Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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yeah......I never ask. which for sure comes with it's own complications, but def. comes off as confident. And sidesteps that weird convo where people try to explain their status. it's also kinda jarring. Like sales, if you never mention it, but keep leading the convo that way.
and usually you can tell. If they like you they will be subtle,
and say something like "have you been to Valle"
No but we are planning a trip
When you click with someone and both people kinda feel a chemistry, it's an easy way to kind keep things open without using it like a shield. Happened 2x recently where I caught it instantly.
and usually you can tell. If they like you they will be subtle,
and say something like "have you been to Valle"
No but we are planning a trip
When you click with someone and both people kinda feel a chemistry, it's an easy way to kind keep things open without using it like a shield. Happened 2x recently where I caught it instantly.
Thurgood Thurston III
#LLNB #LLLB #E4R | woooK nypdK
I lost a girl like this once.When your girl shows you her simps and the two of you laugh at them
We were laughing on the phone about the lame shyt he was saying to her on Facebook.
Simp ass nikka brought her flowers to class the next day.
Long story short, she ended up fukking him and then dating him within about two weeks.
Space Cowboy
Christ is King
Sorry that happened to you.
She’s a good looking woman. Other men will try it. They’re not the one she wants. If she wants them, she can have em. One less problem for me if she chooses to.
At the end of the day your old girl did you a favor. She went where she wanted to go. Never be mad about that.
Nothing you do will stop a woman that will cheat from cheating so no use being mad about it. If a woman wants to cheat she will. If you try to be hyper controlling she will cheat. If you’re too soft she will cheat. If you want to go you want to go. The streets are there for you.
Thankfully she’s an Allah fearing woman. If you don’t have trust a relationship is fukked anyways and without trust there’s no relationship. Remember a woman likely was attracted to the confident you. As soon as you show insecurity to a man she knows you’re not the guy. So don’t be insecure.
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Thurgood Thurston III
#LLNB #LLLB #E4R | woooK nypdK
Nah she wasn't cheating on me because we weren't even a thing
But we could've been
Space Cowboy
Christ is King
Aight.Nah she wasn't cheating on me because we weren't even a thing
But we could've been
Muslim men be thirsty as hell. She has a couple thousand fellas following her. Most Muslim men be hella controlling. She has told me dudes give her police like questioning if a man heart reacted her pic on Facebook. Some have told her not to wear makeup in public because it attracts other men. Others told her she’s supposed to stay home all day to avoid the evil eye. When you have men like that messaging a woman it’s easy to separate the wheat from the chaff.
You say could have been but it seems that playboy is the one that made a move. Flowers though. First time in a while I hear that shyt working so she already liked him.
Thurgood Thurston III
#LLNB #LLLB #E4R | woooK nypdK
She made me hold the shyt for her on the train ride home breh
That was the moment that made me throw out almost everything I was taught about women from my OGs and PUA shyt
Physical attraction + Escalation is all that truly matters.
Space Cowboy
Christ is King
She played you huh. She treated you like ol buddy.She made me hold the shyt for her on the train ride home breh
That was the moment that made me throw out almost everything I was taught about women from my OGs and PUA shyt
Physical attraction + Escalation is all that truly matters.
In my experience it’s like, if a woman wants you she wants you. This girl messaged me first. In my history with women it’s often women that come up to you and not the other way around. Pay attention to the women that go into your orbit. If you’re trying you’re already failing.
Every other man is trying to holler so just staying back but being respectful is enough to intrigue most women because you’re not easily won over. This girl has thousands of followers but messaged me. I saw she was attractive so I just hit her with a thumbs up emoji. Keep them humble and make them work for your attention. For weeks she was trying to get my attention until I decided she earned being paid attention. I decided to let her in my space, not vice versa. That’s the kind of dynamic you want. It separates you from the pack of thirsty ass men. I’ve experimented over and over and my conclusion is you shouldn’t bother being flirty with a woman unless it’s obvious she likes me. fukk that, you gotta earn my time and that mindset pays off because by the time you start to invest in the woman she already feels like she had to work just to get an inch from you. It makes you a rare man and worth fighting for.
