Come on, now...with all due respect, do the brehs on here really believe most women are like this? It just is not true.
When my husband proposed to me, it took me 7 days to give him an answer. I was seriously considering the fact we were going to merge our lives - including having to deal with each other's crazy ass families, any personal issues and whatever surprises came with that. I wanted to make sure it was something I could honestly say 'yes' to and mean it (even though you never know what the future holds). Our "wedding" might have been $100, if that. Bought basic rings and got married with a just five other folks in attendance. It's been nearly 14 years, and I don't find marriage to be this romantic thing. It's just been this long and sometimes painful process of growth thru trials (and celebrations) with another person.
I can't speak for my husband and I won't say never, but the likelihood of me ever cheating on him is nil. It's not only because I told him I wouldn't, it's also because I understand that, metaphysically, there is absolutely no way that I can cheat on him without hurting myself and others in the end. Everything we have created together, including our home and children, contains our combined energy as man and wife. As soon as I go out there to get some strange from another man, I bring back that new energy into my home and taint every thing I've created with my husband. I start to think differently, approach my husband differently, even treat my children differently. They don't deserve that. Despite what people may argue here, I believe it is impossible to cheat without affecting the other person you're committed to, especially if you've spoken vows to one another. If the love was gone, I'd work to resolve the marriage or dissolve it altogether, but not invite in a third party.
In all sincerity, for those of you who do seek someone to build a life and family with, I wish you well in your journey and hope you find a lady who will show you that all of us are not these 'ain't shyt' women.