Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

How do you all feel about some modern women being resistant to marriage and motherhood citing single women are the happiest? I see this rhetoric and it frustrates me because I'm pro-marriage in the sense I believe it's the best foundation for both partners as well as building a family. I also think about the fragility of the Black community and think while there are children that come out of single parent households, etc I do NOT want to risk it.

These women I notice aren't necessarily career driven, but they use their career as a hedge against being dependent on a man, which I get. But I also see it as somewhat counterintuitive if you want to have a successful long term relationship with someone.

I will say also the women who have gripes about patriarchal or heteronormative societal norms tend to be politically liberal and if you think about it some things about marriage and the family unit is illiberal in nature, but IMO not in a malicious manner. I think there's things men could do better to be better partners, but I'd argue that Black men are the most progressive in sharing household duties with their partners, more involved parents, etc. We just had White supremacy against us for the longest and still do so I think these discussions are generally best suited towards other men.

I mean it’s individual choice. Relationship and marriage isn’t for everyone so if they make that decision good on them. The reality is that only they have to deal with it.

 

[MikelArteta]

How do you all feel about some modern women being resistant to marriage and motherhood citing single women are the happiest? I see this rhetoric and it frustrates me because I'm pro-marriage in the sense I believe it's the best foundation for both partners as well as building a family. I also think about the fragility of the Black community and think while there are children that come out of single parent households, etc I do NOT want to risk it.

These women I notice aren't necessarily career driven, but they use their career as a hedge against being dependent on a man, which I get. But I also see it as somewhat counterintuitive if you want to have a successful long term relationship with someone.

I will say also the women who have gripes about patriarchal or heteronormative societal norms tend to be politically liberal and if you think about it some things about marriage and the family unit is illiberal in nature, but IMO not in a malicious manner. I think there's things men could do better to be better partners, but I'd argue that Black men are the most progressive in sharing household duties with their partners, more involved parents, etc. We just had White supremacy against us for the longest and still do so I think these discussions are generally best suited towards other men.

breh there is that trend on tiktok where women are gloating about being single and having like 3 degrees or ish and its mainly black women

At teh end of the day I've said it again and again its biological to mate and want a family. All those career orientated women will tell you they don't care and they happy but yet they still on dating apps, freezing eggs deep down its what they want.

 

[Apollo Creed]

How do you all feel about some modern women being resistant to marriage and motherhood citing single women are the happiest? I see this rhetoric and it frustrates me because I'm pro-marriage in the sense I believe it's the best foundation for both partners as well as building a family. I also think about the fragility of the Black community and think while there are children that come out of single parent households, etc I do NOT want to risk it.

These women I notice aren't necessarily career driven, but they use their career as a hedge against being dependent on a man, which I get. But I also see it as somewhat counterintuitive if you want to have a successful long term relationship with someone.

I will say also the women who have gripes about patriarchal or heteronormative societal norms tend to be politically liberal and if you think about it some things about marriage and the family unit is illiberal in nature, but IMO not in a malicious manner. I think there's things men could do better to be better partners, but I'd argue that Black men are the most progressive in sharing household duties with their partners, more involved parents, etc. We just had White supremacy against us for the longest and still do so I think these discussions are generally best suited towards other men.

actual happy people don't have to tell you how happy they are, they usually on the move just living. The women who profess this stuff are usually doing it to cope while at home they miserable with a pet they use to make up for lack of human connection + they have drug or alcohol addiction (that wine shyt is additiction).

 

[DJSmooth]

How do you all feel about some modern women being resistant to marriage and motherhood citing single women are the happiest? I see this rhetoric and it frustrates me because I'm pro-marriage in the sense I believe it's the best foundation for both partners as well as building a family. I also think about the fragility of the Black community and think while there are children that come out of single parent households, etc I do NOT want to risk it.

These women I notice aren't necessarily career driven, but they use their career as a hedge against being dependent on a man, which I get. But I also see it as somewhat counterintuitive if you want to have a successful long term relationship with someone.

I will say also the women who have gripes about patriarchal or heteronormative societal norms tend to be politically liberal and if you think about it some things about marriage and the family unit is illiberal in nature, but IMO not in a malicious manner. I think there's things men could do better to be better partners, but I'd argue that Black men are the most progressive in sharing household duties with their partners, more involved parents, etc. We just had White supremacy against us for the longest and still do so I think these discussions are generally best suited towards other men.

The black population with Millennials and Gen Z will probably dip significantly with birthrates but it'll be good in the long run so we can weed these women out.

A hoe don't want to settle down and get married I'm not about to convince her otherwise she can go buy a dog to keep her company.

 

[MikelArteta]

actual happy people don't have to tell you how happy they are, they usually on the move just living. The women who profess this stuff are usually doing it to cope while at home they miserable with a pet they use to make up for lack of human connection + they have drug or alcohol addiction (that wine shyt is additiction).

Yup and because its a lie. I only believe Nuns who give up everything to serve the Lord.

