Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Mandarin Duck
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I told her I'm not interested in talking to her anymore today. She was great, but honestly I'm too insecure to be dating. I have a lot of self esteem issues I need to work on before I can date anyone.I went for it
No p*ssyfooting. Just
"make some time for me next weekend"
We'll see what happens.
For the dudes who struggle with women and hate the whole "just be yourself " advice it's I have to say it's kinda true.
I wasn't really tryna flirt with her or anything. I'm just kinda funny, know how to show my personality and I've been told more than once I make people feel comfortable around me real fast.
shyt the first day we met we was in the parking lot waiting in my car just talking while she waited for her ride.
I just kept it real and she said she understands.
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
I'm sure an experienced dude would have smashed. I'm not experienced and have way too many insecurities about myself.
life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
What do you mean by this?
Lol of course I know. It is what it is. As a person who never got women growing up the idea of a woman being interested in me doesn't seem possible.
Whatever conclusion I come to that does not include her being attracted to me makes more sense to me than her actually being attracted to me.
I need therapy before I worry about p*ssy.
life is short... you coulda cracked that hoe but you was scary
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Love to see it.
As we say in this thread people are on their phones constantly if someone is not replying in good time. That tells its own story.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
If you keep putting something off when does it happen?
From what you described this chick was flirting heavily back and was ready to get down. Seems you overthought things and got cold feet.
What would you say you need therapy for?
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
Self esteem issues. Family loss and their response when in a time of need made me mistrust people.
If a woman is showing interest in me and the only thing I can think about is the several women who've rejected me from my past or what other motive she has other than just wanting to know me I feel like something is wrong with me.
You need a yr alone to focus on self
Nah
He can work on himself and if he meets someone and they have interest in each other then that could help him. It doesn’t need to be his focus and isolating himself doesn’t help either.