Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Lmao I don't know man just have trust issues. I think it stems from my pops not really being there and seeing females do shiesty shyt, kinda gave me a disposition you can never trust them.


As low as her body count was and all the dirt I did, I would have to accept that. What makes you say maybe though?

I learned the hard way, she was a good woman. Would cook for me(though she was mid in the kitchen it's the thought), encouraged me to go to grad school and I could go on and on.


I would marry her for sure and her hours are ones I can work around.

I do have bigger issues but want to learn how to trust.

As for the libidio she says its largely stress from the relationship and her work and personal life as well.

Guess it doesn't matter now though cause she seems done, went over to see her yesterday after moving out the same day and she started already trying to rearrange things. Just kept saying she wants to focus on self now and isn't even focus on dating, just healing. My mom reached out against my wishes and asked her and she said she was focusing on self but would keep in contact and if I worked myself too she would be open to dating again.
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How y'all think I should play it? She wants to talk Wednesday to discuss closing accounts and shyt like that.

Should I play it strictly business or ask her about how she's been taking it?
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Is*, you know what I mean. I'm talking in the past tense due to the relationship being over.
 

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How y'all think I should play it? She wants to talk Wednesday to discuss closing accounts and shyt like that.

Should I play it strictly business or ask her about how she's been taking it?

Is*, you know what I mean. I'm talking in the past tense due to the relationship being over.
Move on brother. You didn’t want her.

Other brehs time now……..
 

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Something switches on in a woman’s brain sexually when they in a car with you :damn:

If you’re not already, ALWAYS offer to pick her up for a date. Even if it’s annoying distance wise.
Women love seeing a man work. Driving counts as that. I can’t wait to get a manual transmission car. Panty soaker.
 

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How y'all think I should play it? She wants to talk Wednesday to discuss closing accounts and shyt like that.

Should I play it strictly business or ask her about how she's been taking it?

Is*, you know what I mean. I'm talking in the past tense due to the relationship being over.

Why are you playing the fence? lol get the shyt over with. Who cares who she is taking it? She has to get over it and you can't help with it. So cut the ties and both y'all go your separate ways.
 

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Why are you playing the fence? lol get the shyt over with. Who cares who she is taking it? She has to get over it and you can't help with it. So cut the ties and both y'all go your separate ways.
lol you're right but I do hope we can reconcile though. At the same time if we end up coming back together then so be it but I have to focus on myself in the meantime and let go. Can't get too hopefully about reconnection.
 

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lol you're right but I do hope we can reconcile though. At the same time if we end up coming back together then so be it but I have to focus on myself in the meantime and let go. Can't get too hopefully about reconnection.

Recncile for what breh lol. Is this your first LTR?

Ex's being friends literally makes zero sense unless y'all got a kid together and even then that's not being friends it's two adults doing what's needed to raise a kid. Move on breh all you gonna do is frustrate yourself and then come back in this thread talking about the same ol thing.

Just go cry this weekend alone in the crib them book a trip to Cartagena and run through some chicks for a week lol
 

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Worst of all I moved out her apartment and now I'm living in a shytty basement sharing it with two others down there(own rooms though), there is also asbestos on the ceiling. I'm just going to have to leave and head back home. Start over :damn: any advice fellas.

Do you miss her or just want a better place to stay?
 

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Do you miss her or just want a better place to stay?
Nah it ain't about the place, I miss her.

Recncile for what breh lol. Is this your first LTR?

Ex's being friends literally makes zero sense unless y'all got a kid together and even then that's not being friends it's two adults doing what's needed to raise a kid. Move on breh all you gonna do is frustrate yourself and then come back in this thread talking about the same ol thing.

Just go cry this weekend alone in the crib them book a trip to Cartagena and run through some chicks for a week lol
Funny part is me and her went to Cartagena together, you're not helping lol jk.

You're right though that I have to move on and this is my second LTR.
 

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Nah it ain't about the place, I miss her.


Funny part is me and her went to Cartagena together, you're not helping lol jk.

You're right though that I have to move on and this is my second LTR.

Yeah just take a month min (I usually say 2-3 weeks per year ofna relationship), to be alone and reflect and find a new hobby or hobbies to fill the time you'd normally be with her. Realationships ending is like someone dying, that period of that person no longer existing tends to be weird thus you keep thinking about it.
 
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