, contains our combined energy as man and wife. As soon as I go out there to get some strange from another man, I bring back that new energy into my home and taint every thing I've created with my husband. I start to think differently, approach my husband differently, even treat my children differently. They don't deserve that. Despite what people may argue here, I believe it is impossible to cheat without affecting the other person you're committed to, especially if you've spoken vows to one another. If the love was gone, I'd work to resolve the marriage or dissolve it altogether, but not invite in a third party.

In all sincerity, for those of you who do seek someone to build a life and family with, I wish you well in your journey and hope you find a lady who will show you that all of us are not these 'ain't shyt' women.
 

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Might as well destroy the institution of marriage, end alimony, and end favoritism.
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Why not? You're onto something. Why do these men and women who can't be faithful force themselves into marriage? It's not going to work for them. Why take the risk of financial devastation if you don't know if the person your with has it in them to be honest and faithful to you? It's silly.

I don't think the west is on the wrong path. Eventually when we take the religiousity out of marriage we can be honest and allow people who want to marry to find one another and those who can't be faithful can live their desires without deceit.
 

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Propaganda. Women have ALWAYS cheated on their husbands since I don't know when.

Mama's baby, Papa's maybe.

You think married women are the only women that cheat?

Man if you scared, just go to church instead of GMBn people to death already.

Let the game be the game. The real ones will know, smart ones will recognize and the foolish will perish.
Please tell these dudes. People really think marriage was some lala land ages ago and started having issues yesterday. Don't let those old ladies fool you into thinking they were all saints.

Any relationship married or whatever is hard. If you're worried about your wife cheating how do you handle a normal relationship? Just go be a homosexual now. That's the end game of these movements. Oooohhh women evil. Not worth marriage. Not worth relationship. Next is not worth fukking. Case in point how many of you have all these negative views on females but get no p*ssy.

Ya'll need to be careful what you let into your mental psyche. And start looking at these females as humans instead of some preconcieved idea in your head. Your interactions with them will become easier I promise.
 

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It's funny because when you see those infidelity forums or marriage sites, most of the cheating stories are from husbands talking about how their wife cheated on them. Maybe it's because some women just expect their husbands to cheat and can get over it easier. But it's interesting to see how many men post about unfaithful wives vs women posting about unfaithful husbands.

Peace
 

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Please tell these dudes. People really think marriage was some lala land ages ago and started having issues yesterday. Don't let those old ladies fool you into thinking they were all saints.

Any relationship married or whatever is hard. If you're worried about your wife cheating how do you handle a normal relationship? Just go be a homosexual now. That's the end game of these movements. Oooohhh women evil. Not worth marriage. Not worth relationship. Next is not worth fukking. Case in point how many of you have all these negative views on females but get no p*ssy.

Ya'll need to be careful what you let into your mental psyche. And start looking at these females as humans instead of some preconcieved idea in your head. Your interactions with them will become easier I promise.

Moms and grandma trained em up well into thinking all women are angels. Man, I tell you what, hoes aint all bad. As a matter of fact, I think all men need to fukk with a hoe or two once in their life so they can get to recognize game.

Hoes can show you the ropes on how game looks and how to keep yourself from getting caught up out here.

Marriage, that shyt is a tough choice but what in this life isn't?

Where is the Get a Job brehs movement for all of the employers that are unfaithful to their employees?

Like I said before, if you are scared then go to church.
 

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No marriage for me. Too much of a liability. I've pulled myself out of so many figurative holes to let someone else push me back into one just because they don't like me no more.

Fix the court bias and I'll consider it
 

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you can't find one quote from any woman here saying that. :beli:
I was exaggerating, but I can show u quotes of women saying men cheat more than women like its a rare occurence that women cheat lol. Look who dapped u.

Any dude thats half way experienced with women knows that women cheat just as much as men, if not even more (thats debatable) but just whine about it more when they themselves get cheated on.
 

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Come on, now...with all due respect, do the brehs on here really believe most women are like this? It just is not true.

When my husband proposed to me, it took me 7 days to give him an answer. I was seriously considering the fact we were going to merge our lives - including having to deal with each other's crazy ass families, any personal issues and whatever surprises came with that. I wanted to make sure it was something I could honestly say 'yes' to and mean it (even though you never know what the future holds). Our "wedding" might have been $100, if that. Bought basic rings and got married with a just five other folks in attendance. It's been nearly 14 years, and I don't find marriage to be this romantic thing. It's just been this long and sometimes painful process of growth thru trials (and celebrations) with another person.

I can't speak for my husband and I won't say never, but the likelihood of me ever cheating on him is nil. It's not only because I told him I wouldn't, it's also because I understand that, metaphysically, there is absolutely no way that I can cheat on him without hurting myself and others in the end. Everything we have created together, including our home and children, contains our combined energy as man and wife. As soon as I go out there to get some strange from another man, I bring back that new energy into my home and taint every thing I've created with my husband. I start to think differently, approach my husband differently, even treat my children differently. They don't deserve that. Despite what people may argue here, I believe it is impossible to cheat without affecting the other person you're committed to, especially if you've spoken vows to one another. If the love was gone, I'd work to resolve the marriage or dissolve it altogether, but not invite in a third party.

In all sincerity, for those of you who do seek someone to build a life and family with, I wish you well in your journey and hope you find a lady who will show you that all of us are not these 'ain't shyt' women.


It is true, most women are not marriage material in 2017

And most men arent either

Most people aint shyt this news aint suprising to me.

I will say this. Ive known alot of husbands who cheat as well as wives. But out of everyone Ive ever known, Ive met more men who have never cheated than women. I actually dont know a woman who hasnt atleast once.


Just saying':yeshrug:
 
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