Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs is not responding to a girl's "sleep well" text enough to upset her? Mind you, I wished her goodnight first.
 

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Hahah and here's another of my current fixations, on digital communication,

the answer is maybe. As people look more and more to texting/messaging to convey status, affection, attraction, it gets very very demanding and confusing as people are often creating scenarios and rules based on their communication, that probably wouldn't apply in person.

Depending on who this person is to you, look at like this, if she walked into the room right now, would she hug you and laugh?

like you going to makeout with me in person, and ghost me on text? How do you process that? Think the key is being clear about your feelings for the person, and not making it all depend on text, which, when you think about is fukking laughable. Like imagine trying to explain to someone from 50 years ago about texting and emojis.
 

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Absolutely lol
Damn. Even if it's a platonic relationship? We had a pretty good texting conversation last night but now she's acting cold ( texted her some work info) usually she'd use that as a springboard to start chatting but she gave the message a 👍 instead.

The night we texted she even shared one of texts on her status (now it's deleted).
 

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The woman I’m about to meet up with is using fat woman angle in her one pic.

I was chilling at home weeks ago a little high and with a slight headache when I matched with her. Stopped talking to her for a couple weeks. Went out with a different much better looking girl. But then she went on vacation for a couple of weeks. So I reconsidered, but then was going to drop her when she asked me out.

Edit: I swung by the place she wanted to go to. It’s a terrible spot for a first date.
 
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Damn. Even if it's a platonic relationship? We had a pretty good texting conversation last night but now she's acting cold ( texted her some work info) usually she'd use that as a springboard to start chatting but she gave the message a 👍 instead.

The night we texted she even shared one of texts on her status (now it's deleted).
women get turned off faster than a Tesla motor. I guess they call it the "ick"

but seriously tho, not answering a good night text could very well be something she takes seriously or sum. But if shes giving you the cold shoulder like this over something very trivial then maybe you're dodging a bullet?
 

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She looked better than her picture. She had 3 kids that she never mentioned before. Only time I’ve ever smashed and regretted it. So many red flags. I gotta do better.
 

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You need a yr alone to focus on self
yerrr


if your finances, mental, and physical arent in complete check, you do yourself a disservice

Better to take as much time you need and really figure out your issues cause no one is gonna know how to figure out your situation other than yourself
 
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