Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mirin4rmfar]

my boy was out on a date with a chick at a festival, He was like come through to meet his new chick..so I did, his girl already want to introduce me to her homegirl..home girl was asking is he tall, does he have money ...shawty came out to me, she was fat and short . I friend zoned her ass right away then left.

She was not facially ugly, but she could weight 100 lbs less.

 

[jay83]

my boy was out on a date with a chick at a festival, He was like come through to meet his new chick..so I did, his girl already want to introduce me to her homegirl..home girl was asking is he tall, does he have money ...shawty came out to me, she was fat and short . I friend zoned her ass right away then left.

She was not facially ugly, but she could weight 100 lbs less.

Damn I first I read it as 10 lbs less, I read again dude said 100 lbs less. That’s disrespectful for an attractive woman to even put you on to that.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

huh??

 

[sjankis630]

Space Cowboy that video in Egypt is a trip. That dude in the beginning slowly taking off his sunglasses is like, "You have beautiful skin ..... it would look nice in my collection!" Lol.

 

[Apollo Creed]

my boy was out on a date with a chick at a festival, He was like come through to meet his new chick..so I did, his girl already want to introduce me to her homegirl..home girl was asking is he tall, does he have money ...shawty came out to me, she was fat and short . I friend zoned her ass right away then left.

She was not facially ugly, but she could weight 100 lbs less.

Sometimes a be like “wtf did i do wrong” when trash hoes choose up

 

[Panther]

bagged this thick teacher today on the gram, she lives a few mins from me, and loosely have some of the same social circles.

setup a bar crawl in a 2 weeks w/ some of my people. I'll make a casual link before then

She's a nice lil vibe, 26, active, good energy.

Good summertime fling

 

[Guvnor]

Feeling like breaking up with my woman of 3 years was a mistake. She was a good woman, beautiful, intelligent and a good head on her shoulders. Only issue was she worked hard and had a low libido. I also had issues with jealousy and trust to where I would push her away and break up, then she would beg me to work on things and I would be down to do so, rinse and repeat almost every weekend.

With that said I did what you should never do and asked her for another chance down the line but she stated she needs to heal and is focused on self. She didn't say no but said she would keep the line of communication open and keep in touch. Basically if it's meant to be we'll find out way back together after some time apart to heal. Do you think there is a chance of getting back together?

 

[Guvnor]

Worst of all I moved out her apartment and now I'm living in a shytty basement sharing it with two others down there(own rooms though), there is also asbestos on the ceiling. I'm just going to have to leave and head back home. Start over any advice fellas.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Feeling like breaking up with my woman of 3 years was a mistake. She was a good woman, beautiful, intelligent and a good head on her shoulders. Only issue was she worked hard and had a low libido. I also had issues with jealousy and trust to where I would push her away and break up, then she would beg me to work on things and I would be down to do so, rinse and repeat almost every weekend.

With that said I did what you should never do and asked her for another chance down the line but she stated she needs to heal and is focused on self. She didn't say no but said she would keep the line of communication open and keep in touch. Basically if it's meant to be we'll find out way back together after some time apart to heal. Do you think there is a chance of getting back together?

Continue to learn, live life and if it’s meant to be, she will come around. Just stay busy and find new people to meet for now.

Also, don’t feel bad for reaching out. Better than to try and fail than do nothing and always wonder.

 

[re'up]

Feeling like breaking up with my woman of 3 years was a mistake. She was a good woman, beautiful, intelligent and a good head on her shoulders. Only issue was she worked hard and had a low libido. I also had issues with jealousy and trust to where I would push her away and break up, then she would beg me to work on things and I would be down to do so, rinse and repeat almost every weekend.

With that said I did what you should never do and asked her for another chance down the line but she stated she needs to heal and is focused on self. She didn't say no but said she would keep the line of communication open and keep in touch. Basically if it's meant to be we'll find out way back together after some time apart to heal. Do you think there is a chance of getting back together?

like above said, as long as you aren't making a fool of yourself, better to ask than always live with the question. When you are older, or even a year from now, you will never feel better that you didn't tell someone what you felt. Again, as long as it's not delusional. But, anytime there is that much pain and intense emotions, painful breakup, you need a lot of time to kind of reset. Both of you will be wondering if the other is just going to end things abruptly again. Foundation is gone. You can't just go back to the way it was.

