I haven't seen Spiderverse or Far From Home yet. I'd go:
Spider-Man 2
Spider-Man
Amazing Spider-Man
Homecoming
Amazing Spider-Man 2
Spider-Man 3
I'm sure it looks weird having ASM that high, but I really didn't like Ironman being such an integral part of making Spiderman who he is. It undermined the work Peter put in to learn the ropes and grow into his own. I also like Garfield's Peter/Spidey more than the others. I have to put the first two OGs first merely for what they did for the character on the big screen. The same way I put the OG Avengers up there as the main reason the MCU was basically unfukkwittable for this long. ASM2 had the best moments of all of them, but was just a bad movie overall.