Coli brehettes will duck this thread too or blame the guy for being too nice
The same guys on here who say women are stupid hoes and cheat on men are the same guys who say men aren't naturally made to be monogamous. People are
based on what makes them feel better about themselves. It's not about rationalizing it's about facts. Men and women want different partners, even when committed. It's not fair but it happens over and over. We've been trying to tell you that nature and science say that neither gender is naturally monogamous.
The thing is monogamy is a personal choice and if you believe in it, it's a matter of integrity, selflessness and respect that you stick to it. It's a matter of fighting nature for the greater good of your family versus rationalizing to fit your biological needs
for both genders.
the fact that many women cheat doesn't surprise me. Do people really think women are a separate species that lives on a different physiological plane than men? Your girl has the same urges as you, maybe at different strengths during different parts of her cycle, but the bottom line is it has the same results. We are all made of the same stuff. I think that scares a lot of men because it takes away the stability of what you have been told women should provide. This doesn't excuse anything anymore than saying "drugs make feel you good" excuses people to use them. It's just what happens. Women can be heartless and selfish and shady af. But separate fact from should haves/could haves. We just either have to condition ourselves to do better or we find like minded people.
I think marriage should be reconsidered by everyone. Never marry to fit an image, to keep someone locked down, to control or subvert someone, or to make money. Never marry for your partner to be your all because another fallible HUMAN can't be . Two fallible people coming together expecting each other to be perfect are destined to have disappointments. Re: Kevin hart. If you have trust issues or the person you are with has cheated in the past, don't worry about marriage. No one is forcing it on you (hopefully). Worry about genuine relationships with genuine people. Worry about your word. Worry about the person you want to be and what you want to attract as far as energies go. You'll be alright if you can even slightly master this.