A great quote in a college class I took on marriage and family: A relationship can always go forwards but it can never go backwards

if her sexual desires were so low, where would your jealously even come into play, is my question?

 

[The ADD]

Feeling like breaking up with my woman of 3 years was a mistake. She was a good woman, beautiful, intelligent and a good head on her shoulders. Only issue was she worked hard and had a low libido. I also had issues with jealousy and trust to where I would push her away and break up, then she would beg me to work on things and I would be down to do so, rinse and repeat almost every weekend.

With that said I did what you should never do and asked her for another chance down the line but she stated she needs to heal and is focused on self. She didn't say no but said she would keep the line of communication open and keep in touch. Basically if it's meant to be we'll find out way back together after some time apart to heal. Do you think there is a chance of getting back together?

Maybe but she going to be doing a nasty stuff in between…..

As long as you don’t mind the additional mileage …..

 

[Apollo Creed]

Maybe but she going to be doing a nasty stuff in between…..

As long as you don’t mind the additional mileage …..

nikkas gone learn bout No Take Backs lol.

If someone is worth it you don't break up, you work towards resolution.

 

[The ADD]

nikkas gone learn bout No Take Backs lol.

If someone is worth it you don't break up, you work towards resolution.

He probably miss the housing more than anything

 

[DrBanneker]

Only issue was she worked hard and had a low libido. I also had issues with jealousy and trust to where I would push her away and break up

First question: at 3 years you should know if you would be willing to marry her. Would you?

Second: if she has to work hard is it planned hours you can work around or ad hoc schedule?

Third: there is no point in being jealous. You have her or you don't. If you got her, you just gotta trust her. If you can't that is a bigger issue.

Now the libido is an issue. Is it her work schedule or stress or you can't get her in the mood?

Good girls (if she really is one) are hard to find. Make sure it isn't just your own insecurities driving this.

 

[Guvnor]

like above said, as long as you aren't making a fool of yourself, better to ask than always live with the question. When you are older, or even a year from now, you will never feel better that you didn't tell someone what you felt. Again, as long as it's not delusional. But, anytime there is that much pain and intense emotions, painful breakup, you need a lot of time to kind of reset. Both of you will be wondering if the other is just going to end things abruptly again. Foundation is gone. You can't just go back to the way it was.

A great quote in a college class I took on marriage and family: A relationship can always go forwards but it can never go backwards

if her sexual desires were so low, where would your jealously even come into play, is my question?

Lmao I don't know man just have trust issues. I think it stems from my pops not really being there and seeing females do shiesty shyt, kinda gave me a disposition you can never trust them.

Maybe but she going to be doing a nasty stuff in between…..

As long as you don’t mind the additional mileage …..

As low as her body count was and all the dirt I did, I would have to accept that. What makes you say maybe though?

nikkas gone learn bout No Take Backs lol.

If someone is worth it you don't break up, you work towards resolution.

I learned the hard way, she was a good woman. Would cook for me(though she was mid in the kitchen it's the thought), encouraged me to go to grad school and I could go on and on.

First question: at 3 years you should know if you would be willing to marry her. Would you?

Second: if she has to work hard is it planned hours you can work around or ad hoc schedule?

Third: there is no point in being jealous. You have her or you don't. If you got her, you just gotta trust her. If you can't that is a bigger issue.

Now the libido is an issue. Is it her work schedule or stress or you can't get her in the mood?

Good girls (if she really is one) are hard to find. Make sure it isn't just your own insecurities driving this.

I would marry her for sure and her hours are ones I can work around.

I do have bigger issues but want to learn how to trust.

As for the libidio she says its largely stress from the relationship and her work and personal life as well.

Guess it doesn't matter now though cause she seems done, went over to see her yesterday after moving out the same day and she started already trying to rearrange things. Just kept saying she wants to focus on self now and isn't even focus on dating, just healing. My mom reached out against my wishes and asked her and she said she was focusing on self but would keep in contact and if I worked myself too she would be open to dating again.