Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[cyndaquil]

Speaking of travel. One of the big conversations on X is women complaining about getting a “I’m in your city” text. Some say the following:

“It’s low effort”
“you didn’t think of me”
“inconsiderate”
or “you want to use me as entertainment”

When you’re “HIM” all of this doesn’t matter.

wait they saying this about out of town dudes? of course it's low effort. I'm on vacation tryna get some p*ssy then imma return home balls drained and relaxed from a week of fun.
Just shows no matter what there's gonna be a segment of people that complain about everything

 

[Ahadi]

Thats why it's dumb when chicks say they don't want to be looked at no you don't want to be stared at and even then you don't want to be stared at by a guy you think is ugly. Every straight woman wants attention from a man its hardwired. Most in that age group get it from their husband but single and nobody checking for em?
I won't sit here and have no sympathy for every woman in that situation tho. Life is not so predictable and to put people into boxes. I don't know everyone's story.

Yep, but more specifically, the ability to turn down men and the attention from men they “want”

That wall at 30 is no joke. The amount of women who have a breakdown / panic during that time.

 

[Ahadi]

this is my rule too. I am also not jumping through hoops or promising the world to these bytches. I tried to meet up for drinks for first date with one and she said just drinks? I said yea we don't know each other yet and she said that's what you do huh? I said I don't mind doing food on the second date. then she stopped answering. I am also starting to facetime before meeting up because the last two bytches I went out with were def using older photos.

Woman have left shame then men especially now days IMO. This last girl def was like 15 pounds heavier than her photos.

No need to explain yourself.

“I’m going to be here for a drink, you’re welcomed to join me, here’s my (Google number).

If you’re “HIM” drinks are enough

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

No need to explain yourself.

“I’m going to be here for a drink, you’re welcomed to join me, here’s my (Google number).

If you’re “HIM” drinks are enough

yea true. girls who respond like she did prob been dogged out too.

 

[cyndaquil]

Chicks who don't put they have kids in their profile are fukked up

Just to follow up on this. Story time.

So I matched with this girl, right? Late 20s seems chill and lowkey same kinda vibe as me. We were messaging for a bit, and things were going well, until she casually mentioned she was going back to school for her kids. I stopped for a second like, "Wait... kids? You have kids?" Turns out, she has two. But here's the thing—her profile didn't mention a single word about having kids. I was like, "Hold up, you have kids? Because your profile doesn't say you have any." She was quick to say, "Oh, it must not be showing. I have two. What about you?" I double-check my profile... and nope, very clearly says "no kids."

I’m sitting there like: ain't no way you didn't read that shyt ladies be like Sherlock Holmes on dude's profiles...

Fast forward a bit to the my next message, I ask her what she's really looking for—like, is she just vibing or looking for something more serious? And her response hits me somebody farting in an elevator She starts talking about how she's dating to marry, wants someone who’ll love her unconditionally, through all her flaws, and how she’s not into wasting time on casual situationships. Cool, I get that. I'm not tryna settle down with a chick with kids but somebody is...then she says she’s also looking to have another kid. Cue the funkflex bomb sound effect: she's talking about having her two kids, marrying, and adding another one to the mix.

Then she asks me how do I feel about all that? Uh, well, let's break it down: no kids to two kids that aren’t mine, marriage, and possibly another kid in the mix? Yeah, nah.

Look, I get it—she has every right to want that and should go for it. But let's be for real, if I’d known all this upfront, I wouldn’t have swiped right. That isn’t what I was tryna sign up for. I wish her luck tho lol

 

[Ahadi]

Um..

Spoiler: Hin

 

[Brandsdale]

Do I even entertain her or troll her? I would like to fukk her. whats the play here fellas?

ask out for drinks and see where things go

just cause she wanna be a wife don't mean she don't want some dikk

 

[Ohene]

Theres a girl I aint interested in like that so I skipped to inviting her over. Here was her response:

“I think we could suggest a neutral, public location for the first meeting, like a coffee shop or park. This way, you can get to know each other in a safe and casual setting.”

Did this girl use chat gpt? lol This generation is fried

 

[RealAssanova]

Um..

Spoiler: Hin

Showin her ass but yet waiting till marriage?

I stg, these modern day women…

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Um..


Showin her ass but yet waiting till marriage?

I stg, these modern day women…

No accountability (they used to have some) or shame anymore. I think dating apps unbalanced everything.

 

[Ahadi]

Um..


Showin her ass but yet waiting till marriage?

I stg, these modern day women…

ChatGPT says she should be able to showcase how confident she is with her body because there’s a multifaceted difference in body confidence vs her standards / expectations for marriage.

It’s also important to recognize that personal expression through clothing or photos doesn’t necessarily undermine someone’s values or decisions regarding intimacy. People can express themselves however they choose and still maintain their personal boundaries.

It’s more about acknowledging that outward presentation and internal values don’t always have to align by societal standards. Accountability, in this case, would only be relevant if actions contradicted her stated principles, not necessarily how she chooses to present herself.

 

[cyndaquil]

Um..

Spoiler: Hin

She don't understand. That $3 booty ain't keeping nobody around for all that. Might as well just turn her ass around

 

[skyrunner1]

She don't understand. That $3 booty ain't keeping nobody around for all that. Might as well just turn her ass around

Brehhhhh, shyt like this make me feel like I got legit dimes in my phone Game seems COOOOOKED..

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Sometimes I wonder where I stand on the attraction scale. I get lots of matches but I am finding not sealing the deal if I am too honest woman. Example, I tell a woman that I know I'm not interested in long term but would smash , they unmatch me . If I sold them a dream, I know I can pipe.

Sometimes women stop replying. Circle back...then stop replying. I had two women apologize for not replying only to go back to the same shyt lol

 

[Ahadi]

She don't understand. That $3 booty ain't keeping nobody around for all that. Might as well just turn her ass around

There’s too many women giving it up to wait it out with one. A mid 21 y/o at that. Maybe in 1970s, but not 2025 lol