You don't care yet you still on hinge , you don't care yet you still go to meetups etc.

Power in the tongue keep saying it brehettes.

 

[DJSmooth]

Had a 36-39 year old call me the other week. All you could hear on the phone was that damn dog.

 

[MikelArteta]

Had a 36-39 year old call me the other week. All you could hear on the phone was that damn dog.

I don't even mean to be rude or harsh but all dem women had their chance. They had guys proposed and they said no, they had guys interested in them and they said no. That's why no simpathy on my end. These chicks the equivalent of a star scoring 30ppg at 27 but now they avg 3ppg at age 37

I always go back tot his article for brehettes

Opinion: The male gaze, and why I miss it

The other day, I ran into a guy I hadn't seen for a while - a younger guy. 'You look hot,' he said. And for one delicious moment, I believed him

www.theglobeandmail.com

Men don't look at me the way they used to. In general, they don't look at me at all. This is what happens when a woman turns 40 (50, 60 etc.). It's a fact of life.

In theory, this is supposed to be an exhilarating passage in the life of a woman. At last we're liberated from the tyranny of the male gaze! We don't have to care what men think of us any more. We're free to be our true, authentic self. We can wear a red hat.

In reality, it sucks. I'd give a lot for men to look at me like that again.

 

[The ADD]

Had a 36-39 year old call me the other week. All you could hear on the phone was that damn dog.

When is she coming over tho?

 

[The Jewnited States]

I don't even mean to be rude or harsh but all dem women had their chance. They had guys proposed and they said no, they had guys interested in them and they said no. That's why no simpathy on my end. These chicks the equivalent of a star scoring 30ppg at 27 but now they avg 3ppg at age 37

I always go back tot his article for brehettes

Opinion: The male gaze, and why I miss it

The other day, I ran into a guy I hadn't seen for a while - a younger guy. 'You look hot,' he said. And for one delicious moment, I believed him

www.theglobeandmail.com

Men don't look at me the way they used to. In general, they don't look at me at all. This is what happens when a woman turns 40 (50, 60 etc.). It's a fact of life.

In theory, this is supposed to be an exhilarating passage in the life of a woman. At last we're liberated from the tyranny of the male gaze! We don't have to care what men think of us any more. We're free to be our true, authentic self. We can wear a red hat.

In reality, it sucks. I'd give a lot for men to look at me like that again.

Hey breh can you paste the whole article? It's behind a paywall

 

[DJSmooth]

When is she coming over tho?

I never called her back after the first call. She was drunk too. She would have been with it.

I already know her type and don't feel like dealing with it. If I tell her I don't want a relationship she will be like ok and call me and try to see me everyday then when you break it off she is crashing out calling you an ain't shyt nikka and liar.

 

[cyndaquil]

Chicks who don't put they have kids in their profile are fukked up

 

[Canon]

Chicks who don't put they have kids in their profile are fukked up

if I don't see "no children" I assume they have kids

 

[Ohene]

I always go back tot his article for brehettes

Opinion: The male gaze, and why I miss it

The other day, I ran into a guy I hadn't seen for a while - a younger guy. 'You look hot,' he said. And for one delicious moment, I believed him

www.theglobeandmail.com

Yikes

 

[cyndaquil]

I don't even mean to be rude or harsh but all dem women had their chance. They had guys proposed and they said no, they had guys interested in them and they said no. That's why no simpathy on my end. These chicks the equivalent of a star scoring 30ppg at 27 but now they avg 3ppg at age 37

I always go back tot his article for brehettes

Opinion: The male gaze, and why I miss it

The other day, I ran into a guy I hadn't seen for a while - a younger guy. 'You look hot,' he said. And for one delicious moment, I believed him

www.theglobeandmail.com

Men don't look at me the way they used to. In general, they don't look at me at all. This is what happens when a woman turns 40 (50, 60 etc.). It's a fact of life.

In theory, this is supposed to be an exhilarating passage in the life of a woman. At last we're liberated from the tyranny of the male gaze! We don't have to care what men think of us any more. We're free to be our true, authentic self. We can wear a red hat.

In reality, it sucks. I'd give a lot for men to look at me like that again.

Thats why it's dumb when chicks say they don't want to be looked at no you don't want to be stared at and even then you don't want to be stared at by a guy you think is ugly. Every straight woman wants attention from a man its hardwired. Most in that age group get it from their husband but single and nobody checking for em?
I won't sit here and have no sympathy for every woman in that situation tho. Life is not so predictable and to put people into boxes. I don't know everyone's story.

 

[cyndaquil]

actual happy people don't have to tell you how happy they are, they usually on the move just living. The women who profess this stuff are usually doing it to cope while at home they miserable with a pet they use to make up for lack of human connection + they have drug or alcohol addiction (that wine shyt is additiction).

This one chick I stopped fukkin with had a cat and was addicted to weed. She'd be on dates high after work and with eyedrops in. We too old for that. She had a problem. Got the fukk up outta there