I never understood trains. I just couldn't do it. There was times where chicks were down to smash all the homies and I couldn't do it.
I don't have the answers some chicks are down for trains and really the issue is when a ugly nikka tries to get aggressive and get the same treatent the fly nikka got. I heard from a female medic that treated chicks who were "raped" in Iraq who said that It was usually that a chick objected to an ugly nikka and he pressed her.
Make no mistake any coercion is stil rape but it's also kinda grey, In sense of a "mid" chick coming through and saying If you want to fukk me you got to fukk my man's too.