Imagine there’s a party. Five guys and one woman. All five men are flirting with her and trying to get into her pants. A sixth guy walks in, is polite, says hello and introduces himself, and doesn’t try to get into her pants. Who do you think she’s going to try to woo over? This is why a lot of PUA shyt is bad advice. It don’t even work. Stuff like cold approaches. Why do that shyt? You see that video with the 6 foot 8 dude and all the women going up to him? That’s what you want it to be like. You shouldn’t have to try and you don’t have to be 6 ft 8 to draw women to you. Even if you find her incredibly attractive and want to smash you have to keep it cool until she escalates. You’re basically killing your internal impulses to holler at a woman. This makes you a catch. Being an introvert can be a valuable asset.
Just my experience. Yours could be different.
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Space Cowboy
Christ is King
Here's the thread.
Look how he barely tries.
I think a man can pull women like this even if he's 5'6. He might not be able to pull the same amount but he will pull hella women if he has the character, doesn't try too hard, lets women come to him and not vice versa. If a woman doesn't come up to you she doesn't want you. I guarantee some broad is trying to get into your space. If you've tried and tried and tried to get a woman and finally get her she let herself get caught but she doesn't really want you.
Some of the biggest playas I've ever met have been short brothers. I think it's all about a state of being or mentality.
My girl is Egyptian. She tells me how many men make uncomfortable and she feels safe with me which prompted me to ask about her simps. Here's a video in Egypt and you will see what I'm saying play out. Put yourself in the woman's shoes and you'll see why men that holler scare the shyt out of them and men that don't try too hard make them feel safe.
Look how he barely tries.
I think a man can pull women like this even if he's 5'6. He might not be able to pull the same amount but he will pull hella women if he has the character, doesn't try too hard, lets women come to him and not vice versa. If a woman doesn't come up to you she doesn't want you. I guarantee some broad is trying to get into your space. If you've tried and tried and tried to get a woman and finally get her she let herself get caught but she doesn't really want you.
Some of the biggest playas I've ever met have been short brothers. I think it's all about a state of being or mentality.
My girl is Egyptian. She tells me how many men make uncomfortable and she feels safe with me which prompted me to ask about her simps. Here's a video in Egypt and you will see what I'm saying play out. Put yourself in the woman's shoes and you'll see why men that holler scare the shyt out of them and men that don't try too hard make them feel safe.
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Bigblackted4
Superstar
Agreed, he should get out of that relationship now because it will never get better unless sex isn't important to him. Loved my ex but she never got the help she needed to overcome lower sex drive and it got worst.
AStrangeName
Member of Snitch Syndication
If she's feeling you and y'all in a confined space together alone, whatever happens, happensSomething switches on in a woman’s brain sexually when they in a car with you
If you’re not already, ALWAYS offer to pick her up for a date. Even if it’s annoying distance wise.
Facts. Women will say a lot, or put up a certain front, but it’s usually when certain boundaries are there to help them: the internet, texts, distance, even just the presence of a physical table….you remove those boundaries, if you on your shyt, they gon fold
Eve the slight difference of dinner at a table vs dinner/drinks at a countertop. It’s not just to save money, it’s to create open space and remove boundaries
Not to digress toon far but there is psychology behind it. Psychologists have you on a couch with no tables, police interrogators when they want to get close to the guy and ‘connect’, they remove the table or come around the side and sit next to them
This is why the whole "coming back to the house" thing is such a stigmatized concept, taking safety out of this equation. because you have essentially removed all boundaries. Pretense is maybe a better word. Sometimes I get exhausted with all the pretenses of dating. like it's really about food, or really about "drinks" or whatever. sometimes it's a part of it
as someone who loves food, from tasting menus to taco stands, sometimes I hate how food is so closely tied to dating, because it does create that barrier sometimes. Food CAN be sexy but usually it has too much formality to it. People overeat. Or it takes two hours, and then it's late or whatever.
two people alone, somewhere comfortable enough, is where you really get to it. but there's so much structure around that not happening. that's why the whole going on a date in a car became the norm in the 50's.
also, I am sure a lot of women got into bad situations because of that norm. Isolated in some dudes car with no way home.
as someone who loves food, from tasting menus to taco stands, sometimes I hate how food is so closely tied to dating, because it does create that barrier sometimes. Food CAN be sexy but usually it has too much formality to it. People overeat. Or it takes two hours, and then it's late or whatever.
two people alone, somewhere comfortable enough, is where you really get to it. but there's so much structure around that not happening. that's why the whole going on a date in a car became the norm in the 50's.
also, I am sure a lot of women got into bad situations because of that norm. Isolated in some dudes car with no way home.
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